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	Hi all, I just wanted to take a small space here to say that I found out last week that my cousin Aaron passed away. I forgot to write a blog post about it earlier when I first heard it from my mom, and it felt weird to tack it onto the end of my weekend recap. I did think that I should write something here though, so let me do that now.</p>

<p>
	I remember driving up to West Virginia when we were kids and playing with my cousins Aaron &amp; Sara. I remember splashing around in the pool, petting their dogs, sleeping upstairs with the girls and playing Super Mario Bros. 3 on their Nintendo. (We didn&#39;t have a video game system, so it was super cool.)</p>
<p>
	My mom&#39;s side of the family has never kept in touch well, so I haven&#39;t kept up on what&#39;s been happening with them. I&#39;m not pointing any fingers. I think I may even have inherited some of that bad trait of not keeping in touch with people. I definitely have to put extra effort into those sorts of things. I&#39;m not sure why. I&#39;ve learned to be better as I&#39;ve gotten older, but it&#39;s still something I have to work at. So I&#39;m not judging. Regardless, I haven&#39;t been close to that side of the family.</p>
<p>
	Still, when your mom calls you at work and tells you that your cousin, who is only 33, has died in his apartment, there&#39;s not much you can feel except shock and sadness.</p>
<p>
	Of course, I feel the worst for his mom and sister, but there are many people who were close to him who are dealing with this loss.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m glad that my mom was able to spend this past weekend up there for the funeral service and to reconnect a little. I wish I could&#39;ve gone to do the same, but we had already committed to the wedding down south. I&#39;m happy that she had the opportunity to see everyone and strengthen ties. Perhaps I will have a chance to visit my West Virginia relatives with my mom in tow some time in the future.</p>
<p>
	Because of the sudden nature of the death, an autopsy was performed, but it will be weeks before any results come back. Until then, the family&#39;s in a bit of limbo, not knowing exactly what happened.</p>
<p>
	All I can picture in my head is this kid who used to run around outside shirtless in the summer sun and all the fun we had when we were little.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I would appreciate any prayers for my family during this sad time. Thanks, everyone.</p>

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	This weekend was a whirlwind, but also a calm.</p>
<p>
	The first two days were very full, and after a tiring week, I wasn&rsquo;t sure we&rsquo;d survive. Thank goodness it was a long weekend. I think that last day provided the rejuvenation we both desperately needed!&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	On Saturday, we had breakfast, then got the car packed up to head out of town for the afternoon wedding of one of Adam&rsquo;s friends from college. The wedding was in Stuart, which is about a two-hour drive, so we knew it would pretty much be the whole day, but we were excited about getting to go. Chris &amp; Michelle are both wonderful people and we were looking forward to celebrating with them.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/welcome sign.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	The wedding was small and in the outdoor garden area of the Old Battersea House Wedding Chapel. I don&rsquo;t know how the weather worked out so well because it was slated to rain all week, but somehow it didn&rsquo;t and despite the warm temperatures, it remained overcast and relatively cool.</p>
<p>
	All in all, it was a great time. Dancing, eating, talking and &hellip; cake. Yeah, they went a little crazy!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/cake smash.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	We got back home a little after 8 and fed the cats before they decided to revolt completely.</p>
<p>
	On Sunday, we made it to the last day of Megacon. I swear it takes place earlier every year. We got there right when it opened, so thankfully it wasn&rsquo;t too crowded. We picked up some original artwork, a couple of back issues and a T-shirt.</p>
<p>
	It was fun and we both love going every year, but I think our lack of energy came into play. We only stayed about 2 hours and then dragged ourselves to the grocery store so that on Monday&hellip;</p>
<p>
	We could lie around and do nothing. Which we did.</p>
<p>
	Well, no, that&rsquo;s not completely true. After letting our breakfast digest a bit, we did our weight loss yoga workout and made a healthy lunch for ourselves. But then &hellip; then we became vegetables. And I totally needed it!</p>
<p>
	We even got a surprise episode of Downton Abbey, which was an hour-and-a-half Christmas special. We had thought it was done for the season, with the next one not beginning until next year! All I can say is, if you don&rsquo;t watch it, you should. (Matthew &amp; Mary forever!)</p>

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<title>Have a Little Laugh on (at) Me</title>
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	We all know our brains can be incredibly slow when we&#39;re tired. I&#39;m sure you&#39;ve had occasional mishaps involving not being able to speak, think and do, as I have. I think these are some of the most fun things to share.</p>
<p>
	Sure, it&#39;s embarrassing, but we have to laugh at ourselves or we&#39;ll become full of ourselves, right? So let&#39;s all have a laugh at me today. (And also, Happy Valentine&#39;s Day!)</p>

<p>
	If you read my entry about yoga yesterday, then you know I didn&#39;t sleep well on Sunday &nbsp;night. So I was running pretty low on energy all day yesterday.</p>
<p>
	After Adam and I pulled dinner out of the oven last night, he ran to use the bathroom before we sat down to eat and I decided to open a bottle of wine so I could try a glass with our meal. (It was one I hadn&#39;t had before.)</p>
<p>
	Now, we have one of those fancy bottle openers where you just clamp the top of the bottle, curve the opener&#39;s handle forward and back, and alacazam!, you&#39;re done. (Amazing.) It also has a paper cutter. I don&#39;t know if you know what these look like. Let me see if I can find a picture real quick ... ah, here we go. This is basically it.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/houdini.jpg" style="width: 467px; height: 446px; " /></p>
<p>
	That little round part is what you set over the top of the bottle, then squeeze and turn. It&#39;s got a blade on each side that cuts the paper around the top of the bottle so you can just lift it off. Very handy.</p>
<p>
	So I pop out our little paper cutter and run it around the top of the bottle, only the paper didn&#39;t seem to have gotten cut through all the way around.</p>
<p>
	(In my defense, I&#39;ve had this happen on bottles before, where I had to go around them a few times to get the paper cut all the way through.)</p>
<p>
	But I keep squeezing and turning, over and over, and this paper just did not want to come off. It was driving me crazy! What was going on? That&#39;s when I made one final pass and finally got it off.</p>
<p>
	Only ... it wasn&#39;t paper. It was the top of the lid.</p>
<p>
	I actually stood there with a confused look on my face for a full minute trying to figure out why there was no cork. Did they somehow screw up and forget to cork this bottle? What is happening here?</p>
<p>
	Only to <em>finally</em> realize that I had sliced through the top of a twist-off cap.</p>
<p>
	It was a twist-to-open lid!</p>
<p>
	Granted, I don&#39;t think the ratio of twist-offs to corked bottles is very high, so it makes sense that I wasn&#39;t expecting it, but still! Duuuuumb.</p>
<p>
	I can&#39;t tell you how utterly ridiculous I felt. I mean, I will never pretend to be a wine snob. I know very little actually, other than what I like and what I don&#39;t. And it&#39;s not like I&#39;ve never bought wine bottles that were twist-offs before. I don&#39;t know. It was just my expectation that this bottle was corked plus my tired brain that didn&#39;t allow me to consider what the top looked like before I started slashing away at it.</p>
<p>
	I even heard the air pressure release at one point and couldn&#39;t understand what was going on.</p>
<p>
	But dang, that cutter must be pretty sharp!</p>
<p>
	I even meant to tell Adam about it afterward ... Well, for a moment, I wasn&#39;t going to because I felt so stupid, but then I decided it was silly not to because who am I that I can&#39;t do stupid things? And he&#39;d get a laugh out of it, so it would be worth it. But I was so tired (as previously stated), that I forgot.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I plugged the bottle up with one of our wine bottle stoppers, put it back in the fridge and immediately let it slip from my mind.</p>
<p>
	So hopefully he&#39;ll get a good laugh reading this too.</p>

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	A couple weeks ago, I decided to finally act on an idea I&#39;d had for a while. I bought a yoga video for Adam and me to try out. We&#39;ve been pretty good about going to the gym before work lately, but I wanted to mix it up with strength training and flexibility too.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I found an older yoga video put out by NBC&#39;s The Biggest Loser show, featuring trainer Bob Harper. If you&#39;ve ever watched the show, you know Bob is really nice, but also really scary. That man does not care about your pain. (I mean, look at that smile. It&#39;s got layers.)&nbsp;He also has a more intense yoga workout DVD available, but we got this one because we figured it would be more manageable first thing in the morning ... ha!</p>

<p>
	I&#39;ve never had a stupider thought. This workout is HARD.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/biggest loser yoga.jpg" style="width: 347px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	We did it 3 times last week and it was only by the 3rd time that I managed to do the whole thing without taking any of the alternative modifications (except for two push-ups where I had to go down to my knees because my arms were shaking too badly).</p>
<p>
	I was so proud of myself.</p>
<p>
	Of course, this morning, I barely got through any of the workout, from the very beginning, but I also slept absolutely horribly last night. I really should say I didn&#39;t sleep instead because it feels more accurate. Anyway, I totally blame my bad yoga performance on that. I didn&#39;t have any strength in my body and felt like I was going to pass out a little later during and after my shower. So we&#39;ll write that off as a bad idea from the beginning.</p>
<p>
	This week we&#39;re switching off: two days of yoga, two days at the gym, mixed together. We&#39;ll see how that goes.</p>
<p>
	The best part is that Adam likes it. It&#39;s a good workout, we don&#39;t have to go anywhere to do it and we feel accomplished and relaxed afterward. I never thought I&#39;d get him to do yoga, much less like doing it, so this is great! For $7 (plus shipping), I think we&#39;ve already gotten our money&#39;s worth.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I should probably confess that this monstrous workout is only the Level 1 workout (of 3). I have no idea when we&#39;ll feel confident enough to try the next one.&nbsp;It can&#39;t be that much harder, right? I mean, humans have to be able to do it...</p>
<p>
	I do feel like I have to put in my absolute best effort every time. And that&#39;s a good thing. If there&#39;s one thing I can say about myself with absolute certainty, it&#39;s that I like a challenge. I think I even need a challenge to feel like I accomplished something.</p>
<p>
	One other thing I am absolutely certain about? I have weenie arms.&nbsp;</p>

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<title>Pulling the Plug on Cable</title>
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<p>
	Adam and I recently made the decision to drop cable. We haven&rsquo;t done it yet, but we took the first step yesterday. I know we&rsquo;re far from the first to try this out (and the last to research some of these services), but we&rsquo;re still excited.</p>
<p>
	Follow the link to read about our process. It&rsquo;s detailed. So only read if you&rsquo;re interested in doing this for yourself. Seriously. It&rsquo;s long.</p>

<p>
	Here was our thinking:</p>
<p>
	1. We already buy some shows through iTunes that we want to be able to watch again later because they are SO good (Downton Abbey, I&rsquo;m winking at you)! Would we save money just buying a few additional shows (and forcing ourselves to drop others) instead of paying for cable? (The added benefit being not having to watch ads.)</p>
<p>
	2. If we drop cable, how will we continue watching NBA games, news/weather and a couple of shows we&rsquo;d rather not buy because they have no re-watch value but still want to see?</p>
<p>
	3. If we&rsquo;re buying more shows than we have been until now, how will we store them? Will we need to buy a Mac mini and/or a couple of large external drives?</p>
<p>
	This was our process:</p>
<p>
	<strong>Savings: Part I</strong></p>
<p>
	Here&rsquo;s the basic math. Our cable service costs $71/month before taxes and fees. This adds up to more than $850/year (I&rsquo;m not adding in those fees &amp; taxes, but they&rsquo;d probably boost it another $150-200. But let&rsquo;s just stick with $850 since I like to calculate the lowest possible savings, knowing it&rsquo;s likely more rather than what could happen with the reverse.)</p>
<p>
	We made a list of the shows we weren&rsquo;t already buying that we would like to keep watching. A couple we would like to buy; some we&rsquo;d prefer to stream on subscription or rent (not currently available through iTunes, but maybe in the future). Those being mostly contestant-based shows where, once you know the winner, you don&rsquo;t ever need to watch again.</p>
<p>
	So let&rsquo;s talk about streaming options&hellip;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Netflix</strong></p>
<p>
	We signed up for a free month of Netflix last night. So far, it seems like a great way to access dated content. I mean that as a slam, but I also don&rsquo;t.</p>
<p>
	While you can&rsquo;t get anything current, it provides access to lots of movies for very little money ($7.99/mo.) and lots of older TV shows (or older seasons of current shows), some of which cost quite a lot to buy (e.g., Star Trek &ndash; over $100) but can be watched inexpensively through this service.</p>
<p>
	However, it does not solve our problem of wanting to stream current shows.</p>
<p>
	So, why not just wait a year for those shows to become available? You don&rsquo;t need to watch them immediately as they air to enjoy them, do you? I&rsquo;m glad you asked because I agree and that was our initial thought.</p>
<p>
	But apparently, the large majority of the shows we want to watch in particular are not available digitally, but only through Netflix&rsquo;s DVD mailing service, which is a separate monthly fee of $7.99. Which means we&rsquo;d probably have to do that instead of the digital subscription in order to get what we want, but then we&rsquo;d not only be waiting a year after each show to get to watch it (and potentially have the outcome ruined), but we&rsquo;d also have to deal with physical DVDs getting mailed and returned, which is really not the easy solution we&rsquo;re going for here.</p>
<p>
	We&rsquo;re thinking of keeping Netflix after the free trial month anyway for some of its other uses, but that&rsquo;s neither here nor there.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Hulu</strong></p>
<p>
	On first glance, signing up for service with Hulu Plus seemed to be exactly what we wanted. It has a huge advantage over Netflix in the TV department, although there is a trade-off. Unlike with Netflix, you can actually get current episodes the day after they air for the same $7.99 monthly fee, but you get ads in the content to help pay for the privilege.</p>
<p>
	Still, I&rsquo;d be willing to put up with a few ads to save money. And we were pleased to find that we could stream Hulu through our Xbox LIVE membership.</p>
<p>
	Only &hellip; most of the shows we want are not provided directly through Hulu, but are linked to their TV network&rsquo;s website, meaning you can&rsquo;t stream it to the TV. You&rsquo;d have to watch it on a computer. So not only would we have to watch the content with ads, we wouldn&rsquo;t be able to watch those shows on our TV. Kinda seems worse than cable, huh?</p>
<p>
	So, without a really good content streaming subscription available, we wondered, &ldquo;How are we going to store all of these shows if we have to buy them?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Storage</strong></p>
<p>
	Imagining the storage space needed for a few years&rsquo; worth of shows is scary. It starts to get pricey real fast. An external drive a backup drive get you into the hundreds of dollars immediately.</p>
<p>
	So, we did a little more research on the Apple TV 2 and decided to buy one yesterday. This newer model stores everything &ldquo;in the cloud&rdquo; instead of on a local drive, meaning that all of your purchased content resides on Apple&rsquo;s server, but you have access to it 24/7. Problem solved!</p>
<p>
	For only $100, that is a great deal. We would&rsquo;ve spent a lot more on storage equipment.</p>
<p>
	<strong>NBA</strong></p>
<p>
	One of the neatest features of the Apple TV 2 is that you can subscribe to various sports leagues. Without paying anything, you can see what games are airing that night, check standings and watch game highlights.</p>
<p>
	For the NBA League Pass subscription, you can watch up to 5 teams for the whole season. I&rsquo;m not sure how that works since we haven&rsquo;t signed up yet. I imagine you&rsquo;d have to select the teams you want and then they&rsquo;d allow access to just those. For us, we really just want the Magic.</p>
<p>
	The pass is $109 for the season. It seems like a lot, especially since most TV shows don&rsquo;t exceed $50 even if you&rsquo;re buying the HD version, but if you consider that there are 82 games in a season, it&rsquo;s only $1.33 a game. (Way less if you&rsquo;re watching all 5 teams.)</p>
<p>
	<strong>News/Weather</strong></p>
<p>
	The last remaining thing is to be able to check the news or weather. I mean, really, for the most part you can find everything online nowadays. But for instances where we need to see what&rsquo;s going on with a storm or simply want to see what&rsquo;s happening, I think we&rsquo;ll probably buy a cheap antenna.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Savings: Part II</strong></p>
<p>
	After deciding to use the Apple TV 2 for our content and stream our content from Apple, I chose the additional shows we wanted to buy if we dropped cable and decided which we&rsquo;d rather watch in HD and which didn&rsquo;t matter so much. I wrote down the prices listed on iTunes and added everything up.</p>
<p>
	Then I added the NBA League Pass and our Netflix subscription (since I figure we&rsquo;ll probably keep it so we can have cheap movie nights and so on) and our total came out to a guesstimated $650-$700.</p>
<p>
	Remember what cable costs? That&rsquo;s right. Assuming an expenditure of only $850 (though we all know it&rsquo;s more) and comparing it to a non-cable expenditure of $700 or less (minus the startup cost of buying the Apple TV 2 and an antenna, which will wash over time), that&rsquo;s a minimum savings of $150/year.</p>
<p>
	It may not seem like a lot, but here are the benefits for me:</p>
<p>
	We won&rsquo;t have to watch commercials in our shows anymore.</p>
<p>
	We&rsquo;ll be encouraging ourselves to watch less TV once we&rsquo;re paying for shows individually.</p>
<p>
	Even if it&rsquo;s a small savings, it&rsquo;s a savings. And that&rsquo;s $150 (or more) that we can spend on something else this year for ourselves.</p>

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<p>
	I know I originally said I wasn&#39;t going to put up recipes on Fridays because it&#39;s the weekend and we should be sticking to fun things. You see how long that decision lasted.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	The reason for this one is that Adam and I put our leftovers from Monday in the microwave to keep any kitty faces out of them until they&#39;d cooled enough to put away ... and then forgot them there and left them out overnight. So we needed a new dinner to fill out the rest of the week and jointly chose something new to try. It was so good I had to share it.</p>

<p>
	Unfortunately, I wasn&#39;t planning to blog this dinner, so I only happen to have a picture because Adam randomly decided to snap one with his phone before we sat down to eat last night. I don&#39;t know why I didn&#39;t plan to blog it. I think I&#39;m just off track since getting sick earlier.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, let&#39;s get to the fish at hand.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m sure I&#39;ve said this before, but I&#39;ll say it again: I&#39;m not a huge fish eater and I&#39;m especially not a huge fan of cooking fish at home because of the lingering smell. However, I think part of my problem is I always try to cook specific fish for the Omega-3 fats (salmon) and I somehow end up cooking it mostly the same way.</p>
<p>
	I can&#39;t tell you how many times I&#39;ve chosen a fish meal for the week and then, by the time it comes around to cooking it, I end up really not being in the mood and having to force myself to eat it.</p>
<p>
	So, recently, I decided I was just going to cook any fish any way that looked different and interesting so that we actually look forward to eating it. Because, really, all fish is good for you, and variety is key.</p>
<p>
	This recipe is a blackened fish taco made with tilapia. I&#39;m 50/50 on tilapia. I&#39;ve had it prepared certain ways that I liked and other ways that I really didn&#39;t. So I&#39;m learning that sometimes it&#39;s not the fish that I feel strongly about so much as it is the way that fish is served.</p>
<p>
	This fish? This fish is delish.</p>
<p>
	I will admit that blackening things in an apartment without any real stovetop ventilation is kind of a trial. We were both coughing on the seasonings filtering through the air. But it was totally worth it in this case. (And as far as lingering smell goes ... when we walked back into the house this morning after working out, it smelled like bacon to me because of the seasonings. No fishy smell!)</p>
<p>
	Three quick notes:</p>
<p>
	First, the recipe I got says the preparation time is 20 minutes. Ha! I don&#39;t know where these cook times come from. I mean, are they only counting the time it takes to actually prepare everything after you chop and measure everything? It took us 45. Maybe we&#39;re just slow. Still, not bad for a weeknight meal.</p>
<p>
	Second, we heated the corn taco shells as directed, but they split apart when we were trying to eat them. Part of that is probably because we couldn&#39;t find 6-inch taco shells, so there was too much filling for the smaller size, but also I think the heat softened them too much. I probably won&#39;t warm them next time. (Eating them with a knife and fork was just as tasty though!)</p>
<p>
	Third, we had apparently run out of paprika. So we just added a little extra of all the other seasonings to make sure there was enough to coat the fish. It was still great, so just imagine how much more awesome it&#39;ll be next time <em>with</em> paprika.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, this is a great recipe and really easy to make. One of my favorite parts was the jalapeno sauce you blend together and stir the onions into. (Speaking of which, this had a slight kick to it in places, but wasn&#39;t very spicy. I&#39;m not big on spicy foods, so you can trust me!)&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<strong>One tip:</strong> Don&#39;t dice jalapeno and then touch your eye EVEN IF YOU&#39;VE WASHED YOUR HANDS. Just don&#39;t do it. That&#39;s all I&#39;m sayin&#39;.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/blackened fish tacos.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>

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	<em>From myrecipes.com</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>Ingredients</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1/4 cup reduced-fat sour cream</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. chopped fresh cilantro</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. fresh lime juice (2-3 limes)</li>
	<li>
		1 jalape&ntilde;o pepper, seeded and chopped</li>
	<li>
		1 cup thinly sliced white onion</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 tsp. paprika</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 tsp. brown sugar</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. dried oregano</li>
	<li>
		3/4 tsp. garlic powder</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. ground cumin</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. ground red pepper</li>
	<li>
		4 (6-oz.) tilapia fillets</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. canola oil</li>
	<li>
		8 (6-inch) corn tortillas</li>
	<li>
		1/2 ripe peeled avocado, thinly sliced</li>
	<li>
		4 lime wedges</li>
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<p>
	<strong>Preparation</strong></p>
<p>
	Prep all produce; measure other ingredients.</p>
<p>
	Combine first 4 ingredients in a food processor; process until smooth. Combine jalape&ntilde;o sauce and onion in a small bowl.</p>
<p>
	Combine paprika and next 6 ingredients (through ground red pepper); sprinkle evenly over fish. Heat oil in a large cast-iron skillet over medium-high heat. Add fish to pan; cook 3-5 minutes on each side or until desired degree of doneness.</p>
<p>
	Warm tortillas according to package directions, if desired. Divide fish, onion mixture, and avocado evenly among tortillas. Serve with lime wedges.</p>


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	It&#39;s nice when a new thing starts and it&#39;s so much fun it slowly becomes a tradition. Twice now, we&#39;ve gotten our Orlando family members together to spend the day in the park, grilling out, playing games and just talking. It&#39;s amazing how 4 or 5 hours in beautiful weather with good food and good company can restore your spirit after a busy week.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m already looking forward to the next one. I hope it comes soon (before the weather gets hot)!</p>

<p>
	I had this great idea to take pictures of the day and put them on my blog. We made burgers &amp; hot dogs, played cornhole (which I greatly improved upon over last time!) and had a great time.</p>
<p>
	Unfortunately, I did the same thing I do every time I&#39;m having a lot of fun ... I just participated and forgot to document it. I&#39;m terrible, right? If I ever have kids, there isn&#39;t going to be much record of anything we do. Actually, I take that back. We&#39;ll have tons of pictures, but Adam won&#39;t be in any of them because he&#39;ll be the one taking them all. Because he <em>is</em> good about it when he plans for it.</p>
<p>
	I really stink at photographing events. I feel like I want to do everything, not step back and photograph other people doing those things.</p>
<p>
	I need to get better at this!</p>
<p>
	I managed to shoot one photo with my phone before I promptly forgot about pictures.</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s kind of a weird action shot with too much sunlight in the background. Patrick&#39;s seeing if the fire is still going. And Adam is clearly regaling us all with a great story.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s strange that this will be my one documented memory of this day and yet, I kind of love this picture for it&#39;s randomness. It gets to represent the whole day and I think it does it well.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/park day.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>

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	Adam managed to get some good pictures of the near-un-photographable Chloe. I don&#39;t know how since she&#39;s terrified of him in addition to her belief in the power of soul-stealing cameras. I swear she knows when I&#39;m aiming my phone at her. She has a new favorite toy: these little Nerf darts that you&#39;re supposed to shoot from a gun. She&#39;s taken to walking around with them in her mouth, much like Jasper does with her stuffed bear, Amelia, and making loud, plaintive sounds. I have no idea what this means in cat behavior, but it&#39;s truly adorable (although when they&#39;re out of sight when they do it, it also sounds like they might be severely injured). I tried to take video of her playing with one of the darts last night. As soon as I got my phone aimed at her, she jumped to the top of the cat tree and sat as still as a statue for the next 10 minutes. Sigh...</p>

<p>
	She starts out ever so suspicious in this photo. &quot;Yeeeeess? What are you doing back there?&quot;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/chloe 1.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	But slowly comes around in the next with a slightly more coy (but still suspicious) head tilt. I think she looks a little less tense because she&#39;s got her dart with her this time. (Gack! Where did her legs go?!) FYI, Adam told me he got on the floor, then crawled bit by bit on his stomach so as not to make her run away before he could snap this. Redonk.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/chloe 2.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	And then finally, she relaxes into Happy Chloe, whom the world rarely gets a glimpse of.</p>
<p>
	Aaaahhh, my Monday is much better now.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/chloe 3.JPG" style="cursor: default; width: 500px; height: 500px; " /></p>

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<p>
	I don&#39;t know what it is, but apparently it&#39;s a requirement for me to get sick every January. I got sick last January and I&#39;m slowly recovering from another illness that just struck me over the weekend.</p>
<p>
	I hate using almost half of my sick time at the beginning of the year, but more than that, I feel like I should be able to make it more than a year without getting sick. Grrr.</p>

<p>
	Last Thursday and Friday, I started to feel run down and had slightly labored breathing, but I just assigned it to end-of-the week tiredness.</p>
<p>
	I was wrong.</p>
<p>
	On Saturday, Adam and I were out and I really had to run to the restroom. And then I had to run to the restroom a few more times after that. And that&#39;s where I&#39;m going to leave the details on that symptom.</p>
<p>
	I thought that was basically the problem by itself, but then Sunday about lunchtime, my energy took a nosedive. In the course of 30 minutes, I went from cleaning up a little to lying almost passed out on the couch. I had no appetite for 3 days and didn&#39;t have the energy to even care whether I watched TV or stared at the wall.</p>
<p>
	By the evening, I developed a temperature, which finally got to about 101, or at least that&#39;s the last time we measured it before bed. I was shivering so convulsively, I felt like I had a touch of Tourette&#39;s. I sweated out the fever overnight and felt extremely achy all the next day.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I spent the rest of Monday and Tuesday recovering from that low point (and sweated out another fever the second night) and then took yesterday off work as well to give myself a chance to get a good night&#39;s rest and ease back slowly into the land of the living.</p>
<p>
	So, I&#39;m finally back at work today, making this a very short (and hopefully not too stressful) week for me.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Anyway, that&#39;s my update and it&#39;s also why I haven&#39;t updated the blog this week.</p>
<p>
	Hopefully I won&#39;t have any relapses because of course I had insomnia last night, the night before I was returning to work, and so I&#39;m still feeling a bit low energy today. Adam did too, so at least we got to commiserate that neither one of us was sleeping. He hasn&#39;t been feeling too well either, so I think he&#39;s got the same bug with slightly different symptoms.</p>
<p>
	Let&#39;s hope we both start recovering! It is a miserable bug to catch.</p>

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	I had to do at least one more thing with blood oranges before they go out of season. Which may not be until March or April, for all I know, but since I don&rsquo;t know, I wanted to make use of them quickly. I remember what happened to me when I discovered rhubarb.</p>
<p>
	I can&rsquo;t think of a much better use for a delicious fruit than putting it in either a salad, which we already did, or putting it in a dessert. So let&rsquo;s do that now.</p>

<p>
	I&rsquo;ve been learning new ways to prepare ingredients this week. Not on purpose. It just happened.</p>
<p>
	For this cake, I had to learn how to &ldquo;supreme&rdquo; an orange. I didn&rsquo;t even know that was a verb. Lol. And for some quesadillas we made, I learned to &ldquo;chiffonade&rdquo; spinach.</p>
<p>
	To supreme an orange, you first slice just enough of the top and bottom off to reveal the flesh of the orange.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Supreme 1(1).jpg" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Then, using the visible flesh as a guide, you slice off the peel and pith from top to bottom in strips until your orange is totally bald and free of fibers.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Supreme 2.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Lastly, you cut between the segments to release the orange flesh from the fibrous casings and wapow!&nbsp;You have totally nekkid fruit.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Supremed.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Blood orange cake slices.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	(To chiffonade spinach, you stack a bunch of leaves on top of each other. About 5 seemed to work best for me. Then you roll them up loosely from bottom to top and make thin vertical slices with a knife. It basically makes long thin shreds.)</p>
<p>
	Anyway, the information about my spinach is neither here nor there, although I like learning new things.</p>
<p>
	I enjoyed mixing the orange zest and sugar with my fingers. I didn&rsquo;t think I would, but I did. Very pretty too. And easy to rinse off, unlike when you get butter on your fingers. And remember what I said about the wonderful aroma you get when zesting a lemon? Just as wonderful with an orange.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Sugar and zest.JPG" style="cursor: default; width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Also, how amazing is the color of this blood orange juice mixed with buttermilk? Looks like a strawberry smoothie, doesn&rsquo;t it? Just as pretty as the zesty sugar. I totally agree with the statement that you eat with your eyes first. If the color of the blood oranges didn&rsquo;t grab you from the start, I think these images should do the trick.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Juice and buttermilk.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	The other interesting point about this cake is that it uses olive oil instead of butter, which I didn&rsquo;t find extremely noticeable in the final flavor, although I guess I did sense a more earthy flavor to it rather than a heavy, sweet flavor. And, of course, even though you shouldn&rsquo;t overdo any fats, olive oil is better for you than butter, so there&rsquo;s that.</p>
<p>
	The cake is divine by itself. It reminded me a bit of the pecan tart with cranberries or the coffee cake with rhubarb, both from my 52 Sundays project. It&rsquo;s sweet and delicious with occasional pops of tartness.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Sliced blood orange cake.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	It&rsquo;s taken to an even higher level with the compote and whipped cream, so don&rsquo;t skip them! Using these components makes the sweet-tart contrast even more pronounced and it is glorious. (I did forget to cut the compote oranges into little pieces, but oh well.)</p>
<p>
	Hmmm &hellip; I seem to like this combo a lot, don&rsquo;t I? I remember also talking about liking my key lime pies really tart with a sweet cr&egrave;me fraiche on top. Well, don&rsquo;t fix what ain&rsquo;t broke, right?&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Finished blood orange cake.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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	From smittenkitchen.com.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Ingredients</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		Butter &amp; flour for greasing pan</li>
	<li>
		3 blood oranges</li>
	<li>
		1 C. (200 grams) sugar</li>
	<li>
		Scant 1/2 cup (118 ml) buttermilk or plain yogurt</li>
	<li>
		3 large eggs</li>
	<li>
		2/3 C. extra virgin olive oil</li>
	<li>
		1 3/4 C. (219 grams) all-purpose flour</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 tsp. (8 grams) baking powder</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. baking soda</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		Honey-blood orange compote, for serving (optional, below)</li>
	<li>
		Whipped cream, for serving (optional)</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>Preparation</strong></p>
<p>
	Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Butter a 9-by-5-inch loaf pan and dust with flour to coat lightly.</p>
<p>
	Grate zest from 2 oranges and place in a bowl with sugar. Using your fingers, rub ingredients together until orange zest is evenly distributed in sugar.</p>
<p>
	Supreme an orange: Cut off bottom and top so fruit is exposed and orange can stand upright on a cutting board. Cut away peel and pith, following curve of fruit with your knife. Cut orange segments out of their connective membranes and let them fall into a bowl. Repeat with another orange. Break up segments with your fingers to about 1/4-inch pieces.</p>
<p>
	Halve remaining orange and squeeze juice into a measuring cup; you&rsquo;ll have about 1/4 C. Add buttermilk or yogurt to juice until you have 2/3 cup liquid altogether. Pour mixture into bowl with sugar and whisk well. Whisk in eggs and olive oil.</p>
<p>
	In another bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Gently stir dry ingredients into wet ones. Fold in pieces of orange segments. Pour batter into prepared pan.</p>
<p>
	Bake cake for 50 to 55 minutes, or until it is golden and a tester inserted into center comes out clean. Cool on a rack for 5-10 minutes, then unmold and cool to room temperature right-side up. Serve with whipped cream and honey-blood orange compote (below), if desired.</p>
<p>
	Honey-Blood Orange Compote: Supreme 3 more blood oranges according to directions above. Drizzle in 1 to 2 teaspoons honey. Let sit for 5 minutes, then stir gently.</p>


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	You all know how I love a good grammar joke or typo by now. I&#39;m not the world expert on words and their usage, and I certainly make mistakes from time to time like anyone else, but I pride myself on knowing more than the average joe and I really enjoy finding errors that should have been caught by the people paying for an ad or printing an article, etc. Items where money has been invested and extra care should be taken.</p>
<p>
	So you may get a smile out of the fact that I appear to be rubbing off on Adam. Here&#39;s a fun one he caught when picking up the mail a few days ago.</p>

<p>
	It starts out fine and all. A flyer against casinos in Florida in attention-grabbing fonts and colors.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Gambling flyer front.JPG" /></p>
<p>
	And obviously they know how to spell &quot;gambling&quot; because there it is in yellow-blocked font across the front of the postcard. But somebody didn&#39;t proofread carefully enough because they missed a big one on the back. Not even in the body text, but the title...</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Cambling.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	I know the font is in all caps and is pretty narrow, which makes it slightly more difficult to read, but really, if your whole flyer is about (or against) gambling, you should be sure to get it right in all instances.</p>
<p>
	God knows we have serious issues with cambling here in Florida, but maybe they should&#39;ve saved that for a second postcard.</p>
<p>
	(Just to be clear, I didn&#39;t smudge out the phone number on the front of the postcard. I didn&#39;t even noticed it was like that until just proofreading my blog post right now. Weird.)</p>

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	I first saw a blood orange online about a year or two ago. I had never bought or tried one until this last weekend. Now I really hope they stick around for a while because I have plans for them and I&#39;d hate to have to wait until next season.</p>
<p>
	They can look identical to a regular orange on the outside, although some have mottled colors, but cut them open and you&#39;re in for a surprise. (Well, maybe not now that I&#39;ve given you a photo here. And maybe not if, unlike me, you&#39;ve known about blood oranges for years. It&#39;s totally possible.)</p>

<p>
	The colors vary from orange to puce. And they often occur within the same fruit. It&#39;s absolutely gorgeous. And since we eat with our eyes first, these pictures should set your mouth watering.</p>
<p>
	I believe they&#39;re mostly grown in California. At least, I&#39;ve seen California bloggers write about them and the ones I found in Whole Foods were shipped from there. So that explains why, having been mainly a Publix girl all my life, I hadn&#39;t seen them before. Or at least I never noticed them until I saw Deb from Smitten Kitchen put up recipes for them and that got my attention.</p>
<p>
	Flavor-wise, they&#39;re somewhere between a naval orange and grapefruit. A little tart, but not super tart.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/blood orange with slices.jpg" style="width: 333px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Okay now, prepare yourself for what&#39;s coming next.</p>
<p>
	I love this salad.</p>
<p>
	If you know me at all, you know, as I&#39;ve often said on my site, that I am not a salad eater.&nbsp;But this salad. This might be my all time favorite salad. Something about it feels complete.</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s sweet, it&#39;s tart, it&#39;s juicy, it&#39;s salty, it&#39;s smooth, it&#39;s crunchy. It has so much contrast, I don&#39;t know what more you could want.</p>
<p>
	The one thing I added to it was pomegranate seeds. I&#39;d never eaten them before, but I&#39;ve seen them on basically every food website on the Internet and I was tired of wondering what they taste like. When I was picking a salad for my lunch, I was torn between three and after choosing this one, I added the one ingredient that had been on both of the eliminated salads but not this one: pomegranate arils.</p>
<p>
	They&#39;re pretty amazing. I don&#39;t know if I&#39;d just sit there and shovel them into my mouth, though the ones I bought (Pom) come with a little spoon clipped to the underside of the lid. But they&#39;re bright and juicy, then crunchy on the inside. A great salad topper that I&#39;ll make use of in the future.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/blood orange salad.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Personally, I don&#39;t even think this salad needs a dressing, although you can certainly add one (and there&#39;s a recommendation in the recipe). Eaten without a dressing, it comes in at 194 calories, which is not bad at all for a salad with avocado, cheese and seeds in it.</p>
<p>
	I paired this salad with my lemon date spread and naan all week for lunch and I loved both recipes so much, I&#39;m doing it again next week.</p>
<p>
	And really, after all that banana cake, a salad sounds just about right, don&#39;t you think?</p>
<p>
	Although I won&#39;t be making it easy for you. Assuming I can still find blood oranges when I hit the grocery store today, I&#39;ll be picking up some extras as well for another dessert I&#39;m making this weekend ... stop by in a few days to find out what!</p>
<p>
	Oh, and I know the office lighting on the finished salad probably doesn&#39;t do a lot for you, but trust me, this is amazing.</p>

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	<em>From joythebaker.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 1/2 C. spinach</li>
	<li>
		1/2 blood orange, peeled and sliced</li>
	<li>
		1/4 avocado, sliced</li>
	<li>
		1/2 Tbsp. sunflower seeds</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. crumbled reduced-fat feta</li>
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		2 Tbsp. pomegranate arils</li>
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	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Prepare salad toppings as you wish, either slicing or chopping the orange and avocado.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Arrange a bed of spinach in a plate or bowl. Top with remaining ingredients.</p>
<p>
	If you desire a dressing to top with (although it&#39;s fine without), mix some pomegranate juice with at about a 2 to 1 ratio with olive oil.</p>


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<p>
	This is not a &quot;healthy&quot; recipe, although as far as desserts go, it shouldn&#39;t make you feel too guilty. I hadn&#39;t done a dessert in so long, it was almost exhilarating to get back in the kitchen with a new recipe for something sweet.</p>
<p>
	But I&#39;m sure you don&#39;t mind. Even if you&#39;re in January-cleanse-and-lose-weight mode, we&#39;re all ready to relax our diets a tad on Fridays, right? And if this looks appealing, you have the whole weekend to make your own!</p>

<p>
	LOL. I had to start with that photo of Jasper&#39;s head hovering over the slice of cake. These are the hazards of being us and trying to blog about food. This just happened about 10 minutes ago while Adam was doing me a favor and getting a last-minute photo of a slice of cake since, by the time we got to eat it on Sunday, the sun had gone away.</p>
<p>
	Oh, unrelated, are these flowers gorgeous or what? I clipped and arranged them right before I got started in the kitchen.</p>
<p>
	I love snapdragons both because of their beautiful colors and also because I love pulling the petals apart to make the &quot;dragon mouth&quot; and going &quot;roooaaarrr.&quot; Yeah ... I really do that. What?</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Snapdragons.jpg" style="width: 333px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	And something about the color of these flowers next to the orange curtain is amazing. I kind of love them together.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Snapdragons closeup.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Okay, back to the cake.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s a lot like banana bread, except a little fluffier. The bread version is usually more dense but the flavors are similar.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/bananas in the sun.jpg" style="width: 333px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	I usually do recipes seasonally so that whatever I&#39;m making is the best that it can be, but bananas are grown year-round, so they&#39;re pretty much the same quality all the time. Which, if you&#39;re reading between the lines here, means you can make this cake <strong>whenever you want</strong>.</p>
<p>
	And that&#39;s good because it&#39;s yummy!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/spreading the batter.jpg" style="width: 333px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	I&#39;m not sure that I often have cravings for bananas, but I saw this recipe while browsing the web and I really really really had to make it. So maybe this is the closest I&#39;ve come to needing a banana in my belly.</p>
<p>
	I had to include this next photo. See? She is so bad!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/food weasel.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	The icing is perfect. It&#39;s very sweet, has great vanilla flavor and isn&#39;t piled on too thickly. Because with the level of sweetness in this icing, you wouldn&#39;t want to overdo it. It would totally kill the banana flavor.</p>
<p>
	As it was, Adam said he had trouble tasting the banana in his first piece. After it had chilled in the fridge a couple more days, he said he could taste it better in another slice.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/baked banana cake.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	I disagreed. I tasted the banana every time. But I can see what he was saying: vanilla tends to trump banana since banana is a more subtle flavor and vanilla is so fragrant.</p>
<p>
	It was probably also my fault for not deciding to make this until the last minute before going grocery shopping because I had to buy slightly green bananas and they had only two days to sit in a paper bag and ripen. I would&#39;ve liked them to be a little more brown, so perhaps that would have enhanced the banana flavor.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/iced banana cake.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Also, I cheated a little with the vanilla bean seeds. I did have a vanilla bean, but apparently it had been in the pantry a while because it was brittle. Thankfully, I also have a little test tube container with dried vanilla powder (I think it&#39;s ground up seeds) from a farmer&#39;s market trip. So I just guesstimated a couple dashes of that.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, the two flavors are fantastic paired together and it is a very light dessert.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s easy and tasty, and I can&#39;t wait to eat my last slice tonight!</p>
<p>
	(If you want to see where my hair&#39;s grown out to at this point, you can check the <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/elixirgraphics/sets/72157628810641699/">rest of the pictures</a> on Flickr.)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/banana cake slice.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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	<em>From bakedbree.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2/3 C. sugar</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. butter, room temperature</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. sour cream</li>
	<li>
		3/4 C. mashed very ripe banana (about 2 bananas)</li>
	<li>
		1 egg</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. vanilla extract</li>
	<li>
		1 C. flour</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. baking soda</li>
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<p>
	Vanilla Bean Frosting:</p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. butter, room temperature</li>
	<li>
		1 1/4 C. confectioners sugar</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. heavy cream</li>
	<li>
		1/2 vanilla bean, seeded and scraped</li>
	<li>
		pinch of salt</li>
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<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Preheat the oven to 375 degrees F. Coat a 9x9-inch pan with cooking spray.</p>
<p>
	Cream together butter and sugar. Add the sour cream.</p>
<p>
	Add the mashed banana and the vanilla extract.</p>
<p>
	In a small bowl, whisk together the flour, salt and baking soda. Add to the mixing bowl and mix just until combined, scraping down sides as necessary with a spatula.<br />
	<br />
	Pour the batter into the pan and bake in the preheated oven for 20-25 minutes.&nbsp;The cake will be done when a tester comes out clean.&nbsp;Let the cake cool completely.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Start on the frosting by creaming together the butter and confectioners sugar. Add the heavy cream slowly and beat until smooth and fluffy. Add the scraped vanilla bean and a pinch of salt.</p>
<p>
	Spread the vanilla bean frosting over the cooled cake and serve.</p>


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	So, this was the first thing I made after we got the house spruced up and peeled back the curtains to let the sun come in this past weekend. I found a new food blogger that I love and this is one of the first recipes I saw. It looked a little weird and a little foreign, but potentially fabulous.</p>
<p>
	I decided to go for it.</p>

<p>
	I think it&rsquo;s safe to say that the majority of Americans don&rsquo;t chow down on dates all that often. I can raise my hand with that group for sure. It&rsquo;s not that there&rsquo;s a reason for them to be especially scary. They&rsquo;re sort of like giant raisins. And we all eat raisins, right?</p>
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	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/date box.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	I think it has more to do with not growing up with them in the house. They&rsquo;re unfamiliar territory. Well this spread might change your mind. It&rsquo;s changed mine!</p>
<p>
	First thing about dates &hellip; they&rsquo;re stiiiiicky. I suppose that&rsquo;s the same as any dried fruit. After you&rsquo;ve handled a few of them, it&rsquo;s hard not to super glue your fingers to everything you touch.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Ever wanted to know what the inside looks like? Here ya go.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Inside a Date.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	And that would be the major difference between the raisin and the date. Dates have pits. Don&#39;t hurt your teeth.</p>
<p>
	They&#39;re also a little more fibrous than I would have expected. But I suppose that has to do with there being a pit. No big deal. I don&#39;t think you would notice it if you just popped one in your mouth.</p>
<p>
	I had to take at least two breaks to de-sticky my fingers in the sink so I could keep going, but eventually I ended up with what I needed.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/chopped dates.JPG" /></p>
<p>
	My next ingredient was the ginger. I&rsquo;m not sure what the approved method is for peeling ginger, but I just used my knife to shave it.</p>
<p>
	Doesn&rsquo;t ginger remind you of a caterpillar? This one especially had knobbly roots in just the right places. Would that make it a gingerpillar? I named mine Bill. And then I zested him.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/gingerpillar.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Next up, the lemon. I&rsquo;ll admit I went the easy route here and bought a small squeezy bottle of lemon juice. I had three separate recipes to make that day and I didn&rsquo;t want to spend 20 minutes juicing lemons. Sometimes you just have to go the easy route.</p>
<p>
	But I love, love, love zesting lemons. It makes everything smell soooo wonderful! Conversely, I can&rsquo;t stand most lemon scented cleaners. It perverts the perfect lemon freshness of the real thing. And we&#39;re in the heart of citrus season, so take advantage.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/lemon zest.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	And here&rsquo;s everything that goes into the spread.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/ingredients.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Everything gets mixed into a medium saucepan now. It looks like this at first.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/pot 1.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	But after simmering for 30 minutes, it looks like this. (And can I just say that this first recipe I took from my new blogger girl&rsquo;s website had perfect directions? I have a lot of issues with poorly written recipes that I find online, but I&rsquo;ll tell you this: I kept my pot at the right temperature to get the amount of simmering it needed and after 30 minutes <strong>exactly</strong>, it was perfect. This is promising for her other recipes!)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/pot 2.JPG" /></p>
<p>
	So then you let it cool for a few minutes and process/blend it to a perfect consistency. I recommend you eat it with naan, as was originally recommended. It&rsquo;s a great pairing and I found it in Publix by the pita breads near the deli, so I should think you can find it in most grocery stores.</p>
<p>
	I don&rsquo;t know if it looks gross or not as a photo. There are certain things that just don&rsquo;t photograph well &hellip; sauces, dips, homemade black bean soup. They&rsquo;re not pretty as still lifes.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/spicy lemon dip.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	But I promise you two things:</p>
<p>
	1. There&rsquo;s a good chance this tastes like nothing else you&rsquo;ve ever had<br />
	2. It is incredible. Amazing. Spectacular. I love it. Don&rsquo;t be afraid of its foreignness. So much flavor!</p>
<p>
	My only concern is that I won&rsquo;t make it to the bottom of this Tupperware before I start to suspect it&rsquo;s time in this world is up. But then I&rsquo;ll just have to make it again.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<em>P.S. Sorry about all of the pictures on the blanket. I&#39;m protecting a puzzle on the table from the cats right now. Not sure how well that&#39;s working out. Anyway, I don&#39;t love the fuzzy texture in the photos so I&#39;ll try to be a little more creative next time!</em></p>

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	<em>From joythebaker.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 1/2 C. pitted, chopped dates</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. fresh lemon juice</li>
	<li>
		2 C. water</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. lemon zest</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. fresh grated ginger (ginger gets peeled)</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. ground cumin</li>
	<li>
		scant 1 tsp. crushed red pepper flakes</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. sea salt</li>
	<li>
		warm naan or pita bread</li>
	<li>
		extra virgin olive oil for serving (optional)</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Place a medium saucepan over medium heat. Add chopped dates, lemon juice, water, zest, ginger, and spices to the pan. Simmer until almost all of the water is evaporated. The dates will begin to break down, and the simmering mixture will resemble a very thick stew., about 30 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Remove from the heat and allow to cool for a few minutes.</p>
<p>
	Place mixture in the bowl of a food processor fit with a blade attachment. Puree mixture until smooth. That&rsquo;s it! Serve it up.</p>
<p>
	Spread is delicious warm and at room temperature. Spread will last, covered in the fridge, for up to 5 days.</p>


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<p>
	Life has been rough over the past 24 hours. We have possibly one of the worst neighbors that ever existed. Have I complained about him (and occasional live-in girlfriend) before? I don&#39;t remember. If not, it&#39;s only because I&#39;ve been doing so many food posts because I&#39;ve <strike>hated</strike> strongly disliked them ever since they moved in almost two years ago.</p>
<p>
	And if I have complained about them, then you already know, and I&#39;m probably just forgetting because I complain about them to a lot of people. (Sorry, everyone.)</p>

<p>
	Yesterday morning, our alarm went off early so we could get up to work out, but I had slept pretty badly, so we decided to skip the workout and get up later. However, I noticed&nbsp;the vague hum of sound waves/bass coming through the bedroom wall and really didn&#39;t go back to sleep at all, except for maybe 5 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Then I was at work all day. When I came home, there was thumping bass coming through the shared wall in our living room area. I pounded on the wall, but nothing happened. Adam and I had really high blood pressure for a while trying to figure out what to do about it. He eventually went next door and banged on the door five separate times. Either the guy didn&#39;t want to answer or he simply couldn&#39;t hear because his music was so loud. Finally, we called the police to send someone by and then went to have dinner out.</p>
<p>
	Which is a shame because I had dinner all planned, but we just couldn&#39;t relax in our own home. When we got back, the neighbor was leaving. So we don&#39;t know if an officer showed up or not.</p>
<p>
	Then, as we were trying to fall asleep, again we heard sound vibrations coming through the wall behind our bed. We both laid there for over two hours unable to fall asleep. Finally, Adam pounded on the wall sometime after midnight and it stopped.</p>
<p>
	We think he has his TV up against the wall by our bed (though that doesn&#39;t excuse the really loud bass downstairs). I don&#39;t know what to do about it. How do you ask someone to either not push their TV up against a certain wall or to not use it at a certain volume or after certain hours? All I know is, after we complain to our landlord this week, if the property management does nothing about it, we&#39;re definitely going to either break our lease or just bear it until September and then move out.</p>
<p>
	We don&#39;t want to move. In fact, we both agreed yesterday that we&#39;d be fine living there until we save up enough for a house ... if not for the neighbor.</p>
<p>
	How ridiculous is it to be forced out of a perfectly good home against your will because of one loud, selfish jerk?</p>
<p>
	Anyway, I have to stop talking about it now. The lack of sleep is making me extra cranky.</p>
<p>
	So. Two weeks ago, I made this whole grain salad. It is good.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/quinoa wide shot.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	I wasn&#39;t a huge fan of quinoa the first time I made it. Or at least, I wasn&#39;t sure how I felt about it. It&#39;s a weird looking little grain the way it pops with its little spirals when you cook it. And it has a more distinct flavor than couscous or other grains that are mostly flavored by what you add to them. But this second time around, I decided I do like it.</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s hard to see everything that&#39;s in it since it&#39;s mainly the same color, but there are grapes, quinoa, chicken and almonds in there.</p>
<p>
	Oooh, so here&#39;s an idea that would make it even better, I think. Instead of buying an original roasted chicken, what if you used like a lemon pepper chicken? That would be good!</p>
<p>
	I loved the burst of the grapes in it. I liked the crunch of the almonds. And overall, it kept me full all afternoon. Success!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/quinoa closeup.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>

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	<em>From wholefoodsmarket.com</em></p>
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	<li>
		2 C. water</li>
	<li>
		1 1/3 C. quinoa</li>
	<li>
		Salt and pepper to taste</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. white wine vinegar</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. olive oil</li>
	<li>
		2 C. shredded cooked chicken</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 C. green or red grapes, quartered</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. sliced almonds, toasted</li>
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<p>
	Rinse quinoa under cold running water and drain. Bring 2 cups water to a boil. Stir in quinoa and a pinch of salt then reduce heat, cover and simmer until tender and most of the liquid is absorbed, 15 to 20 minutes. Uncover and set aside to let cool.</p>
<p>
	In a large bowl, whisk together vinegar, salt and pepper. Slowly add the oil, whisking well. Add quinoa and toss to combine. Add chicken, grapes and almonds and toss again. Serve at room temperature or chilled, if you like.&nbsp;</p>


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<p>
	Happy Monday!</p>
<p>
	I hope everyone had a nice weekend. I sure did. Somehow I ended up with a great balance of cleaning and relaxing, so that I didn&rsquo;t feel like I lazed the time away, but I didn&rsquo;t exhaust myself either and stayed in a good mood.</p>
<p>
	I love it when it all comes together!&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	We finally put away our Christmas tree and other decorations, for one thing, and also got some dusting, vacuuming and laundry done. With the house de-cluttered and de-dusted a bit, the only thing left to do was open the blinds and curtains and light it up.</p>
<p>
	There&rsquo;s something so refreshing about a clean, sunlit house. I just love it. It put me in the perfect mood to spend some time in the kitchen. But you&rsquo;ll have to wait until tomorrow to see what I was making!</p>
<p>
	(A preview though for this week&rsquo;s food: I have two lunch recipes, one side dish and a dessert. There&rsquo;s a breakfast recipe I really want to make soon, so maybe I&rsquo;ll have it for next week. I know I&rsquo;ve only done oatmeal so far in that category.)</p>
<p>
	Anyway, with the Christmas tree cleared out of the way, we finally had room to go buy a new cat tree for indoor use (I&#39;ve had a porch one for years). We&rsquo;d been wanting to for a while anyway, to give the cats a few more levels to sit at in the living room and to offer alternatives for climbing and scratching besides our furniture. But it was also depressing to take away Chloe&rsquo;s new favorite napping place when the tree disappeared, so we wanted to give her a good replacement.</p>
<p>
	We found one in the second store that we liked with enough levels for all 3 cats. Then we carried it out to my car only to realize it didn&rsquo;t fit.</p>
<p>
	Twenty minutes, some real-life Tetris practice and one shoestring later, and we were on our way home.</p>
<p>
	I think it&rsquo;s a hit &hellip; how about you? (Chloe uses the bottom bed area; she just wasn&rsquo;t there when I shot this.)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/new cat tree.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Of course, that was mainly chores and errands. In the fun department, we read, played Skyrim, ate some junk food and some healthy food (for balance, of course &hellip; you gotta have junk food once in a while!).</p>
<p>
	We went out to Lime yesterday for lunch because we both love their food and sitting on their patio. Yesterday maybe wasn&rsquo;t their best showing, though. We wanted Coke and the dispenser was broken. And normally they play a mix of 90s music, which is amazing, but yesterday was all 2000s pop, which I avoid like the plague. Feels like a betrayal of some kind. Sigh.</p>
<p>
	Speaking of music real quick, Adam bought an album that both of us had heard mentioned a couple of times and so far, I&rsquo;m really liking it! I&rsquo;m going to have to get him to burn it for me, so I can share. It&rsquo;s The Black Keys album El Camino. You can watch a video of the first track <a href="http://www.theblackkeys.com/videos/lonely-boy-first-listen ">here</a> and, really, this video alone should make you fall in love.</p>

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	Remember when I first switched over to this personal website from <a href="http://starling-81.livejournal.com/">LiveJournal</a> and I said I was going to get all of the content transferred over? I apparently made it up through August of 2007 and then burned out.</p>
<p>
	In the back of my head, I knew I hadn&#39;t finished, but I hadn&#39;t thought about it in months. Until yesterday, when I was looking through the spam comments and noticed I was missing 3 years&#39; worth of content. Oops!</p>
<p>
	I spent an hour or two and got through 3 1/2 months of posts, bringing me up to April of 2007.</p>

<p>
	It&#39;s funny because I&#39;ve never been so grateful for plain and short entries when I didn&#39;t use photos (which all have to be resized for the slimmer dimensions I have now) or links (many of which are broken now) and gaps in writing where I skipped a few weeks. Lol. I try to be so consistent now and use photos and links to beef up my writing, but I&#39;m glad I wasn&#39;t always so good about it. It&#39;s a lot of work!</p>
<p>
	As I go through old entries, it&#39;s fun to relive some things and it&#39;s also weird to see where I was 5 years ago. Seems so long ago in certain respects. That&#39;s one of the neat things about keeping a blog though.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, I&#39;m sure nobody but me enjoys going back and reading some of the archived entries (can you believe this all started in 2004?), but that&#39;s okay because this is an online journal about my life after all and I&#39;m sure it means more to me than anyone else. Though it always brings me a smile to get a comment and have people share things with me as they happen.</p>
<p>
	Only 3 years of content left to go and I&#39;ll finally have it all on this site from the beginning.</p>
<p>
	In the meantime, I&#39;m always thinking about how to make things more fun and interesting on the site. I sometimes wish I made a living off of it like many bloggers do because if I could actually devote my whole day to it, I&#39;d update the photos page WAY better than I do and keep everything more current in general.&nbsp;I&#39;d have more variety in my entries and maybe even make an effort to draw in more readers than just friends and family.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	As it is, I have a full-time job that keeps me from having the amount of time I wish I had to devote to it. Still, Adam and I are always thinking about ways to improve things and if we can get around to it, we&#39;ve talked about some small changes we&#39;d like to make.</p>
<p>
	I hope that any newer visitors have enjoyed reading my blog and for those of you who&#39;ve been here for the now 7+ years (!), thanks for hanging in there! I love having all of you.</p>
<p>
	<strong>P.S.</strong> If there&#39;s any topic or category in particular that you enjoy reading, let me know! I don&#39;t get any comments on my healthy food posts, so if that&#39;s not something you&#39;re interested in, I&#39;ll move on to other things. Trust me, it&#39;s a lot of work putting food entries together and I want to focus my energy toward something we all can enjoy together. Honesty is appreciated! I can always go back to desserts or even just stick to life stories - things from my day (if anything interesting happens), trips, cats, rants, etc. If you have an opinion, let me know.&nbsp;It&#39;s weird because I never meant this to turn into a food blog, but that&#39;s what the majority of my entries are lately. I guess it&#39;s just something I&#39;ve been enjoying over the last year or two. Maybe I need to liven things up!</p>

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	I&#39;m running a little behind on some of my entries (blame it on laziness induced by the holidays), so I thought I&#39;d feature information from an article I read a couple weeks ago.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I personally don&#39;t make New Year&#39;s resolutions, but I know a lot of people do, most relating to health changes. And one way to figure out how to improve your health is to take a retrospective look at the previous year. Specifically, this entry is about food fads. Why they suck ... and did you get suckered?</p>

<p>
	<em>The items and some of the content below are from <a href="http://fitbie.msn.com/slideshow/biggest-health-food-scams-2011">an article</a>&nbsp;on MSN&#39;s Fitbie site.</em></p>
<p>
	I always preach that fads are bad. Most of the time, they&#39;re simply marketing tricks to lure in people who want to eat healthy.</p>
<p>
	<strong>&quot;Drink acai! We just discovered this superfruit hidden in the jungles of Brazil and it will make you live forever!&quot;</strong></p>
<p>
	<strong>&quot;Buy this [fill in the blank] fortified with [fill in the blank]! Don&#39;t resort to eating those gross vegetables where the nutrients are found naturally. Yuck!&quot;</strong></p>
<p>
	That said, when you are trying to eat healthy, whether you are anti-fad or not, it&#39;s still easy to get suckered in. And once you do, it&#39;s a slippery slope. Pretty soon you&#39;ll forget what potatoes and corn taste like because you&#39;re stuffing your face with dandelion greens, goji berries and quinoa (not that those are bad).</p>
<p>
	As soon as those buzzwords hit you (antioxidants, all-natural), it&#39;s hard not to think that maybe they&#39;re right. Maybe if I don&#39;t eat blueberry granola bars every day, I <em>will</em> get brain cancer.</p>
<p>
	(Sometimes it feels more like a defense mechanism: Maybe if I just buy Truvia already, those people will stop singing at me!)</p>
<p>
	Yet, most nutritionists will tell you that it&#39;s not what produce you eat specifically that matters (though yes, of course some plants produce more of certain nutrients than others), but what&#39;s most important is that you get a good variety of whole foods.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, sorry. Off on a tangent ... yet again. Let&#39;s look at the top 15 food fads/scams from 2011. Did you buy into any of them?</p>
<p>
	1. <strong>Fruit &amp; Vegetables Juices</strong>: I guess I missed the &quot;cleanse craze&quot; last year, but apparently people were drowning themselves in juice. The danger of course is that juice still contains all of the sugars that occur naturally (especially in fruits) and none of the fibers that help you digest them properly, so you shouldn&#39;t just guzzle it down like water. (Case in point: I love drinking those Naked and Bolthouse Farms bottled smoothie drinks at lunchtime, but I only drink half a bottle per day because they contain 2 servings each.)</p>
<p>
	2. <strong>Diet Soda</strong>: This one I am extremely aware of. It seems like most business people down this stuff like it&#39;s ambrosia. I&#39;m sure they figure that if they&#39;re going to drink soda, drinking the sugar-free &amp; calorie-free variety is better. And yet, I&#39;ve read over and over that drinking diet sodas increases your desire for sweet things just as much as regular soda does, but because your body isn&#39;t actually getting any calories from diet soda, you end up eating more to compensate. Personally, I can&#39;t stand the taste of articial sweeteners, so I just do my best to limit my soda intake.</p>
<p>
	3. <strong>Natural Sweeteners</strong>: I think the biggest push in 2011 was for agave nectar, though I&#39;ve heard encouragement to choose anything over straight-up granulated sugar, such as honey, raw cane sugar, etc. As the Fitbie author points out, sugar is sugar is sugar. Just use the one you like and don&#39;t overdo it.</p>
<p>
	4. <strong>Greek Yogurt</strong>: Now this one I actually buy on occasion. Not for any of the fad-related reasons mentioned, though. Adam and I have found that Greek Yogurt is an excellent low-calorie replacement for things he can&#39;t eat (both because of dairy &amp; cholesterol concerns), mainly sour cream. We like mixing plain Greek yogurt with a little chipotle-flavored hot sauce for taco night. Mmm-mm! And also, the plain version tastes way less sugary than other yogurts, which is wonderful. Though, holy crap, did I hear the name &quot;Chobani&quot; a hundred times more than I wanted to. People I work with totally bought into this one!</p>
<p>
	5. <strong>Healthy Happy Meals</strong>: This one didn&#39;t really affect me because I don&#39;t have kids. McDonald&#39;s will never be a healthy option, no matter how pretty they make their buildings or repackage their foods.&nbsp;I think the main thing to take away from here is that if you&#39;re going to &quot;be bad&quot; and get fast food, of course getting apple slices and milk on the side of a burger is a good replacement for fries and soda, but it&#39;s certainly not a healthy lunch overall.</p>
<p>
	6. <strong>Gluten-Free Foods</strong>: Even though I definitely noticed the proliferation of gluten-free foods last year, I guess I didn&#39;t realize that people other than those with gluten allergies were consuming them. It&#39;s kind of weird to me that people without medically diagnosed gluten issues (e.g., Celiac Disease) would try to avoid it because of some new idea that it&#39;s bad for you. Incidentally, the oatmeal we buy is gluten free (which I just realized last week), but that&#39;s only because I&#39;ve never seen another bag of the brand we like without that label. (Though I&#39;m pretty sure oatmeal is naturally gluten free. Apparently, it only contains gluten if cross-contaminated from, say, a neighboring wheat field.)</p>
<p>
	7. <strong>Pasta Made with Veggies</strong>: I didn&#39;t even know about this one. Adam and I finally got to a place in our diet where we don&#39;t buy too many processed dry goods. I think our grocery list this week included marinara sauce and pasta shells, but otherwise, I think that&#39;s it. So I have to say, until I clicked through the Fitbie slideshow, I&#39;d never seen this one before. Weird concept. Oh, and their finding is that freeze-dried, powdered vegetables aren&#39;t going to provide much added nutrition to pasta.</p>
<p>
	8. <strong>Sea Salt</strong>: I did get suckered into this one and I&#39;m not sure why. No matter what form salt comes in, it&#39;s something you shouldn&#39;t consume too much of. The benefit of eating table salt is the added iodine (except for Patrick, who&#39;s allergic), which your body needs but does not produce naturally. Iodine occurs in air, water and soil, so you only consume it naturally by eating certain plants and animals from the sea, and vegetables grown in iodine-rich soil. Apparently, some farm animals are fed foods with added iodine, so you likely also get some through dairy products as well. The only strike against table salt, if it bothers you, is that there are additives to prevent it from caking, for example. They are approved for human consumption, but if you want to avoid additives in general, there are now varieties of sea salt with iodine added. It probably costs more, but that&#39;s your choice, right? Just don&#39;t get suckered into thinking that a potato chip or french fry that is coated in sea salt as opposed to table salt is good for you.</p>
<p>
	9. <strong>&quot;All-Natural&quot; Snacks</strong>: The more nerdy books I read about food labels, what they mean and how companies are allowed to use them, the more I realize that it&#39;s tricky to buy healthy if all the information you have about a food product is obtained from its packaging. At this point, the FDA hasn&#39;t officially defined what standards have to be met in order for the word &quot;all-natural&quot; to be allowed (and in what size or location it should appear on the packaging). And of course once they do, I&#39;m sure they&#39;ll also have to specify whether companies can use &quot;all-natural,&quot; &quot;contains natural ingredients,&quot; and so on and so forth. So, at the moment, this label means absolutely squat. Use your smarts.</p>
<p>
	10.<strong> &quot;Artisan&quot;</strong>: The only food I can remember this term being applied to is pizza. The quote included in the Fitbie analysis made me snort when I first read it. Printed on Domino&#39;s artisan pizza boxes: &quot;Though we may not be artisans in the traditional sense, inside this box you&rsquo;ll find a handmade pizza crafted with the kind of passion and integrity that just might convince you we are.&quot; What does that even mean?</p>
<p>
	11.<strong> &quot;High Fiber&quot; Claims</strong>: People are definitely trying harder to obtain their recommended daily fiber intake, but the bottom line here is that fiber added to a food product is not going to do as much for you as fiber occurring naturally in fruits, vegetables and whole grains. And you&#39;ll pay more for these items.</p>
<p>
	12. <strong>&quot;Light&quot; Restuarant Options</strong>: This one makes Adam and I chuckle all the time. Restaurant portions are ridiculous. Even at healthier restaurants, like Jason&#39;s Deli, certain menu items (like their sandwiches) are way too much for one person. They&#39;re piled with a half-pound of deli meat and come with a side too. And that&#39;s not even looking chain restaurants, most of which serve dishes containing more calories than you should eat in a whole day. The Fitbie example is how Cheesecake Factory is now offering lots of dishes at 590 calories or less. While this is definitely a good thing, you still have to look out for over-sized portions and refined carbohydrates.</p>
<p>
	13. <strong>Olive oil</strong>: If I think about it, I guess I am aware that things like mayonnaise are now offered in olive oil varieties. Fitbie&#39;s example is popcorn. At home, we stick to olive oil and canola oil for Adam&#39;s special diet, but obviously the key is always to use small quantities. Did you know that one tablespoon of olive oil contains 120 calories? That&#39;s actually more than butter at 100 calories per tablespoon. The fats are better for you in certain oils, but use them in moderation.</p>
<p>
	14.<strong> &quot;Fresh&quot; Fast Food</strong>: This refers to fast food companies emphasizing the freshness of their burger toppings and starting to grill their meat. Yeah, I suppose I remember ads for grilled burgers. Whatever. I think we&#39;ve already covered the &quot;fast food is not healthy food&quot; bullet already.</p>
<p>
	15. <strong>&quot;Healthy&quot; Candy</strong>: Even after reading this one, I still can&#39;t say that I recall any ads or packaging in stores that would fall under this category. This has to do with candies employing alternative sugars (see #3) and organic ingredients. The bottom line is that they aren&#39;t necessarily lower in calories and may even leave you less satisfied after eating them.</p>
<p>
	Well, that was the 15. Sometimes it&#39;s hard to recognize a fad until someone points it out to you or it&#39;s been going on for a while. Let&#39;s see if we can spot some of the ones that crop up in 2012!</p>
<p>
	And let&#39;s all repeat together: &quot;Everything in moderation.&quot;</p>

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	This week&#39;s Friday edition is a grocery store item.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	One thing that&#39;s been difficult for us to figure out are some healthy desserts to satisfy our sweet tooth without going overboard every time. Granted, I still need a decadent chocolatey something once in a while (Christmas babka, here I come!), but we wanted something to have a few nights during the week to stave off those sugar cravings.</p>

<p>
	Well, we both really love ice cream, but there are two strikes against it. One, occasionally the dairy is a problem for Adam. Two, even if we buy low-fat versions, it&#39;s not something we should do all the time, especially now that we&#39;re focused on lowering cholesterol.</p>
<p>
	But I recently remembered a cold dessert that I used to love back in college: Edy&#39;s Fruit Bars.</p>
<p>
	These things are amazing.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Edy's Popsicles.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	These are not the Otter Pops you grew up with. (Not to disparage Otter Pops. They certainly have their place in my heart.)</p>
<p>
	But these are incredible. The lemonade ones taste like Italian ice on a stick, but that just scratches the surface. The lime ones are even better, so perfectly tart.</p>
<p>
	Then you have strawberry and pineapple, which actually have pieces of fruit in them ... yum! And for me, one thing I really noticed is that the pineapple tastes fresh and not like its canned relative, which is what you get with so many pineapple-flavored treats.</p>
<p>
	And there are so many more flavors ... tangerine, coconut, acai blueberry, mango. It&#39;ll take me a while to get bored with these.</p>
<p>
	They even have some &quot;no sugar added&quot; versions that I want to try for comparison. But low sugar or not, I haven&#39;t purchased a single one over 80 calories per bar, which is awesome. I think the coconut is higher, but that makes sense since coconut milk is high in saturated fat (and is on our &quot;avoid&quot; list from the doctor).</p>
<p>
	See all of the flavors available <a href="http://www.edys.com/brand/fruitbars/flavorlisting.asp?b=136">here</a>.</p>
<p>
	Trust me, especially come summer, you will want to give these a lick (or chomp)!</p>

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	<em>From eatingwell.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil</li>
	<li>
		1 large onion, chopped</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 C. fresh corn kernels (see Tip) or frozen, thawed</li>
	<li>
		4 large tomatoes</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 C. cooked long-grain brown rice (see Tip)</li>
	<li>
		1 (15-oz) can black, kidney or pinto beans, rinsed</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. chili powder</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 tsp. dried oregano, divided</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. chopped fresh cilantro</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. prepared salsa</li>
	<li>
		2 C. shredded iceberg or romaine lettuce</li>
	<li>
		1 C. shredded pepper Jack cheese</li>
	<li>
		2 1/2 C. coarsely crumbled tortilla chips</li>
	<li>
		Lime wedges for garnish</li>
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<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Heat oil in a large nonstick skillet over medium heat. Add onion and corn; cook, stirring, until the onion begins to brown, about 5 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Coarsely chop 1 tomato. Add it to the pan along with rice, beans, chili powder, 1 tsp. oregano and 1/4 tsp. salt. Cook, stirring frequently, until the tomato cooks down, about 5 minutes. Let cool slightly.</p>
<p>
	Coarsely chop the remaining 3 tomatoes. Combine with cilantro, salsa and the remaining 1/2 teaspoon oregano in a medium bowl.</p>
<p>
	Toss lettuce in a large bowl with the bean mixture, half the fresh salsa and 2/3 cup cheese. Serve sprinkled with tortilla chips and the remaining cheese, passing lime wedges and the remaining fresh salsa at the table.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 6&nbsp;<br />
	Serving Size: About 1 1/2 Cups<br />
	Calories per serving: &nbsp;395</p>


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	Mexican is popular around our house. It&#39;s an easy way to get in some legumes and veggies, with easy substitutions for low-fat dairy. We love cilantro, cumin and all of the other delicious flavors that are usually incorporated into this style of food. So this taco salad is only one of about three that we make. But hey, you can never have too much salsa, right?</p>

<p>
	I won&#39;t keep you long for this entry. This taco salad is easy, tasty and nutritious (great for Meatless Monday!). Perfect for a weeknight meal and even portable as leftovers for work lunches.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Taco bowl veggies.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	There were things I liked and didn&#39;t like compared to our other similar taco dishes.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Pro: </strong>I liked the addition of brown rice. None of our other taco salads/bowls incorporate a whole grain and it definitely helped make it filling (along with the beans) since there&#39;s no meat involved.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Con:</strong> The oregano threw me off a bit. I&#39;m not sure how I felt about its alien presence mingling with the usual suspects.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Pro: </strong>Corn! I don&#39;t end up eating corn much these days because nutritionally, it&#39;s not as much of a powerhouse as, say, broccoli or spinach. It still has value though and I love its sweet pop between my teeth. Our other taco salads omit this summer beauty and I&#39;ve meeesed eet sooo!</p>
<p>
	<strong>Con:</strong> Hot lettuce. For some reason, tossing the shredded romaine in the hot taco mixture (which wilts it) didn&#39;t win me over. Romaine isn&#39;t spinach. I&#39;m not sure I want it wilted. I think I&#39;d simply throw some on top next time.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Veggie Taco Bowl.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Overall, this was pretty good. It was different enough from our other taco salad recipes that it&#39;s worth keeping on hand in addition to those, but I will probably modify it a tad, based on my pros &amp; cons list above, the next time we make it.</p>
<p>
	In the meantime, I now have a hankering for <a href="http://www.nbc.com/the-biggest-loser/exclusives/nutrition/contestant-recipes/turkey-taco-tostadas/">this taco salad</a>. Drool...</p>

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<title>Merry Christmas 2011</title>
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<p>
	I hope everyone had a wonderful and relaxing holiday this weekend, with lots of family and friends, a happy home and good food!</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m back at work today because I used up all my vacation time for other things this year. But thankfully it&#39;s only 2 3/4 days this week (today, tomorrow and 8:30-3:00 on Thursday). And then it&#39;s another long weekend to dive a little deeper into the wonderful Christmas presents I got. (So many books, so little reading time!)</p>

<p>
	Book-wise, I got two beautiful hardbound editions from Patrick. Have you seen those <a href="http://bit.ly/vm7TnW">decorative classics</a> that Barnes &amp; Noble&#39;s been selling lately? There are a lot more than just those pictured on the page I linked to and they&#39;re gorgeous copies. He got me Dante&#39;s <strong>Divine Comedy</strong> collected and also <strong>Jane Eyre</strong>. Would you believe I haven&#39;t read either? Well, I had to read a portion of <em>Inferno</em> in high school, but the others I just never got around to. I&#39;m pretty excited to give them a go!</p>
<p>
	Right now, as you can see from my reading list in the sidebar, I&#39;m in the middle of <strong>Winter&#39;s Heart</strong> (book 9 in the Wheel of Time series). I&#39;ve been picking slowly through <strong>What to Eat</strong> as I find spare time. And <strong>Healing Foods</strong> is just sitting on my night stand in the book cue. And that&#39;s in addition to our weekly comics and a couple of trade paperbacks I&#39;ve been holding off on (<strong>Essex County</strong>, e.g.). I&#39;m going to need a week of vacation soon just to get through the pile of books! It&#39;s exhausting to think about, in one sense, but it&#39;s also a lot to look forward to.</p>
<p>
	I love the mishmash: Graphic novels &amp; comic books, classic literature, fantasy, and nutrition. No one can say I&#39;m not diverse.</p>
<p>
	Also, Adam got me the Jeff Ashton book, <strong>Imperfect Justice</strong>. I&#39;m interested to see what the former prosecutor&#39;s thoughts are on things now that they&#39;re over.</p>
<p>
	I also got a little herb garden planter set from Katie, which will need some love and attention soon, and, within our family group that got together this Christmas, I think we ended up with at least 5 board games and 2 Lego sets, so there&#39;s lots of fun still to come.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	In the midst of that, Adam and I got some TV seasons on DVD and also the new Elder Scrolls V: Skryim game, which we now have to play through at the same time that we&#39;re finishing up Assassin&#39;s Creed: Revelations.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Whew! I don&#39;t think we&#39;ll be leaving the house at all next weekend!</p>
<p>
	It was nice to be able to go out with my dad&#39;s side of the family on Christmas Eve and spend some time with people I don&#39;t see as often. And it was great relaxing at home on Christmas Day with Adam&#39;s side of the family and enjoying some delicious food.</p>
<p>
	It stinks to be back at work today, but I brought one present with me, which is keeping a smile on my face:</p>
<p>
	<em>My 8-bit flowers</em></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/8-bit Flowers.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>

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	<em>From my.hearthealthyonline.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		12 oz. skinless, boneless chicken breast strips for stir-frying</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. chili powder</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. garlic powder</li>
	<li>
		Nonstick cooking spray</li>
	<li>
		1 small red, yellow, or green sweet pepper, seeded and cut into thin strips</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. bottled reduced-calorie ranch salad dressing</li>
	<li>
		2 whole wheat, tomato, jalapeno, or plain flour tortillas, warmed*</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. fresh salsa</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. reduced-fat shredded cheddar cheese</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>Preparing the stiry fry</strong></p>
<p>
	Cut chicken and bell pepper into strips.</p>
<p>
	Sprinkle chicken strips with chili powder and garlic powder. Coat a medium nonstick skillet with nonstick spray; heat over medium-high heat. Cook chicken and sweet pepper strips in hot skillet over medium heat for 4 to 6 minutes or until chicken is no longer pink and pepper strips are tender. Drain if necessary.</p>
<p>
	Toss with salad dressing.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Building the wraps</strong></p>
<p>
	Divide chicken and pepper mixture between warmed tortillas. Top with salsa and cheese. Roll up; cut in half.</p>
<p>
	<em>Note: To warm tortillas: Wrap tortillas tightly in foil. Heat in a 350 degrees F oven about 10 minutes or until heated through.</em></p>


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<p>
	I like easy. When your days are filled with 101 errands and not enough sleep, easy is vital.</p>
<p>
	Today, I&#39;m talking about our lunches for the week. Follow the link!</p>

<p>
	Granted, it&#39;s easy for me to dismiss the time it took to prepare this lunch since Adam did it while I was working on something else, but it really is pretty simple.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Open Wrap(1).JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	All you have to do is either buy frozen fajita-style chicken strips and prep a bell pepper to cook in a pan, then add the seasonings and low-fat ranch dressing. Bam! Your filling is done and ready to be stored in the fridge for easy lunches all week.</p>
<p>
	As you can probably tell, I shot the pictures shot today at work. One might say this week got away from me and therefore I didn&#39;t have time to prep for fancy photos, but on the other hand, the lunches I&#39;m featuring are all perfect for making ahead and bringing to work. So this sort of features them as they were meant to be: portable.</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s harder than you think (unless you&#39;ve also tried) to find a large selection of healthy (and tasty) lunches that can be prepped ahead of time and put together away from your kitchen.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Wrapped Up.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Most of the ones you&#39;ll see me write about here were taken from about 20 different websites. I&#39;ve started my own collection, which I&#39;m happy to share with you.</p>
<p>
	And if you too need lunches that can be made ahead and then travel so that you don&#39;t have to have the boring repeat of a sandwich or salad, or leftovers from the dinner you just ate, then these should fit the bill!</p>
<p>
	Aside from making both of us cough up a lung (each), cooking these were a snap. The spices are a little much without ventilation. I have the same problem with a Greek-style tzatziki wrap recipe we&#39;ve used in the past. I just can&#39;t handle spicy seasonings on the stove.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Wrap Closeup.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	I didn&#39;t understand at first that the filling was supposed to fit just two tortillas and then each half was considered a serving. So, we simply split the filling into four servings and filled four separate tortillas with them. Ultimately, this results in a few more calories than they provided since this way means eating a whole tortilla instead of half of one, but the ones we buy are only 80 calories anyway, so no biggie.</p>
<p>
	This delicious wrap plus a side and a drink means you&#39;re set!</p>

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	I&rsquo;m not a huge fan of fish. It&rsquo;s never been my go-to choice, though I enjoy it occasionally, and there are definite downsides to cooking it at home.</p>
<p>
	First, the smell tends to linger more noticeably, but also, if you ever want to drive cats crazy and make them act mindlessly stupid, cook fish. (Or really, just open a can of tuna.)</p>

<p>
	There are two things in particular that Jasper can barely handle having in the house without totally losing her mind: bagels and fish.</p>
<p>
	In fact, the last two times we picked up bagels for breakfast, she snuck up by the coffee table where we were sitting and just about made off with one of our bagel halves. The first time, she sat quietly for a minute or two by Adam&rsquo;s legs, then lunged for the half of his bagel that was sitting on the table and would&rsquo;ve escaped with it if Adam hadn&rsquo;t grabbed the scruff of her neck.</p>
<p>
	<strike>On the streets, </strike>In our house, you have to fight for your food.</p>
<p>
	But we&rsquo;re determined to eat fish all the same as part of our diet. It means staying vigilant, but after shoving some cat butt away a few times, they get the idea and settle down nearby &hellip; just in case you change your mind (or drop a piece).</p>
<p>
	I chose this salmon recipe because it is so easy and has so few ingredients.</p>
<p>
	I drove down to Whole Foods on my break on Monday and got some wild sockeye salmon that was so vibrantly pink, I just couldn&#39;t leave it sitting there in the display. And I love the head fishmonger at that location. He&#39;s so nice and helpful (and skilled), that I actually look forward to going there.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Sockeye salmon.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	The last fish we made, the tuna with the fruity marinade, was delicious, but I don&rsquo;t want to make fish the same way every time, though, and this low-sodium teriyaki seemed like a great idea.&nbsp;Totally different flavors, same application.</p>
<p>
	This time, though, we went with the recommended skillet method in order to save Adam the effort of grilling (and the subsequent clean-up).</p>
<p>
	It was ... good. It was a tad dry though and a the teriyaki flavor was lost a little. I&#39;m not sure if that&#39;s because of cooking it in a skillet or what. Next time, I think basting it with teriyaki sauce as it cooks (not from the marinade of course ... raw fish bacteria) might help keep the juices flowing. And maybe even reducing the cook time by a couple minutes or popping it under the broiler instead.</p>
<p>
	So, with a couple changes, I&#39;d try this again, but for now, I&#39;m giving it 3 stars out of 5.</p>
<p>
	For the side dish, I was originally going to cook some yellow rice and steam broccoli, then stir the two together. (To be honest, I plan to revisit this idea in the future because it sounds like a great way to disguise broccoli.)</p>
<p>
	But then I was lazily browsing the internet while waiting to get out of work last Friday and I found something that made me drool: Pear &amp; Rosemary Crostini with Goat Cheese. Look, I know it&rsquo;s not as healthy as broccoli and God knows I should never replace vegetables with fruit since I tend to eat a lot of fruit and not enough veggies already, but I HAD to make them.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Pears cooking(1).jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	They ended up being the stars of this meal. I started out needing to make these to see if they&#39;re as delicious as they look&nbsp;<a href="http://www.etsy.com/blog/en/2011/pear-and-rosemary-crostini-with-goat-cheese/">in the pictures</a>. Oh, they are!&nbsp;And now I simply have to make them again with our other Christmas Day appetizers.</p>
<p>
	I found it helpful to use the broiler to get the bread toasted to the right color, so remember that if you try to make these.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Toasted bread rounds.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I also opted for wrapping the rosemary in cheesecloth. Next time, I might try leaving it in the jam, but I&#39;ve been slow to adopt a fondness for rosemary. The flavor is good, but I don&#39;t like those pokey leaves. After making them, though, I think being mixed in with the other ingredients, the leaves would probably be less noticeable, and they certainly look pretty.</p>
<p>
	I also might have been able to find a creamier goat cheese in a different store, but the Publix brand worked all right. I went light on it even though goat&#39;s milk is lower in fat than cow&#39;s milk, because I don&#39;t want to push Adam&#39;s diet too much.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Goat cheese.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	This is definitely for a certain palate, I think. Not everyone enjoys goat cheese like I do. But this, like the <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_52_sundays_of_dessert_week_41">Pear &amp; Almond Tart</a> that we&#39;ve come to adore, cooks the pears down in a lemony simple syrup until there&#39;s no grit to them. So you get all the flavor without any texture issues associated with raw pears.</p>
<p>
	Make these. Make them today!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Pear Crostini.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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	<em>From health.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		5 Tbsp. Low-sodium teriyaki sauce</li>
	<li>
		1 (6-oz) salmon fillets</li>
	<li>
		Sesame seeds, optional</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>Making the salmon</strong></p>
<p>
	Combine teriyaki sauce and fish in a plastic baggie. Seal and marinate in the refrigerator for 20 minutes.</p>
<p>
	If using, toast sesame seeds in a large nonstick skillet over medium heat and set aside.</p>
<p>
	Drain fish, discarding marinade, and cook in the skillet for 5 minutes. Turn the heat down to medium-low and cook on the other side for 5 more minutes.</p>
<p>
	Sprinkle with sesame seeds and serve.</p>


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<p>
	<em>From the etsy.com blog</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>For the jam:</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		4 ripe pears, such as Bartlett, cored and diced</li>
	<li>
		2 sprigs fresh rosemary</li>
	<li>
		Juice of 1 lemon</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. sugar</li>
	<li>
		1/2 c. water</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>For the crostini:</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 baguette, sliced into 1/4-inch rounds</li>
	<li>
		6 oz. creamy goat cheese</li>
	<li>
		Black pepper</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the jam</strong></p>
<p>
	Combine the pears, rosemary, lemon juice, sugar and water in a medium pot. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to low and simmer, uncovered, until jammy, about an hour.</p>
<p>
	Stir at regular intervals, increasing frequency as water reduces.</p>
<p>
	<em>Note: If you&#39;re not a fan of the pungent flavor of rosemary, seal the herbs in muslin or cheesecloth for easy removal after cooking.</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the crostini</strong></p>
<p>
	While the jam is simmering, prepare the crostini: Toast thin rounds of baguette at 300 degrees Fahrenheit until crisp and golden at the edges, about 10 minutes. Set aside.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Putting it all together</strong></p>
<p>
	Smear a small amount of goat cheese over each slice of toasted baguette, top with a spoonful of jam, and finish with black pepper.</p>
<p>
	<em>Note: You can serve these with the jam warm or chilled. Store leftover jam in the refrigerator.</em></p>


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<p>
	I somehow got out of jury duty for a third time this week. I called yesterday after 5 and my number wasn&#39;t selected. On the one hand, not having to leave the house extra early and sit at the courthouse all day is great.&nbsp;On the other, I wouldn&#39;t have minded a day off work to get some reading done. Plus, at some point, I&#39;d like to participate on a jury for the experience.</p>
<p>
	I know I&#39;m weird.</p>

<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Juror summons.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	When I called the number to see if I was selected, at one point in the (very long) recording, it said that jurors reporting on Monday could call anytime after 5 p.m. on Friday.</p>
<p>
	On the summons that was mailed to me a month before, however, it said to call after 5 p.m. the day before. It didn&#39;t specify the business day before. It would&#39;ve been nice to know I could have found out what my Monday was going to look like a couple days earlier.</p>
<p>
	Thanks, guys.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, not getting jury duty this time around was probably good in particular because I have a lot to get done before Christmas.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Christmas tree.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Thank goodness Adam and I are both planners because our ambitious desires for the holiday would never be accomplished, short of us ending in collapse, if we didn&#39;t start early. We got almost all of our Christmas shopping (and wrapping) done by last weekend.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Two presents.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Our tree and decor have been up for even longer.&nbsp;We got a couple of new ornaments this year.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Spider-man ornament.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Up ornament.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	So now we&#39;ve turned to the food.</p>
<p>
	Last week, I made candy at home and brought it in cute little gift bags to hand out at work until I ran out. THAT took me all afternoon in the kitchen last Sunday.</p>
<p>
	Tonight, we&#39;re completing our Christmas Day shopping list and running out to Publix. We&#39;re planning on Belgian waffles with customized filling/toppings since Adam just got a waffle maker for his birthday. Lunch will be a variety of appetizers to nosh on. And then, of course, the big Christmas dinner, which we&#39;re managing about half of. Katie &amp; Patrick will provide the remaining dishes to fill it out.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Liz stocking.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	In preparation for this food frenzy, Adam was gracious enough to clean our oven.</p>
<p>
	Let me be clear. We didn&#39;t run the self-clean because it would&#39;ve choked us out of our house. There&#39;s no external ventilation and with the amount of char that had built up, I think it would have been tantamount to animal torture at the least.</p>
<p>
	Instead, we bought some oven cleaner spray, which soaks for two hours before scrubbing, and he ended up doing that a total of 4 or 5 times over 2 days. It is now as close to new as it ever will be. It&#39;s nearly spotless. (I didn&#39;t take a &quot;before&quot; picture. Look, I don&#39;t want to be judged.)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Clean oven.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Because, see, every time we turned the oven on for the last few months, it smelled like burning. No matter what we were cooking, I could barely smell it or enjoy the smell of it because my nose was filled with the odor of blackened blackening becoming blacker.</p>
<p>
	So, thank you, Adam! I can actually see through the glass now. Lol!</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s possibly my favorite thing that we&#39;ve cleaned lately (that and the 4 fur-coated curtain panels over the bay window). &quot;Spot clean,&quot; my butt. Stupid unhelpful labels. How many sticky rollers do you think I would&#39;ve used up trying to &quot;spot clean&quot; all the cat fur that&#39;s rubbed off on them over the last 2 years? (The washer and dryer did an amazing job.)</p>
<p>
	With just a little more prep, we&#39;ll be all set to have everyone over and make it a really fun day. I know I&#39;m going to be tired by next week, but hey, I&#39;m off the day after, so I see a big nap in my future.</p>

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	I&rsquo;ve long wanted to make lentils a more regular part of my diet, but a lot of the recipes I find are so distinctly Mediterranean or African, that I worry that I&rsquo;ll be overwhelmed by the foreign flavor combinations and ingredients, and not be able to tell what I think of the lentils themselves.</p>
<p>
	But I got lucky. I found <a href="http://www.eatbetteramerica.com/recipes/featured-brands/italian-chicken-lentil-soup.aspx">a recipe</a> using lentils with Italian leanings instead. For me, the best way to try new foods is to do it one food at a time. So, lentils in a familiar setting first, then maybe next time, lentils with some new spices.</p>

<p>
	Once again, I made good use of my handy dandy slow cooker and ever willing house-husband. (Which really isn&#39;t a fair description since he&#39;s only home because he&#39;s running his own business online.)</p>
<p>
	We actually prepped all of the veggies a couple days ahead on a leftovers night when we didn&rsquo;t have to make dinner and that made it easy for Adam to just throw everything in the pot directly from the fridge while I was at work without having to chop everything first.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/soup vegetables closeup.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I only made two changes to this recipe.</p>
<p>
	I switched out the thighs for breasts to lower the fat content for Adam&rsquo;s diet (it&rsquo;s up to you what cut to use &hellip; I know chicken breasts are slightly drier than thighs when slow cooked).</p>
<p>
	And I added kale.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/kale.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;ve really been wanting to incorporate more dark leafy greens into our diet, and branch out (is that a pun? If so, it&rsquo;s not on purpose) and try new varieties. Well, not just dark leafy greens even, but lots of things: Swiss chard, bok choy, kale and so on.</p>
<p>
	I had tried kale some years ago and hated it. I mean, blech. I tried using it raw as a salad and it was just not my thing. At all. Then again, I&rsquo;ve come a long way in salad eating since then, so it&rsquo;s possible my expanded palate would be able to handle it a little better now.</p>
<p>
	Still, I thought it would be easier to incorporate our first attempt at kale into a casserole-type dish rather than steam it up as a side. Less scary.</p>
<p>
	I wanted to put 6 cups in, seeing as it cooks down much smaller than it is raw and 1 cup appears to be the recommended serving size (and the soup recipe makes 6 servings). However, we don&rsquo;t have the biggest slow cooker since we&rsquo;re usually only feeding two and I could juuuust fit 4 cups with a bit of nudging and smashing.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Soup Vegetables.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I liked the addition. Kale is definitely a tougher, more hearty leaf than some, but it&#39;s also very good for you. I wanted to make sure it wasn&rsquo;t too chewy, but I also didn&rsquo;t want to cook all the nutrients out of it, so I popped it in at the last 15 minutes, which is when you add the tomatoes and mushrooms as well. I think perhaps next time, I&rsquo;d cook everything about 30 minutes more instead of 15.</p>
<p>
	One blunder though. I completely forgot to add the basil and mozzarella at the end (even though I chopped all of the basil). Doh! Which kinda sucked the &ldquo;Italian&rdquo; right out of the soup. And I wondered why it was somewhat bland. *forehead slap*</p>
<p>
	Anyway, this soup gets two thumbs up from us, and we will definitely be making it again &hellip; WITH the basil and parmesan. (Just because we&rsquo;re eating healthy doesn&rsquo;t mean our food has to be tasteless!)&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	This recipe makes 6 servings at 300 calories apiece. The recipe doesn&#39;t provide measurements for the serving size and I forgot to measure, but it was a good bowlful, probably 2 cups or a little more even.</p>
<p>
	(Sorry about the blurry and tinted phone pic. We almost forgot to take a finished soup picture altogether!)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Lentil Soup.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 667px; " /></p>
<p>
	Last thing ... I forgot to take pictures, but the side I made to go with this ... well, it was actually a fruit salad appetizer, not really a side.</p>
<p>
	I halved 1 Cup of red grapes, then stirred them together with 2 Tbsp. of fat-free vanilla yogurt and 2 Tbsp. of slivered almonds. That made two servings at approximately 125 calories. Like candy!</p>

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<p>
	<em>From eatbetteramerica.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 lb boneless skinless chicken thighs</li>
	<li>
		1 medium onion, chopped (1/2 cup)</li>
	<li>
		1 medium zucchini, chopped (2 cups)</li>
	<li>
		4 medium carrots, sliced (2 cups)</li>
	<li>
		1 C. dried lentils (8 oz), sorted and rinsed</li>
	<li>
		4 1/2 C. reduced-sodium chicken broth</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. pepper</li>
	<li>
		1 C. sliced mushrooms (3 oz)</li>
	<li>
		1 can (28 oz) diced tomatoes, undrained</li>
	<li>
		Kale (4-6 cups), optional</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. chopped fresh or 1 tablespoon dried basil leaves</li>
	<li>
		Shredded Parmesan cheese, if desired</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Remove fat from chicken and prep vegetables.</p>
<p>
	In 3 1/2- to 6-quart slow cooker, mix the onion, zucchini, carrots, lentils, broth and pepper.&nbsp;Add chicken.</p>
<p>
	Cover and cook on Low heat setting 5 to 6 hours.</p>
<p>
	Remove chicken from cooker; place on cutting board. Use 2 forks to pull chicken into shreds. Return chicken to cooker.</p>
<p>
	Stir in mushrooms and tomatoes (and kale, if using). Cover and continue to cook on Low 15-30 minutes or until heated through.</p>
<p>
	Sprinkle with basil. Serve with cheese.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 6<br />
	Calories per serving: 300</p>


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<p>
	As a Magic fan, I&rsquo;ve been disappointed with the shenanigans that have been going on this &ldquo;season.&rdquo; The lockout, trade fiascos &hellip; and Dwight Howard. So I decided to put together my own thoughts on these topics and especially about Orlando&rsquo;s NBA superstar.</p>

<p>
	Portions of this are adapted from an email thread that Adam and I had going today. I figured I had already written it the way I wanted it, so I used it as a starting point.</p>
<p>
	Whether you follow basketball or not, there&rsquo;s a good chance you&rsquo;ve heard about the lockout that was only recently resolved, more or less, resulting in a late-starting 2011-2012 season. If there&rsquo;s anything that will immediately sour people on pro sports, it&rsquo;s a brawl over money.</p>
<p>
	But since I don&rsquo;t have any unique insights into that story (and probably not a deep enough understanding), I&rsquo;m going to dive right trade wars.</p>
<p>
	(If you want to read a fantastic and intelligent write-up on all of these topics, click <a href="http://www.cbssports.com/nba/story/16430520/failed-deals-prove-nba-has-become-a-parade-of-fools-and-shallow-storylines">here</a>.)</p>
<p>
	The partial season begins on Christmas Day, but it&rsquo;s been hard to get excited about.</p>
<p>
	First, there&rsquo;s this weird thing going on where nobody owns the New Orleans Hornets, so basically the league as a whole owns them. Which has totally screwed up recent trade attempts, particularly regarding Chris Paul. He&rsquo;s going to the Lakers. He&rsquo;s not going to the Lakers. He&rsquo;s going to the Clippers. He&rsquo;s not going to the Clippers. He might be going to the Clippers? (By the time this posts on Wednesday ... since I wrote it ahead of time ... I&#39;m sure the status will have changed.)</p>
<p>
	Then, there&rsquo;s Dwight Howard.</p>
<p>
	I understand Dwight&#39;s desire to win a title. (Not that I think any other NBA player wants that title any less. The only reason this is a story is because Dwight is one of the best players in the league.)</p>
<p>
	It just seems that, in the quest to win a championship, you&#39;re going to be disliked at some point because you have to step on toes and name names to build your team, e.g., Lebron James, anyone?</p>
<p>
	What do I mean by &ldquo;name names&rdquo;?</p>
<p>
	Apparently, big name players feel that they have a right to tell the team management who they want brought in to support them. I don&rsquo;t know whether this is something that has always happened and, beyond that, I don&rsquo;t know whether it&rsquo;s always been so aggressive. Dwight says he wants to leave because his general manager hasn&rsquo;t brought in the players that Dwight says he needs to win a championship here. If such players are brought in, he might consider staying. (Threaten much?)</p>
<p>
	The flip side of this, of course, is what he&rsquo;s not saying. He&rsquo;s not saying that some of his teammates aren&rsquo;t good enough to win a championship. But isn&rsquo;t he? That&rsquo;s gotta make team relationships peachy.</p>
<p>
	Not to mention that the other Magic players have to wonder how their current practices are going to help them if Dwight ends up leaving (or if they leave themselves in order to have other player(s) brought in who Dwight wants instead.)</p>
<p>
	I won&rsquo;t go into a larger discussion of what Howard owes Orlando because I see many sides to it. Dwight has been one of the most generous and involved people in our community. He is constantly giving back, donating both his time and money. I have no idea what the total dollar amount is that he&rsquo;s contributed to date, but I promise you, the number is impressive. On the other hand, the new arena that we really couldn&rsquo;t afford was just finished for last season based on having this great team led by D12. So &hellip; now what?</p>
<p>
	It&rsquo;s important to stop here and note that there are plenty of players who were/are amazing sportsmen who never won a championship and aren&#39;t considered any less amazing (Reggie Miller, Patrick Ewing, Charles Barkley &ndash; and so far, although not retired &ndash; Steve Nash and Lebron James, for example).</p>
<p>
	It seems to me that you have to decide if it&#39;s worth acting like a whiney baby to get what you want. The thing is, I don&#39;t think any of the guys who have gone this gimme-gimme route could see what they were doing as they did it. They feel like they should be respected for passionately pursuing their goals and that they are simply doing the necessary to achieve them.</p>
<p>
	I also think that, particularly in the case of Lebron, they become so famous that they buy into their own hype and expect their lives to be as important to everyone else as they are to themselves.</p>
<p>
	If the show they put on winds up getting them a championship, they feel justified in the decisions they made. Years from now, people will remember if Lebron or Dwight won a championship; they might not remember the stink that was created in order to get them there. It&#39;ll just be a stat on their Wikipedia page. Dwight Howard: NBA Finals Champion with the year(s) behind it.</p>
<p>
	The only people who really remember are the ones who felt stepped on.</p>
<p>
	But without getting into a do-the-ends-justify-the-means argument or harping on how Dwight should be trying a little harder to portray the Christian values he came into the league with so strongly (humility, anyone?), I&rsquo;ll end with this&hellip;</p>
<p>
	Dealing with pro athletes is like everything else in life. You want people to act better than they do, but you have no power to make it happen.</p>
<p>
	I think the days of great athletes that just put in work with the team they were on at the time and didn&#39;t worry about playing some political game (days that my dad would wax nostalgic about) are gone. I do think there are still players out there like that, that knuckle down and don&#39;t give off megalomaniacal attitudes, but a lot of the &quot;greats&quot; are becoming less respectable.</p>
<p>
	Amazing basketball players, poor heroes.</p>
<p>
	It would be totally different if Dwight still made his intense desire to bring his team to a championship known, but committed to the team he&#39;s with, just as he did in the beginning of his career, and inspired his teammates to greatness.</p>
<p>
	How much better would that story be?&nbsp;</p>

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	<em>From my recipes.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1/4 C. orange juice</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. soy sauce</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. olive oil</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. lemon juice</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. chopped fresh parsley (optional)</li>
	<li>
		1 clove garlic, minced</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. chopped fresh oregano</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. ground black pepper</li>
	<li>
		4 (4-oz.) tuna steaks<br />
		&nbsp;</li>
</ul>
<p>
	In a large non-reactive dish, mix together the orange juice, soy sauce, olive oil, lemon juice, parsley, garlic, oregano, and pepper. Place the tuna steaks in the marinade and turn to coat. Cover, and refrigerate for at least 30 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Preheat grill for high heat.</p>
<p>
	Lightly oil grill grate. Cook the tuna steaks for 5 to 6 minutes, then turn and baste with the marinade. Cook for an additional 5 minutes, or to desired doneness. Discard any remaining marinade.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 4<br />
	Calories per serving: 200</p>


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<p>
	After looking at a list of fish that are most helpful in lowering cholesterol, I earmarked salmon and tuna as our most likely candidates. We had salmon last week with lima beans (before I started this series), so this week was tuna.</p>
<p>
	I paired it with a Brussels sprouts recipe from one of my favorite food bloggers and modified it to make it fit our dietary requirements. Come see!</p>

<p>
	Adam ended up having to look in Whole Foods for tuna and then all they had was yellowfin, which was price-y!</p>
<p>
	We were out of orange juice, but we had orange mango, so I substituted that. I didn&rsquo;t notice any real mango flavor, but I&rsquo;m sure the citrus taste and acidity was all that was needed.</p>
<p>
	It&rsquo;s definitely more work for Adam to haul out our little charcoal grill on a work night, but I truly appreciated the effort for this meal. Grilling is my favorite preparation for fish of any kind and this in particular was absolutely wonderful.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/tuna.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	The Brussels sprouts were also inspired.</p>
<p>
	I spent a long time scouring the Internet for a recipe that sounded appealing and since they&rsquo;re in season right now, there are a ton of featured recipes, so it took a while!</p>
<p>
	I would never have thought to pair Brussels sprouts with mustard, but it turned out to be genius.</p>
<p>
	These were, hands down, the best Brussels sprouts I&rsquo;ve ever eaten.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Brussels in pan.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	However.</p>
<p>
	After doing some research the day after I made these, I found out that boiling them (and simmering counts as boiling, right?) cooks out their healthiest properties. Darn it!</p>
<p>
	As a workaround, I think next time, after roasting them, I&rsquo;ll make the sauce separately and steam them in a separate pot (7-11 minutes). I&rsquo;ve read in a couple different places that steaming is the best way to cook them because it maintains their cancer fighting properties. Lesson learned, I suppose.</p>
<p>
	With that modification, I should be able to better maintain their health contribution, hopefully without sacrificing any of the flavor.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Finished Brussels sprouts(1).JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Whether you follow this recipe or not next time you make Brussels sprouts, don&rsquo;t overcook them! They start smelling sulphur-y and nobody likes that!</p>
<p>
	The two changes I made to the ingredients were to replace the butter with an equal quantity of olive oil (1 Tbsp.), and replace the cream with an arrowroot slurry instead. I forget why I had bought arrowroot powder last year, but since I already had it&hellip;</p>
<p>
	I read somewhere that arrowroot works best as a thickener (which was the purpose the cream was serving) when you&rsquo;re working with an acidic sauce, unlike corn starch. So that&rsquo;s why I chose it to replace the cream. I mixed it with 2 Tbsp. of water before adding it to the pan to keep it from clumping in the hot liquid.</p>
<p>
	I didn&rsquo;t notice it thickening too much, although the sauce did reduce once the lid came off and it was returned to a simmer.</p>
<p>
	Perhaps I didn&rsquo;t use enough (only &frac14; tsp.) I think next time I&rsquo;ll up it to &frac12;-1 tsp. and see what happens. It doesn&rsquo;t affect the flavor at all, so it can&rsquo;t hurt to experiment.</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;ve rewritten the recipes to reflect my suggested changes so that you won&rsquo;t make my mistakes and will hopefully end up with the most nutritious (and tastiest) version of this meal.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/tuna and sprouts.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 667px; " /></p>

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<p>
	From smittenkitchen.com</p>
<p>
	1 lb. brussels sprouts<br />
	1 Tbsp. unsalted butter<br />
	1 Tbsp. olive oil<br />
	Salt<br />
	Freshly ground black pepper<br />
	1/2 C. dry white wine<br />
	1 C. broth (chicken or vegetable)<br />
	2 shallots, peeled and thinly sliced<br />
	2 Tbsp. heavy cream<br />
	1 Tbsp. dijon mustard (or more to taste)<br />
	2 Tbsp. chopped flat-leaf parsley (optional)</p>
<p>
	<em>Liz&#39;s ingredient modifications: Eliminate 1 Tbsp. butter and increase olive oil to 2 Tbsp. Take out heavy cream and stir 1/2 tsp. of arrowroot powder (or corn starch) into 1-2 Tbsp. water before adding to sauce.)</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the sprouts:</strong></p>
<p>
	Trim sprouts by cutting off steams and removing out leaves, and halve lengthwise.</p>
<p>
	In a large skillet, heat butter and oil over medium heat. Arrange halved sprouts in skillet, cut sides down, in one layer. Sprinkle with salt and pepper, to taste. Cook sprouts, without turning until undersides are golden brown, about 5 minutes. [If your sprouts don&#39;t fit in one layer, brown them in batches, then add them all back to the pan, spreading them as flat as possible, before continuing.]</p>
<p>
	Add the shallots, wine and stock and bring to a simmer. Once simmering, reduce the heat to medium-low (for a gentle simmer), cover the pot with a lid (foil works too, if your skillet lacks a lid) and cook the sprouts until they are tender and can be pierced easily with the tip of a paring knife, about 15 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Remove the lid, and scoop out brussels. Add cream to the pan and simmer for two to three minutes, until slightly thickened. Whisk in mustard. Taste for seasoning, and adjust as necessary with more salt, pepper or Dijon. Pour sauce over brussels, sprinkle with parsley, if using, and serve immediately.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 4<br />
	Calories per serving: 160</p>


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	<em>From myrecipes.com</em></p>
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	<li>
		1 lb. refrigerated fresh pizza dough</li>
	<li>
		2 C. sliced cremini mushrooms</li>
	<li>
		1 C. (1/4-inch-thick) slices zucchini</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. black pepper</li>
	<li>
		1 medium yellow bell pepper, sliced</li>
	<li>
		1 medium red onion, cut into thick slices</li>
	<li>
		5 1/2 tsp. olive oil, divided</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. yellow cornmeal</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. tomato sauce (or more, as needed)</li>
	<li>
		1 C. (4 oz.) shredded part-skim mozzarella cheese</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. crushed red pepper</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. part-skim ricotta cheese</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. small fresh basil leaves</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the pizza:</strong></p>
<p>
	Position an oven rack in the lowest setting; place a pizza stone on rack.&nbsp;<em>(Liz note: We do not have a pizza stone yet. We baked ours on a baking sheet.)</em>&nbsp;Preheat oven to 500&deg;.</p>
<p>
	Remove dough from refrigerator. Let stand, covered, for 30 minutes. <em>(Liz note: Or prepare dough of your choice)</em></p>
<p>
	Combine mushrooms and next 4 ingredients (through onion) in a large bowl; drizzle with 1 1/2 tablespoons oil. Toss. Arrange vegetables on a jelly-roll pan. Bake at 500&deg; for 15 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Punch dough down. Sprinkle a lightly floured baking sheet with cornmeal; roll dough out to 15-inch circle on prepared baking sheet. Brush dough with 1 teaspoon oil.</p>
<p>
	Spread sauce over dough, leaving a 1/2-inch border. Sprinkle 1/2 cup mozzarella over sauce; top with vegetables. Sprinkle another 1/2 cup mozzarella and red pepper. Dollop with ricotta.</p>
<p>
	Slide pizza onto preheated pizza stone. Bake at 500&deg; for 11 minutes or until crust is golden. Sprinkle with basil.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 6<br />
	Serving size: 2 slices<br />
	Calories per serving: 347</p>


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	Pizza is not the first thing that comes to mind when you think about heart healthy foods, I know. But if made at home and topped with freshly prepared produce, it can be rescued from the category of greasy, high-calorie delivery foods.</p>
<p>
	Perhaps not the most nutrient dense choice, but still healthy, an indulgence like this can be just the ticket when you don&rsquo;t want to look at another piece of lettuce.</p>

<p>
	I found the recipe for this pizza on <a href="http://www.myrecipes.com/">myrecipes.com</a>, which is one of my go-to websites when looking for new meals because a good number of their recipes provide nutrition, including calorie totals, which saves me a lot of time.</p>
<p>
	We made only two small changes to this recipe.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/roasted veggies.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	The first was that we added a dollop more of the tomato sauce than it called for. Perhaps our alternative crust (see below) was slightly larger than the one they intended for us to use, but when we added the sauce, it got spread too thin for our liking. (Nobody likes a dry pizza)</p>
<p>
	The second change was that we used the crust from the <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_mexican_chicken_pizza1">Mexican Chicken pizza</a> that <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_dinner_is_served">I wrote about</a> a little while back instead of using store-bought refrigerated dough. Nothing against prepared dough. We just really like the corn meal texture of the other crust.</p>
<p>
	Though I am curious about whether I&rsquo;d be able to find whole wheat pizza crust dough somewhere.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/whole pizza.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Anyway, whether you make your own favorite crust or buy some dough from the grocery store, this recipe is not hard.</p>
<p>
	It does take a little more time than, say, sloppy joes, so you might opt to save this for a weekend. (I find that recipe websites always fudge the time required to make a meal. Maybe they have professional ninja chopping skills, but I take a little longer cutting up my vegetables.)</p>
<p>
	Thankfully, my work-from-home husband roasted the veggies before I got home, so that really helped.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/sliced pizza.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	The great thing is that you can mix and match your toppings. Don&rsquo;t like mushrooms? Switch them out for some wilted spinach. Don&rsquo;t like onions? Throw on some pineapple or pears. In fact, I think adding in something sweet would create wonderful contrast.</p>
<p>
	The one thing we&rsquo;d change next time is the ricotta. Using the kind we&rsquo;re required to use for Adam&rsquo;s special diet (skim), we&rsquo;ve discovered that it doesn&rsquo;t melt too well. So I think next time, we&rsquo;d still use it because we like the texture, but we&rsquo;d use a smaller quantity and punch it up with a little feta, goat or other low-fat cheese.</p>

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<p>
	I already have a stuffed bell pepper recipe that we love, but of course I felt the need to try another one I recently found because it not only has a whole grain and legumes, but also broccoli, an incredible veggie.</p>
<p>
	And the verdict?</p>

<p>
	Tasty!</p>
<p>
	And that&#39;s coming from someone who&#39;s only an acquaintance of broccoli. I wouldn&#39;t call us friends exactly. We respect each other and talk occasionally out of necessity (sometimes grudgingly), but we&#39;re not divulging any BFF-type secrets to each other yet.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;ll admit that the stuffed peppers exactly as the recipe delivers are bland and require some adjustments.</p>
<p>
	I usually wouldn&#39;t recommend adding salt, but in this case, it needs it. Not a lot. Just a generous pinch.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	(Adam and I made 8 of these on Sunday and put them in a tupperware in the fridge to keep for lunches this week. To heat one up, I like to cut it into at least quarters, but more like 16ths, because it heats throughout much faster. Once it&#39;s cut into smaller pieces and spread across your plate/bowl is a great time to add a little salt because you&#39;re not just sprinkling it on top and ignoring the rest of the filling.)</p>
<p>
	Or, in place of salt, some additional feta, or maybe some some tomato paste or extra salsa when preparing. Just something to add a little more flavor. Otherwise, it tastes a little too &quot;healthy.&quot;</p>
<p>
	The other stuffed pepper recipe (that remains my favorite) has squash, zucchini, chickpeas, feta, grape tomatoes and couscous. It is a-MA-zing! <a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2007/09/couscous-and-feta-stuffed-peppers/">This</a> is the recipe for it, if you&rsquo;re interested.</p>
<p>
	In the recipe for this one, included below and in the sidebar, I&rsquo;m making my suggested modifications.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/stuffed pepper.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	This stuffed pepper has been a great lunch for us this week. The other stuffed pepper recipe I linked to is also delicious. And both are meat-free and good for you. So pick the one you think you&#39;ll like best and get cooking!</p>
<p>
	P.S. Unlike with oatmeal, the instant version of brown rice has a similar glycemic index to regular, longer-cooking brown rice, so it&#39;s just as healthy to use the quicker version!</p>

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	<em>From eatbetteramerica.com</em></p>
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	<li>
		2 large bell peppers, seeded, cut in half lengthwise<em> (see Liz alternative below)</em></li>
	<li>
		2/3 C. water</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. uncooked instant brown rice</li>
	<li>
		1 C. chopped fresh broccoli</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. chopped onion</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. canned red beans, drained, rinsed</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. chunky-style salsa</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. shredded reduced-fat Cheddar cheese (1 oz)</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. chopped fresh cilantro</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the peppers:</strong></p>
<p>
	In an 8- or 9-inch square microwavable dish, place peppers, cut sides down. Cover dish with plastic wrap, folding back one edge or corner 1/4 inch to vent steam. Microwave on High about 4 minutes or until tender.</p>
<p>
	<em>Liz alternative: I&#39;m not a big fan of the microwave for cooking vegetables, though I haven&#39;t tried the above method, so feel free to if it&#39;s easier for you. My go-to method for not-crunchy-but-not-squishy bell peppers is this: Cut tops off peppers and seed. Bring a large pot of water to a boil. Place peppers in boiling water for 5 minutes, then drain. Cut in half to continue following their recipe below.)</em></p>
<p>
	Meanwhile, in 1-quart saucepan, heat water to boiling over high heat. Stir in rice, broccoli and onion; reduce heat to low. Cover; simmer about 10 minutes or until water is absorbed. Stir in beans and salsa.</p>
<p>
	Spoon hot rice mixture into pepper halves. Place filled sides up in microwavable dish. Sprinkle each pepper half with 1 tablespoon of the cheese. Cover dish with plastic wrap, folding back one edge or corner 1/4 inch to vent steam. Microwave on High about 1 minute or until cheese is melted. Sprinkle with cilantro. Let stand 1 to 2 minutes before serving.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 2<br />
	Serving size: 1 whole pepper<br />
	Calories per serving: 250</p>


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<p>
	I thought I would make Fridays a fun, eating out edition of my Heart Healthy &quot;series.&quot; I don&#39;t know if I&#39;ll be able to provide something every single Friday (and Fridays may occasionally be topics unrelated to food), but I don&#39;t know anybody who cooks every single meal for themselves.</p>
<p>
	So I figured it might be helpful to share some of the nutritious meals I enjoy when I take a break from the kitchen and go out.</p>

<p>
	I&#39;ll probably also include grocery store items. I&#39;m not usually a fan of pre-packaged goods because I believe that the delivery of foods is just as important as the content (calcium supplements v. freshly steamed broccoli). However, there are things I buy from the store that I really enjoy and I&#39;ll consider those for these posts too.</p>
<p>
	First up, I want to take a look at Jason&#39;s Deli. They have locations in nearly 30 states, so there&#39;s a decent chance there&#39;s one near you.</p>
<p>
	Before I share with you the dish I&#39;ve been enjoying there lately, I have to sing the praises of their salad bar!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/salad bar.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	One thing I find tricky with preparing salads (and other foods) at home, as I&#39;ve mentioned somewhere in a previous post, is that you often have to buy a whole bag of carrots, but only need 2 or 3. Well, multiply that across all of the produce you buy and that can result in a lot of waste, which I hate.</p>
<p>
	But going out to a salad bar, you get so much more variety (because are you really going to buy lettuce, carrots, broccoli, cauliflower, beets, tomatoes, onions, sunflower seeds, peppers, peas, mushrooms, cheese, dressing and so on and so forth? Of course not. And if you did, it would take forever to prepare all of that).</p>
<p>
	And Jason&#39;s offers quite a few organics too, which is hard to find elsewhere.</p>
<p>
	Their ingredients are always fresh and colorful, which makes even an irregular (although becoming more regular!) salad eater like me drool a little on the glass.</p>
<p>
	Okay, moving on to my featured dish. I found a prepared salad on their menu recently that I have ordered a couple trips in a row now, and that&#39;s their Nutty Mixed-Up Salad.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/salad 1.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	It has a base of field greens topped with grilled chicken breast, grapes, feta, nuts, dried cranberries, pumpkin seeds, raisins and apples. And I love me a fruity salad. (Waldorf Salad, anyone?)</p>
<p>
	It depends on your hunger level, but I&#39;d recommend getting the &quot;lighter&quot; portion. It&#39;s still rather large. I had ordered a cup of vegetable soup on the side and couldn&#39;t quite finish either one because the salad was still so big.</p>
<p>
	So if you&#39;re ever in need of getting a bite while you&#39;re running around town and want something that won&#39;t leave you feeling heavy or guilty, this is one meal/restaurant I recommend.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/salad closeup.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>

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	As we continue to draw nearer to Christmas, I&rsquo;m really getting into the spirit. Adam&rsquo;s been excited about Christmas this year since before Thanksgiving and it&rsquo;s kind of infectious. We&rsquo;re getting close to the end of shopping for presents too, which is a huge relief.</p>

<p>
	Immediately after getting back from our trip to Miami, we put up our little tree.</p>
<p>
	I have to interrupt myself here to say that I am pleasantly surprised that the cats have not, in 2 years of Christmases, ever bothered the tree or our ornaments. From what I hear from other cat owners (and what I expected from my own cats), this is not the norm.</p>
<p>
	I had thought that all of those hanging &ldquo;toys&rdquo; would be too much to resist, but I am thrilled to be wrong. (So far. Knock on wood.)</p>
<p>
	In fact, things are quite the opposite. They LOVE the Christmas tree and treat it tenderly.</p>
<p>
	They hide their toys under it and take naps there. Chloe in particular is a huge fan. Being the scaredy-cat that she is, it&rsquo;s the perfect setup for her. She hides back against the wall and under the tree so that nobody will bother her, but can still spend time with us in the same room.</p>
<p>
	And of course there&#39;s the tree skirt.</p>
<p>
	If you have ever had a cat, you know they need to lie ON things. Paper, plastic, blankets, tables, people. It doesn&#39;t really matter. If you put a cat in a giant warehouse and left a single coffee filter lying in a random spot, that is where the cat would lie down.</p>
<p>
	Chloe almost always avoids people and almost never photographs well (we both think she believes the camera will steal her soul ... why else would she look so angry in most of her pictures?). However, I thought this photo was a perfect representation of how much she loves this tree.</p>
<p>
	In fact, I&rsquo;m going to feel terrible when we have put the tree away at the end of the year.</p>
<p>
	So without further ado, I present to you ... a Christmas Chloe!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/christmas chloe.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 380px; " /></p>

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<p>
	I couldn&#39;t start writing blog entries about foods that prevent heart disease without including oatmeal early on. It is universally agreed upon that oatmeal is good for your heart. Oats contain more soluble fiber than any other grain, so it is the king of whole grains.</p>
<p>
	Only one problem...</p>

<p>
	I don&rsquo;t like oatmeal.</p>
<p>
	All right, all right. That was just my lead-in. The truth is, I didn&#39;t <em>used</em> to like oatmeal. I always wanted to force myself to eat it since I know how nutritious it is, but I have texture issues.</p>
<p>
	I don&rsquo;t like the feel of fingernails on almost anything (fabric, chalkboards, etc.); I have a spit phobia because of its globbulous nature; I hate shredded coconut but not coconut flavor.</p>
<p>
	Texture is important to me.</p>
<p>
	And oatmeal &hellip; well, it can be pretty snotty, right? You pop open a packet of instant oatmeal and microwave it and you get a pile of cinnamon flavored goo.</p>
<p>
	Well.</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;m here to tell you that that is not what oatmeal was meant to be and thank goodness! I will never eat instant again.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/oatmeal ingredients.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Okay, this is a digression, but bear with me. It&rsquo;ll come back full circle.</p>
<p>
	Adam and I both follow JJ Redick on Twitter, being Magic fans and liking him in particular as one of our favorite players. Well, he tweeted a while back that his mom, who is a nutritionist, was starting a food blog. So of course I immediately bookmarked the page.</p>
<p>
	Only a few posts in, she put up a recipe for stovetop oatmeal. Not instant. Rolled oats. I had to try it.</p>
<p>
	Ohhhhhh ... so THIS is what oatmeal is supposed to taste like! Fabulous.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	It&rsquo;s good for lowering cholesterol, which is goal #1, but it is also incredibly filling. I can actually make it to lunchtime without feeling like my stomach is about to start consuming my other organs. It&rsquo;s a miracle!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/blueberry oatmeal.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I have to throw in here that I have read that steel-cut oats have a higher soluble fiber content than rolled oats. However, other experts disagree &hellip; of course. Without looking it up in a medical journal for the final word, I&rsquo;m just going to live and let live because, regardless, rolled oats take less than half the time to cook. And really, who has 30+ minutes to make breakfast?</p>
<p>
	In addition to the time it takes your stove to boil water, add 8 minutes to cook the rolled oats and another minute to stir everything together and you&#39;re done. Your body will thank you for taking the time to do it.</p>
<p>
	So grab the oat groats of your choice, pick your favorite topping and start your day right! Recipe below and also&nbsp;<a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_stovetop_oatmeal">here</a>.</p>
<p>
	(Kitty approved)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/kitteh approval.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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	<em>From jeanieredickeatforlife.blogspot.com, with 1 tiny change from me</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1/2 Cup rolled oats</li>
	<li>
		1 Cup water</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. walnuts</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. flax seed meal</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. pure Vermont maple syrup</li>
	<li>
		3 Tbsp. soy milk</li>
	<li>
		Fruit of your choice</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Bring the cup of water to a boil, then add the rolled oats. Reduce heat to low and leave for 8 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Stir in the milled flax seed, maple syrup and soy milk, then top with nuts and fruit.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 1<br />
	Calories per serving: 425</p>


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<p>
	Even though Adam and I enjoy cooking together because it means healthier meals and a greater enjoyment in eating the food (because we worked so hard to make it!), it&rsquo;s still nice to have easy nights when it&rsquo;s been a long day.</p>
<p>
	And for those times, we turn to our good friend, Mr. Slow Cooker. I&rsquo;d like to think a woman invented this gadgetry gem after too many evenings spent in the kitchen, but that&rsquo;s unfortunately not true according to the internets.</p>

<p>
	Oh well. I&rsquo;m still very thankful for both it and a husband who works from home and is happy to help.</p>
<p>
	This first heart healthy dinner is a soup &amp; salad combo. The salad is our variation of a <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_waldorf_salad">Waldorf salad</a>. The base is 1 1/3 cups of spinach per person. The topping is apple pieces, raisins and walnuts mixed with a small amount of fat-free mayo.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Waldorf Salad.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	It takes very little time to throw together and it&rsquo;s actually a salad that I enjoy. Adam says it&rsquo;s become his new favorite.</p>
<p>
	In these pictures, we&rsquo;ve replaced the walnuts with pecans because we&rsquo;d forgotten to buy walnuts for 2 weeks straight. And I already had golden raisins on hand, so obviously substitutions can be made. (Sorry the pictures aren&#39;t better. Most were taken right before we ate and the sun goes down so early!)</p>
<p>
	But this is a very low-calorie and healthful salad, with spinach, apple and nuts in a tasty combination.</p>
<p>
	The main event here is the soup, however. This was our first time making and trying it. It&rsquo;s <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_southwestern_three_bean_barley_soup">Southwestern three-bean and barley soup</a>, which is basically a meat-free chili. The cumin adds some great flavor and it&rsquo;s very filling.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Bean &amp; Barley Soup.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	This can also be made on the stovetop, but we didn&rsquo;t see the point because it takes a couple of hours to cook that way anyway and we&rsquo;d be eating dinner near 8, by which time I&rsquo;d have starved to death. By using the slow cooker, you can either set it to low for the 8-hour, all-day cook (our choice since Adam can throw it in around 10) or set it up on your lunch break for half that time on high.</p>
<p>
	An added bonus for doing this the slow cooker way (besides the hands-free awesomeness) is that you aren&rsquo;t required to do any of the cooking prep. Granted, if you have the time, I&rsquo;m sure that saut&eacute;ing the veggies before you toss them in would add to the flavor, but it&rsquo;s still very delicious if you don&rsquo;t.</p>
<p>
	This was Adam&rsquo;s first meal with barley in it and he really liked it, so I consider that a total success!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Bean Soup &amp; Waldorf Salad.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	An additional bonus is that dried beans are extremely cheap and with this recipe, you don&rsquo;t have to soak them first.</p>
<p>
	The only downside for us is trying to figure out what to use the remaining carrots and celery for. I always groan at recipes that want 1 of any vegetable since you can&rsquo;t buy them that way at most stores.</p>
<p>
	Recipes are below, linked from this post and available at the top of the sidebar.&nbsp;</p>

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		3 C. spinach</li>
	<li>
		1 medium apple (any kind you like)</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. chopped walnuts</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. raisins</li>
	<li>
		3 Tbsp. low-fat or fat-free mayo</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Split the spinach into two portions.</p>
<p>
	Cut apple into bite-sized pieces and place in a medium bowl. Add walnuts, raisins and mayo to apple pieces and stir to mix and coat.</p>
<p>
	Divide salad topping in half and place over spinach.</p>
<p>
	Servings: 2<br />
	Calories per serving: 160</p>


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	<em>From eatingwell.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. extra-virgin olive oil</li>
	<li>
		1 large onion, diced</li>
	<li>
		1 large stalk celery, diced</li>
	<li>
		1 large carrot, diced</li>
	<li>
		9 C. water (if doing slow cooker, use ONLY 2 cups!)</li>
	<li>
		4 C. (32 oz) reduced-sodium chicken or vegetable broth</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. pearl barley</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. dried black beans</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. dried great northern beans</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. dried kidney beans</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. chili powder</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. ground cumin</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. dried oregano</li>
	<li>
		3/4 tsp. salt</li>
</ul>
<p>
	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Stovetop Method:</strong></p>
<p>
	Prep your veggies.</p>
<p>
	Heat oil in a Dutch oven over medium heat. Add onion, celery and carrot and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened, about 5 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Add water, broth, barley, black beans, great northern beans, kidney beans, chili powder, cumin and oregano. Bring to a lively simmer over high heat. Reduce heat to maintain a simmer and cook, stirring occasionally, until the beans are tender, 1 3/4 to 2 1/2 hours (adding more water, 1/2 cup at a time, if necessary or desired). Season with salt.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Slow Cooker Variations:</strong></p>
<p>
	Use 2 cups water (instead of 9 cups) and combine all ingredients in a 5- to 6-quart slow cooker. Cover and cook until the beans are tender, either 4 hours on High or 7-8 hours on Low.</p>
<p>
	Serving size: 1 1/3 cups<br />
	Calories per serving: 205&nbsp;</p>


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<p>
	Adam and I drove down to Miami the day before Thanksgiving and stayed through the weekend to visit my family. There was cooking, there were games and oh man, was there eating!</p>
<p>
	Let&#39;s recap!</p>

<p>
	I should backtrack for a second to let you know about something that was super exciting to me: I got my car&#39;s headliner fixed. It had been hanging for the better part of a year. You can see it sagging in the photo below and, on the left, it&#39;s actually hanging down at the back of the roof.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448904119_1b7ef4f15d.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	I had to go into the scariest part of Orlando that I&#39;ve yet seen to find the auto interiors shop, but it was totally worth the work and the cost!</p>
<p>
	Anyway, with my newly repaired car, we got down to Miami on Wednesday around 8:30 p.m. and after greeting everyone and settling in a bit, collapsed in bed to reenergize for turkey day.</p>
<p>
	Coordinating my desserts with my mom&#39;s schedule of dishes was a little complex, and I won&#39;t say there weren&#39;t any hiccups, but it actually turned out all right in the end. We both worked on turkey prep. I pulled out the neck and giblets and helped heft it into the baking pan where my mom stuffed it.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448702303_3517ed1a5c.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	I think the only other things I was responsible for were stuffing (because the kids ripping the bread is tradition) and, ironically (because I&#39;ve never liked it), the sweet potato casserole. Weirdly, I kind of liked the bite I tried off Adam&#39;s plate, but maybe that&#39;s because I made it myself. Lol. I&#39;m a piece of work. Though, truthfully, my palate has expanded as I&#39;ve gotten older.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448701323_47b9a78d8e.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	In between kitchen time, we pulled out some long-forgotten toys from childhood. (The Empire State Blocks is mine.)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448708693_436e1e2b45.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448709599_3d22fc0f56.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	I made both a traditional pumpkin pie to keep everyone happy and I also re-made the <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_52_sundays_of_dessert_week_37">cranberry pecan tart from my project</a> because I wanted my mom to try it. Both turned out wonderfully and many slices were devoured.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448702873_4a7a391d92.jpg" style="cursor: default; " /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448711859_1506a5f346.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	After recovering from our food comas, we drove over to visit my dad and Marina the next day. They drove us down to Key Largo for dinner.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Well, actually we did a little sightseeing first. I think we went as far down as Marathon and stopped at an artists village. We bought a few &quot;thank you&quot; gifts for Katie, Patrick &amp; Trish for watching the cats.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448719477_b68c517752.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	The restaurant we ate at was Sundowners and we actually got to sit on the sand by the water and watch the sunset while we sipped our margaritas and pina coladas. It was absolutely gorgeous. I have this knack (and I quite honestly don&#39;t know how I do it), but, while I am only average at most things in life (and rather poor at some in particular), I am really good at picking a good dish off a menu.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448719971_e0002de9e7.jpg" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	The last dozen times I&#39;ve either tried a new restaurant or forced myself to try something new at a familiar restaurant, I have picked a winner.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Even if the meal sounds weird, it ends up being amazing and Adam will tell me he likes what I picked better than what he picked for himself.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	So, that skill, and being able to pick out random, mostly unknown bands from store audio systems or the backgrounds of TV shows. Those are my two strengths.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448722843_a56095a95c.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	On Saturday, mom and Terry took us to Vizcaya, which I hadn&#39;t been to since probably sometime in high school or earlier, and of course Adam had never seen. It&#39;s a historical house that was owned by John Deering and it&#39;s very pretty, especially if you&#39;re into seeing old furniture, art and architecture from varying points of origin. (Which we are.)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448724461_740cc12c9b.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	You&#39;re not allowed to take pictures inside, so you&#39;ll have to be satisfied with the exterior. Although I think there are some images on their own <a href="http://www.vizcayamuseum.org/">site</a>, if you&#39;re interested.</p>
<p>
	And of course the gardens and ocean view are ridiculous. I pretty much intend for my future estate to be inspired from some of the design elements of this quaint landscaping.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448732927_cec546044f.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	Lol. Or, you know, I hope I have an orange tree or a couple of bushes in my backyard. We took lots of pictures!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6448734671_94f64d5af4.jpg" style="cursor: default; " /></p>
<p>
	Following our time out, we went for a fancy dinner at Chart House, where my mom had gotten them to print a Happy Anniversary wish to us at the top of our menus! (Because we just hit our 2-year anniversary this past Sunday. Woohoo!)</p>
<p>
	The food was incredible and the restaurant and views are very elegant and breathtaking.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	If you&#39;d like to see the rest of our Miami trip photos, click <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/elixirgraphics/sets/72157628264864247/">here</a> for the Flickr gallery.)</p>
<p>
	We spent the actual day of our anniversary driving back to Orlando, but hey, that&#39;s all right. We decided in advance that for our anniversary this year, we&#39;d treat ourselves to a joint present: a new mattress.</p>
<p>
	I found this cool deal online where you can order a user-tested <a href="http://www.healthyfoundations.com/memory_foam_mattress.html">memory foam mattress</a> at an excellent price and have it vacuum sealed and shipped to your door. So we ordered it Saturday and it was here on Tuesday! Can you believe it&#39;s a whole mattress?</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/IMG_0117.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	So far, it is wonderful and saved us the hassle of dealing with mattress store salespeople. A week into our 365-day money back guarantee testing period, I can tell you it was a good decision!</p>
<p>
	And that about rounds out our past couple weeks. Hope you enjoyed it!</p>

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<p>
	Okay, so I haven&#39;t had the time I thought I would to put together a vacation recap, but my goal is to get it up this weekend. In the meantime, here&#39;s a little bit of what&#39;s going on at my household right now.</p>
<p>
	Recently, Adam got word that his cholesterol is a bit high. So we&rsquo;re on an even <em>healthier</em> healthy diet now. I thought we ate pretty well already (with a few indulgences to keep us happy). We&rsquo;re both at a good weight and are trying to exercise a few times a week.</p>
<p>
	But now, we are healthy eating machines!</p>

<p>
	It&rsquo;s almost a given that his cholesterol issues are hereditary, but we really don&rsquo;t want him to have to go on a long-term prescription drug if we can avoid it! So of course we&rsquo;re turning to diet and a more consistent exercise routine.</p>
<p>
	We were already doing two vegetarian dinners per week, lots of fresh produce, low-calorie desserts and good portions.</p>
<p>
	Starting this week and continuing for the foreseeable future, we&rsquo;re now having a &ldquo;good fats&rdquo; fish twice a week, oatmeal with milled flaxseed for at least half of our breakfasts, an increase of vegetables high in soluble fiber, legumes, small quantities of nuts, etc.</p>
<p>
	A few times a week, we go out to give ourselves a cooking break, so we&rsquo;re focusing on salads at Jason&rsquo;s Deli and sushi for low-fat options.</p>
<p>
	Hey, you know what? I should be blogging our meals. Hmmm &hellip; maybe I&rsquo;ll start taking pictures and share our heart healthy choices with the recipes attached.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Ooh, I&rsquo;m excited now! New project!</p>
<p>
	We&rsquo;ll take a break from all the desserts and I&rsquo;ll start putting up our healthy meals. Most of these, by the way, are totally new to me, so I guess we&rsquo;ll see how they turn out together.</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;m pretty stoked about this actually. Sometimes once I start writing, the ideas begin to flow.</p>
<p>
	Okay, awesome. I&#39;ll start putting up all the things we&#39;re eating so you can maybe get some ideas for your own meals! Breakfast, lunch, dinner, etc. We&#39;ll cover everything!</p>

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<title>Nerd Humor Filler</title>
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<p>
	I am officially back from vacation today, but of course that means catching up on the 100+ emails and work that I received while I was out. So while I have lots of fun things to post from my time off, it will have to wait until I have time tomorrow or Friday.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	In the meantime, I thought you might appreciate a little nerdy grammar humor.</p>

<p>
	<strong>Seven Bar Jokes&nbsp;Involving Grammar and&nbsp;Punctuation</strong><br />
	By Eric K. Auld</p>
<p>
	<em>(from McSweeney&#39;s)</em></p>
<p>
	1. A comma splice walks into a bar, it has a drink and then leaves.</p>
<p>
	2. A dangling modifier walks into a bar. After finishing a drink, the bartender asks it to leave.</p>
<p>
	3. A question mark walks into a bar?</p>
<p>
	4. Two quotation marks &ldquo;walk into&rdquo; a bar.</p>
<p>
	5. A gerund and an infinitive walk into a bar, drinking to drink.</p>
<p>
	6. The bar was walked into by the passive voice.</p>
<p>
	7. Three intransitive verbs walk into a bar. They sit. They drink. They leave. &nbsp;</p>

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<p>
	I had a whole bunch of ideas for blog posts recently, but I was effectively derailed last week.</p>
<p>
	&nbsp;At least one of the entries I&rsquo;ll be able to put up this week instead since it isn&rsquo;t time-sensitive, but you&rsquo;ll have missed my amazing birthday dessert for Adam because I was too distracted to remember to take pictures before we polished it off!</p>

<p>
	It was a Nutella Tart with Hazelnut Crust and Mascarpone Whipped Cream.</p>
<p>
	It was a tart crust with roasted hazelnuts ground into the flour. The filling was a thickened nutella and cream pudding. And I mixed mascarpone cheese with cream for the topping, with roasted, chopped hazelnuts sprinkled on top.</p>
<p>
	Can I just say it turned out as amazing as I hoped it would? Wish there was still some left&hellip;</p>
<p>
	But on to the reason I didn&rsquo;t get much done last week: I was eaten alive.</p>
<p>
	And not by fleas this time, but mosquitoes! The bad news? I am allergic to everything.</p>
<p>
	Fine, I&rsquo;m exaggerating. I&rsquo;m at least allergic to fleas &amp; mosquitoes. But this leads me to wonder what other bug bites I&rsquo;ve developed an allergy to. Ants? Bees??</p>
<p>
	On Monday, Adam and I drove down to Kissimmee to have dinner with my mom since she was in town for a teacher conference. The weather was nice, so we sat outside &hellip; my fatal mistake.</p>
<p>
	Adam: pants</p>
<p>
	Mom: pants</p>
<p>
	Liz: dress</p>
<p>
	I got somewhere in the neighborhood of 20-30 bites. I didn&rsquo;t really notice them until Tuesday and thought, oh great, mosquito bites. But it wasn&rsquo;t until Wednesday that I had a problem. I took a sick day.</p>
<p>
	Just like with the flea bites in July, the mosquito bites swelled up to the size of nickels, turned bright red and hot and itched like fire whenever I walked. I guess that&rsquo;s how it is with allergies. You get the blood moving and that&rsquo;s what causes the problem. Sitting still, not so bad.</p>
<p>
	I tried hydrocortisone cream, Benadryl and Benadryl anti-histamine anti-itch spray. No help whatsoever.</p>
<p>
	I could barely sleep for two days. The warmth of the bed created extreme discomfort for me. So I tried sleeping with my feet out the side of the duvet, but then I&rsquo;d wake up cold and &hellip; you can guess the cycle there. Showering was also torture, but I had to do it so I didn&rsquo;t feel like a filthy zombie all week.</p>
<p>
	By Thursday, I had eaten breakfast and gotten ready for work like a good soldier, when I realized I was about to cry from the discomfort.</p>
<p>
	Adam only had to suggest once that I go to the doctor before I caved. And let me tell you, I&rsquo;m usually a much tougher nut to crack when it comes to doctor&rsquo;s appointments. But this was the third episode I&rsquo;d had with a bad reaction to bug bites in 6 months and it was unbearable.</p>
<p>
	I just couldn&rsquo;t take it anymore.</p>
<p>
	I got a 6-day pack of Prednisone. It didn&rsquo;t work an instant miracle by any account, but within 48 hours, I actually felt functional again. By this morning, I was able to put on socks and sneakers to exercise with Adam before work.</p>
<p>
	I should&rsquo;ve taken pictures so you could see how truly horrible the situation was, but I don&rsquo;t think anyone needs to see my diseased legs and feet. It looked like alien chicken pox.</p>
<p>
	Needless to say, between taking sick time and working on my laptop from home to stay as motionless as possible for 3 days, I wasn&rsquo;t particularly productive.</p>
<p>
	My doctor&rsquo;s advice from now on when spending time outside: Wear long pants, use bug repellant, avoid buggy conditions.</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;m screwed, aren&rsquo;t I?</p>
<p>
	How do you avoid mosquitoes in Florida when your only options are either to put on more clothes than any sane person would want to wear in the summer down here or smell like bug spray?</p>
<p>
	At least I have the rest of winter to look forward to until I have to avoid being outside ever again. Sigh. Can I trade for lactose intolerance?&nbsp;</p>

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<p>
	On Saturday, Adam and I took a trip over to St. Petersburg to visit the new and improved Dali Museum. This was my birthday outing for him.</p>
<p>
	We got there right about the time they opened for the day and wow, the new building is amazing!&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	Above is the view from the parking lot, but the back is the more iconic side:</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Adam outside Dali.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	The gallery was amazing. Adam took a lot of art history classes in college, so I love taking him places like this because it brings back some things that he studied and enjoyed so much.</p>
<p>
	Of course, we couldn&rsquo;t take pictures of any of the artwork, so let me distract you with a picture of two of the visitors. Awww, aren&rsquo;t they cute?</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Adam &amp; Liz at Dali.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	Between the main gallery and a smaller one was an incredible spiral staircase stretching up to the glass ceiling. Here are shots of it from upstairs and then from below.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Spiral Staircase.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	They have a cute little caf&eacute;, so we ate lunch there (which was tricky for me because basically everything came with olives. Blech!). Then we had some fun buying memorabilia from the gift shop before we headed back out.</p>
<p>
	Despite a couple of hiccups during our trip, such as not being able to join a tour group because the group was like 50 people (!) and we knew we wouldn&#39;t be able to hear or see anything, we both had a fun time.</p>
<p>
	See the rest of the photos <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/elixirgraphics/sets/72157627949901337/with/6322538176/">here</a>!&nbsp;</p>

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<p>
	A belated (blog-wise) Happy Birthday to Adam, who turns 32 this year! His birthday was yesterday, so he got to open a card and one present. He has to wait until this weekend to open the rest so that everyone else can come over and celebrate with us.</p>

<p>
	I assigned a number in my head to each of the presents I bought him and made him pick from 1-4 to see which one he got to open on his birthday. He chose my biggest present for him this year, which is a waffle maker, which he&#39;s been wanting for some time, so I know he was stoked to get it.</p>
<p>
	(And really, I don&#39;t see how I won&#39;t ultimately benefit from this too. Win-win!)</p>
<p>
	Anyway, Happy Birthday, Adam! I love you and you deserve a wonderful birthday week!</p>
<p>
	I also thought I would share an easy fruit salad recipe with you that I found in my searches of the Internet last week. (I modified it ever so slightly to make it even easier.) It&#39;s an Autumn Apple Salad, which seems fitting to me, though really you could eat it year-round.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m having it as part of my lunch this week, though it could also be a snack, a dinner appetizer or possibly even breakfast. Actually, now that I think of it, it could be dessert too. Very versatile.</p>
<p>
	I found a good one-person serving to be:&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	- 1/2 medium apple, chopped into bite-sized pieces<br />
	- 2 oz. of Dannon light &amp; fit vanilla yogurt (about 3 Tbsp)<br />
	- 2 Tbsp. craisins (not raisins; make sure you catch that &quot;c&quot;)<br />
	- 1 Tbsp. blanched, slivered almonds</p>
<p>
	Basically, just mix everything up in a bowl.</p>
<p>
	If you were to make a larger bowl for a group, you&#39;d want to quadruple (almost) everything: 2 apples, 6 oz. yogurt, 1/2 C. craisins, 1/4 C. almonds. Though of course, make everything to taste.</p>
<p>
	I think the single portion adds up to about 140 calories. And it tastes like candy!</p>

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<p>
	As some of you already know, I took a short trip to Philadelphia this past weekend. I was overdue to visit Adinah and as an added bonus, got to see some of my relatives in Lancaster.</p>
<p>
	It was Adinah&rsquo;s birthday on Saturday, which made my trip very well timed.&nbsp;The only real downside at the outset was that my outgoing flight was delayed an hour and a half, which meant I didn&rsquo;t arrive until midnight. So I started out a bit groggy. But I recovered!</p>

<p>
	On Friday, Adinah and I took a road trip out toward Lancaster to visit some of my extended family. We stopped to pick apples at an orchard called Brecknock Farms. The leaves, the cold air &hellip; the gourds!</p>
<p>
	Take a look at this crazy montage of gourds and please note (particularly in the picture where I&rsquo;ve provided a body part for scale) how HUGE these are!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Brecknock Gourds.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	After getting our pickin&rsquo; bucket, we headed down to the available rows of apple trees. We got some Braeburn, Pink Lady, Gala, Fuji &amp; Granny Smith (I believe I&rsquo;m remembering the correct varieties).</p>
<p>
	We may or may not have ended up with 18 pounds. I know, I know &hellip; but the point was more for the fun of it since it was my first time and we did bake an <a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2008/09/moms-apple-cake/">apple cake</a>, ate a couple raw and I brought some home to make more <a href="http://leitesculinaria.com/45846/recipes-apple-and-white-cheddar-scones.html">apple &amp; white cheddar scones</a>.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Apple Picking.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	We also stopped by the college my dad went to, Franklin &amp; Marshall, and I took some pictures for him.</p>
<p>
	And I feel completely ashamed but I TOTALLY forgot to take pictures with my great-aunt Marie &amp; great-uncle Joe. I don&rsquo;t know why other than that we spent the whole time talking and so I forgot about documenting it. But hopefully I&rsquo;ll get back again before another 3 years go by.</p>
<p>
	It was certainly fun to see the farm again &hellip; the corn and sheep that make me nostalgic for my childhood visits.</p>
<p>
	On Saturday, we intended to do all sorts of things, but when we woke up, it was raining. And then sleeting. And then snowing. And then raining. And then snowing again.</p>
<p>
	You can see the abrupt progression that took place from fall to quasi-winter below.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Seasonal Change.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 750px; " /></p>
<p>
	So, the good news is that I not only got to see some fall leaves for the first time, but I also got to see a snowfall! Weird and unexpected as it was. Apparently, they had not previously seen snow in October since 1979.</p>
<p>
	We decided to brave the outdoors anyway and I got at least a driving tour of downtown. Granted, I didn&rsquo;t get photos of everything I would have liked to, but I shot some from the car and at a few places we stopped so I could hop out for photos. (And by &quot;hop&quot; I mean &quot;edge forward very, very carefully&quot; because it was extremely slushy.)</p>
<p>
	This is the capitol building and...&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/capitol.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	...the art museum (the steps of which were famously used in Rocky).</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/art museum.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	I found my new favorite store: <a href="http://theheadnut.com/">The Head Nut</a>.</p>
<p>
	It is row upon row of spices, preserves, decorative sugars, nuts, dried legumes, candies, coffees &amp; teas. I found things there that I look for all the time in stores down here and never find. (Smoked paprika, I&#39;m talking about you!)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/head nut.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	We rounded out the day by visiting a friend of hers and then going back to her apartment to make the aforementioned apple cake and to watch the newer Alice in Wonderland.</p>
<p>
	On Sunday, I didn&rsquo;t have to fly out until almost 3, so we went for a walk around Adinah&rsquo;s neighborhood. Both of us ended up buying a book apiece at the used bookstore. I don&#39;t think either one of us has any restraint when it comes to bound paper.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/church.JPG" /></p>
<p>
	And then on to a gorgeous trail/park nearby. Man, I wish I had a place like this in my neighborhood! Both the scenery and the temperature were absolutely perfect that day.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/tree against sky.JPG" /></p>
<p>
	Well, that&rsquo;s it. Hope you enjoyed the pictures!&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	(I have lots more, but I&#39;ll see if I can get them on Flickr because I am entirely out of space here!)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/me on trail.JPG" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>

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	A year after buying myself my first sewing machine and 10 months after getting a Christmas present of sewing supplies from my mother-in-law (Edith), I finally made my first attempt at sewing.</p>
<p>
	I never took a Home Ec-type class when I was in school and, aside from cross-stitching, have no experience with a needle and thread. I think I was just intimidated by all the parts on the sewing machine and I needed a little boost of encouragement.</p>

<p>
	So while Edith and her friend (Barb) were down this past weekend, I got my first lesson from Barb.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Liz Sewing(1).JPG" style="cursor: default; " /></p>
<p>
	And I made &hellip;</p>
<p>
	Drum roll please&hellip;</p>
<p>
	A tablecloth! With borders!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/New Tablecloth(1).JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	<em>(sorry the photo&#39;s blurry ... low lighting and camera phone and all)</em></p>
<p>
	My mother-in-law had bought me some fabric to play with, so we used those scraps to put together a simple tablecloth. It was really fun! And thankfully, all of the fabrics matched, so you can&#39;t even really tell where I sewed them together.</p>
<p>
	Granted, my entire vision here is to eventually sew clothes, but I&rsquo;m not so impractical as to pretend that that&rsquo;s going to happen today or even a month from now. Maybe I&rsquo;ll try a pillow next.</p>
<p>
	But now that I&rsquo;ve got threading the machine down and a feel for using the pedal and all, I&rsquo;m less intimidated about taking a sewing class at Joann&rsquo;s or something. If only I can remember how to load a bobbin&hellip;</p>

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<p>
	I read <a href="http://www.orlandosentinel.com/features/os-william-steele-lottery-20111025,0,2584750.story">this story</a> yesterday about a man who won a huge lottery jackpot and then also a charity raffle afterward. It really seems that some people have amazing luck.</p>
<p>
	And then there&#39;s me.</p>

<p>
	Not that horrible things happen to me all the time, but I have lots of issues. I pushed a door over my toes on Monday and then smacked my ankle into the corner of the bed yesterday. I drop things a lot.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Then there&#39;s this morning&#39;s example.</p>
<p>
	Let me preface it by saying that I am not a morning person by any stretch, but I left the house ten minutes early today to run an errand.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;ve been stressing out the last couple of days because I&#39;m going out of town tomorrow night and it just feels like there are a million things that have to get done before I go. So this morning, I thought I&#39;d knock out putting air in my tires.</p>
<p>
	Granted, my car is not going to explode if I don&#39;t do this until after I get back to Orlando, but I&#39;ve been needing to do it for a while and it&#39;s on my mind.</p>
<p>
	So I drive over to the 7-11 next to my office and pull up to the air pump. I take all of the caps off my tires and dig my quarters out of my pocket with my now filthy fingers. I turn and ... there&#39;s a paper over the money slot saying &quot;out of order.&quot;&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	This is the perfect example of the way things usually happen for me. I pick the wrong day, the wrong time, the wrong location all at once.</p>
<p>
	I hit all the red lights.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I find my missing coupon right after it&#39;s expired.</p>
<p>
	I forget about the leftovers I really wanted to eat until they&#39;ve become a science project in the back of the fridge.</p>
<p>
	Of course, then there&#39;s Adam, who spent several hours outside of the house recently with two different shoes on.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	So that makes me feel better.</p>

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<p>
	I am SO tired today. Some might say I&#39;m just getting old, but my trip to Tampa yesterday took it out of me. I had to drive over there with a coworker for a training seminar, so it was an hour and a half driving, all day in meetings and an hour and a half back.</p>
<p>
	We got back to the Orlando office at 6:45, so when I got home, it was dinner first, then crash. I feel like I barely left work and I&#39;m back this morning.</p>

<p>
	The only thing that&#39;s making me happy at the moment is the weather. We have our first &quot;cold&quot; day of the year! Granted, it&#39;s going to get up to 72 today, but it&#39;s still in the 50s right now. So, not cold maybe, but nice!&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	In fact, I&#39;m not the only one who&#39;s enjoying it.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/jasper on couch 1.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Cuteness here was racing up and down the stairs this morning over and over. No real goal, mind you. The other cats were doing their own things. Just got a snap of cold air into her brain and lost control.</p>
<p>
	I will say Jasper is the cutest one in the cold weather, not just for her hyper antics, but because her fur is so different from any other cat&#39;s I&#39;ve seen before. She&#39;s like a downy fluffball. So when it&#39;s cool out, she puffs up like a bad hair day.</p>
<p>
	Okay, now that I&#39;m looking at cat pictures, I have another thing making me happy this morning.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/jasper on couch 2.JPG" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>

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<p>
	I got two new Apple products in the last two days. One planned, one not.</p>
<p>
	Both shiny and pretty!</p>

<p>
	Today, Adam and I got two new iPhones (4S). We skip every other generation of iPhone (because otherwise, we&rsquo;d be broke!), but it was time for an update and as I type this, he is setting them up for us.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/iPhone 4S(1).jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 133px; " /></p>
<p>
	I am so excited about the vastly improved camera, Siri and all the other major upgrades from my current phone.</p>
<p>
	Yesterday, I got an iMac.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/iMac(1).jpg" /></p>
<p>
	This one gave me clammy palms because it wasn&rsquo;t a planned purchase. But I&rsquo;ve been having some ongoing issues with my MacBook for several years and I guess I was coming due for a new computer.</p>
<p>
	At any rate, I gave in when I realized it was the right thing to do and now I am drooling over it. So pretty with its LED backlighting and new Apple smell!</p>
<p>
	Bottom line: I won&rsquo;t be buying anything for myself for at least the rest of this year!&nbsp;</p>

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<p>
	Remember how I mentioned I was going to make a very &ldquo;fall&rdquo; dessert last weekend? And then did you notice how I never posted anything? You&rsquo;re probably thinking I just slipped up and didn&rsquo;t make it. But I did. Oh, I made it.</p>
<p>
	I just forgot to take pictures of it all week.</p>

<p>
	And then I made something new this weekend, so now I have two. While I could just put the older one up today and put the newer one up later in the week, I worry that I&rsquo;ll forget or get too busy. So they&rsquo;re both going here.</p>
<p>
	(Both recipes are posted in the sidebar and at the bottom of this entry.)</p>
<p>
	<strong>1. So last week, I made an Apple and Caramel Bread Pudding.</strong></p>
<p>
	I wasn&rsquo;t especially familiar with bread pudding as a dessert. In theory, I imagined it was a pudding made out of soggy bread, but it&rsquo;s really so much more.</p>
<p>
	I had my first one at Funky Monkey Wine Company a couple months ago, which was toffee flavored. Granted, mine cannot hold a candle to that one. On the other hand, mine is only 160 calories a slice and still delicious, so &hellip; it balances out?</p>
<p>
	This bread pudding was, hands down, the easiest thing I have baked in two years. I know I&rsquo;ve raved a couple of times about some of the desserts from my project that were short on ingredients and kitchen time, but this one &hellip; this is the winner.</p>
<p>
	I think it took me 5 minutes to cut the French bread cubes, 10 minutes to mix the wet ingredients and 30 seconds to combine everything and pop it in the oven.</p>
<p>
	For such little effort, it is dee-licious! It would be easy to make with kids and it has a lovely apple-cinnamon-almond-caramel flavor. I didn&rsquo;t do this, but now, knowing better, I would aim to start making this within an hour of when you want to serve it so you can slice it almost fresh out of the oven while it&rsquo;s still warm.</p>
<p>
	Sure, you can serve it chilled or warm it in the microwave later, but I think the texture would be ideal right from the point the baking timer goes off. My opinion.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/bread pudding 2.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	<strong>2. The second pie I made yesterday is a Shoo-Fly Pie.</strong></p>
<p>
	I felt leery about this one and I suppose I was right to. But let me explain.</p>
<p>
	I found out about Shoo-Fly Pie over a year ago. It&rsquo;s a dessert straight out of Lancaster County, PA, which is where my dad grew up and most of his family still lives. I couldn&rsquo;t possibly tell you whether he&rsquo;s eaten one before or not, but the fact that it came from a town where I have roots made me want to try it.</p>
<p>
	So I found a recipe online by a woman who makes and sells these pies in the central market up there.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/shoo-fly 1.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	It&rsquo;s okay.</p>
<p>
	It&rsquo;s definitely not bad. The crust is delicious. It&rsquo;s just &hellip; So. Much. Molasses.</p>
<p>
	I didn&rsquo;t do a ton of research, but my guess is that since Lancaster is Amish/farm country, this pie developed because it&rsquo;s cheap. It uses only staple ingredients and not too many of them.</p>
<p>
	The only flaw in my plan is that it&rsquo;s supposed to be served with either ice cream or whipped cream on top. And I really think that could push it into the &ldquo;like&rdquo; category for me, rather than the &ldquo;indifferent&rdquo; category.</p>
<p>
	Molasses is one of those things that just smells weird. And it tastes exactly like it smells. Not bad, just &hellip; not great either.</p>
<p>
	But I&rsquo;m going to warm up a slice again this week once I have an opportunity to pick up some vanilla ice cream and we&rsquo;ll see how it&rsquo;s improved.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/shoo-fly 2.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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<p>
	<em>From bonappetit.com</em></p>
<p>
	<em><strong>Difficulty Level: </strong>4 out of 10.</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>Ingredients</strong></p>
<p>
	<u>For crust</u></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 1/2 C. flour (plus extra for rolling)</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. vegetable shortening</li>
	<li>
		1/2 large egg</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. cold water</li>
	<li>
		1/2 Tbsp. white vinegar</li>
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<p>
	<u>For filling</u></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 C. flour</li>
	<li>
		2/3 C. brown sugar</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbspn. vegetable shortening</li>
	<li>
		1 heaping C. molasses</li>
	<li>
		1 large egg</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. baking soda</li>
	<li>
		3/4 C. boiling water</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>Preparation</strong></p>
<p>
	<u>For crust:</u></p>
<p>
	<em><strong>Note:</strong></em> The original recipe makes two crusts; one is for this pie, one is to reserve for later use. If you&#39;re like me, you don&#39;t need a pie crust in your fridge for later, so I&#39;ve halved the recipe, which is why the 1/2 egg quantity probably looks weird. Just do your best with that step. (Or double the crust recipe for two crusts so you can just use a whole egg; whatever works for you.)</p>
<p>
	Mix dry ingredients. With your hands, cut the shortening into dry ingredients until crumbles the size of peas appear.</p>
<p>
	Beat the egg with a fork and add half it to a bowl with water and vinegar. Add wet ingredients to dry ingredients and mix with your hands until all the ingredients are incorporated together.</p>
<p>
	Heavily flour your rolling surface and, using a rolling pin, roll out crust so it&#39;s 10 inches in diameter. Try to work it as little as possible as it will toughen. Refrigerate until ready to use. Can stay in fridge up to 2 weeks.</p>
<p>
	<u>For filling</u><br />
	Mix together first three ingredients until shortening is integrated. Reserve 1/2 cup of mixture.</p>
<p>
	Add molasses, egg, baking soda and mix to blend. Then add water and mix, scraping the sides and bottom of the bowl to make sure everything gets incorporated.</p>
<p>
	<u>To bake</u><br />
	Preheat oven to 375 degrees.</p>
<p>
	Lift dough into the pan and pat it down, making sure to secure into the pie pan edges but treating it gently all the same. With clean scissors or your hands, remove excess dough from the edges. Pour in the filling. Scatter reserved flour/sugar/shortening mixture evenly atop pie.</p>
<p>
	Bake for 18 minutes, then lower temperature to 350 degrees and bake another 18-20 minutes until the crust is golden and center of pie is only a bit wobbly. Cool in pie pan on a rack before serving. Serve with vanilla ice cream or a dollop of whipped cream.</p>


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	<em>From eatbetteramerica.com</em></p>
<p>
	<em><strong>Difficulty Rating:</strong> 1 out of 10.</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>Ingredients</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 C. unsweetened applesauce</li>
	<li>
		1 C. vanilla soymilk</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. fat-free egg product (egg whites)</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. packed brown sugar</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. ground cinnamon</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. vanilla</li>
	<li>
		5 C. 1-inch cubes French bread (1 loaf)</li>
	<li>
		3 Tbsp. sliced almonds</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. caramel fat-free topping, heated</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>Preparation</strong></p>
<p>
	Heat oven to 350&deg;F. Spray 9-inch quiche dish or pie plate with cooking spray.</p>
<p>
	Slice bread into cubes; measure ingredients.</p>
<p>
	In large bowl, mix all ingredients except bread, almonds and caramel topping with wire whisk until smooth.</p>
<p>
	Fold in bread. Pour into quiche dish; sprinkle with almonds.</p>
<p>
	Bake 30 to 35 minutes or until golden brown and set.</p>
<p>
	Cut into wedges. Drizzle caramel topping over each serving.</p>


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<p>
	Despite the fact that Steve Jobs was sick for a long time, his passing still came as a huge shock to our household last night. Just weeks since resigning from Apple and 7 years after first being diagnosed with cancer, he is gone.</p>
<p>
	From my Twitter feed alone, I can see how much his death is impacting the globe.</p>

<p>
	I obviously didn&#39;t know him personally, so I won&#39;t write anything long here. Just wanted to say myself that he did amazing things during his life, even if he went too soon. I&#39;m sure you can find plenty of stories online to read about him if you type &quot;s&quot; into your search engine.</p>
<p>
	But without Steve Jobs, Adam wouldn&#39;t do what he does for a living. And neither would thousands of other people.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Here&#39;s a <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/wozniak-remembers-steve-jobs/2011/10/06/gIQAAINvPL_video.html">link to a video of Steve Wozniak</a> being interviewed about Jobs.</p>
<p>
	We will miss you, Steve.</p>

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	It&rsquo;s here again, ladies and gentlemen &hellip; Breastober!</p>
<p>
	For fun, this year I&rsquo;m posting a carousel of images throughout the month of October (below) of everything you can buy to support awareness, and more importantly, the fight against breast cancer.</p>

<p>
	It&rsquo;s a healthy mix of rolling my eyes at the overflow of pink ribbon retail and doing my part to support research against this disease.</p>
<p>
	Not that breast cancer is more important or necessarily more widespread than every other disease (heart disease, I&#39;m looking at you), but it&rsquo;s got the best advertising for some reason. Come on, save the tatas? Well, at least they have a sense of humor.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, I hope to keep up with one new image each day, though it&rsquo;ll be a race to go out there and snap shots before I run out.</p>
<p>
	I wanted to have this up on the first of the month, but I forgot to plan out how I was going to post these and it took Adam a couple days to set this up. (Thank you, Adam, for your hard work!)</p>
<p>
	So I&rsquo;ve gone ahead and put up enough for the first four days at once. As soon as I put up the fifth one tomorrow, the scrolling will become available so that you can flip through the whole month by the time I&#39;m done, starting with the most current.</p>
<p>
	Click on the thumbnails for a larger image view and a short description.</p>

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<p>
	The last few nights, I haven&rsquo;t slept particularly well. Sunday night I couldn&rsquo;t fall asleep for an hour. Monday night, I fell asleep only a little quicker and then popped up wide awake at 5:30 and again at 6:00.</p>
<p>
	So last night, after blowing through the last six chapters of The Hunger Games (you should read!), we made it to lights out around 10:30 with plans to get up early to exercise.</p>
<p>
	I fell asleep relatively fast...&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	I woke up to Adam&rsquo;s phone making a noise, but I was so groggy, I couldn&rsquo;t tell if it just dinged from some alert he forgot to turn off or what, so I assumed it was the alarm going off. He fumbled with his phone for a minute and then put it back down and rolled over, so I drifted off again.</p>
<p>
	I woke up minutes later (although it was hard to tell how much time had passed at the time) to his phone going off again. Oh, I thought, he probably snoozed before and now it&rsquo;s time to get up.</p>
<p>
	Only I was wrong. It was ringing and this time he picked up.</p>
<p>
	Now, I wasn&rsquo;t the one on the phone, but even his side of the conversation was enough to throw me for a loop. The woman was calling for his dad (who passed away several years ago), identified herself as someone calling from the Orange County Convention Center and, when asked what purpose she was calling for, hung up.</p>
<p>
	Somewhere in the middle of this, I leaned over to my phone to see what time it was. It was only 11:30!</p>
<p>
	Both of us felt like we had been asleep for hours, like we had woken up with our bodies and minds swimming through a mire. It wasn&rsquo;t just a question of, &ldquo;What&rsquo;s going on?&rdquo; but more basic, like, &ldquo;Who am I? What is a phone? Are we speaking English?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	We were so disoriented, like we had fallen to the bottom of an ocean of sleep and someone suddenly yanked us out.</p>
<p>
	It was almost impossible to believe that only an hour had passed since we had fallen asleep. Have you ever had an experience like this?</p>
<p>
	But back to the phone call.</p>
<p>
	The first question here, I suppose, was who would be calling someone deceased? Secondly, how did they get Adam&rsquo;s cell phone in connection with his dad? Thirdly, why are they calling so late at night for ANY reason? Fourthly, why did they hang up without explaining?</p>
<p>
	We haven&rsquo;t gotten to the bottom of this mystery yet. Adam tried reverse calling the numbers from last night, but nobody picked up. He found some forum where other people have complained about similarly odd late-night greetings from the convention center.</p>
<p>
	The worst part was that the last time his phone rang in the middle of the night, it was when his dad passed, so this left us with an icky, stressed out feeling that something was wrong.</p>
<p>
	Unfortunately, it was stronger for him than me and I was so nauseated with exhaustion that I couldn&rsquo;t stay awake too long to comfort him. (Which I still feel guilty about.) Eventually, he fell asleep again too, but both of us are super tired yet again this morning. It stinks to be up and exercising before 7:00 a.m. and to have your priority for the day be to go to sleep.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, I&rsquo;ve recommended that Adam call the convention center&rsquo;s main line to try to report this and/or get an explanation, but he hasn&rsquo;t decided whether to do that yet. If we make any progress, I&rsquo;ll let you know.</p>
<p>
	For now, my remaining thoughts are zzzzzzzzzzzjdifajk &hellip;&hellip;&hellip;&hellip;..</p>

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	<em>From myrecipes.com.</em></p>
<p>
	<em><strong>Difficulty level: </strong>3 out of 10.</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>For brownies:</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		3 3/8 oz. all-purpose flour (about 3/4 C.)</li>
	<li>
		1 C. granulated sugar</li>
	<li>
		3/4 C. unsweetened cocoa</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. packed brown sugar</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. baking powder</li>
	<li>
		6 Tbsp. butter, melted</li>
	<li>
		2 large eggs</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. vanilla extract</li>
	<li>
		Cooking spray</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>For caramel:</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1/4 C. butter</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. packed brown sugar</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 Tbsp. evaporated fat-free milk</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. vanilla extract</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. powdered sugar</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>For chocolate drizzle:</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. evaporated fat-free milk</li>
	<li>
		1 oz. bittersweet chocolate, coarsely chopped</li>
	<li>
		1/8 tsp. coarse sea salt</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>Making the brownies:</strong></p>
<p>
	Preheat oven to 350&deg;. Line 9-inch square metal baking pan with foil in both directions, leaving a 2-inch overhang all around. Lightly coat with cooking spray.</p>
<p>
	Weigh or lightly spoon flour into dry measuring cups; level with a knife. Combine flour and next 4 ingredients (through baking powder) in a large bowl, stirring well with a whisk.</p>
<p>
	Combine 6 tablespoons butter, eggs, and 1 teaspoon vanilla. Add butter mixture to flour mixture; stir to combine.</p>
<p>
	Scrape batter into prepared baking pan. Bake at 350&deg; for 19 minutes or until a wooden pick inserted in center comes out with moist crumbs clinging. Cool in pan on a wire rack.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the caramel topping:</strong></p>
<p>
	Melt 1/4 cup butter in a saucepan over medium heat. Add 1/4 cup brown sugar and 1 1/2 tablespoons milk; cook 2 minutes. Remove from heat. Add vanilla and powdered sugar; stir with a whisk until smooth. Spread mixture evenly over cooled brownies. Let stand 20 minutes or until set.</p>
<p>
	<u>Note:</u>&nbsp;Don&#39;t forget to sift your powdered sugar before you begin this step, particularly if it&#39;s a little clumpy.</p>
<p>
	Melt 1/4 cup butter in a saucepan over medium heat. Add 1/4 cup brown sugar and 1 1/2 tablespoons milk; cook 2 minutes. Remove from heat. Add vanilla and powdered sugar; stir with a whisk until smooth. Spread mixture evenly over cooled brownies. Let stand 20 minutes or until set.</p>
<p>
	<b><strong>Making the chocolate drizzle:</strong></b></p>
<p>
	Combine 2 tablespoons milk and chocolate in a microwave-safe bowl; microwave at HIGH for 30-45 seconds or until melted, stirring after the first 20 seconds. Stir just until smooth; drizzle over caramel.</p>
<p>
	<u>Tip:</u> You may want to let your chocolate sit to cool for a couple minutes after removing it from the microwave in order to get a finer drizzle, rather than larger blobs when it is too hot.</p>
<p>
	<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal; ">Sprinkle with sea salt; let stand until set. Lift out brownies and cut into 20 squares (3 cuts in one direction, 4 cuts in the other).</span></p>


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<title>Baking for Fall &#45; Part 1</title>
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<p>
	I know this is kind of odd following my pronouncement to start making Fall happen in Orlando, but I was just in the mood for brownies when I chose something to bake this weekend. Salted Caramel Brownies as a matter of fact.</p>
<p>
	But caramel counts as a fall flavor, right?</p>
<p>
	Back me up here &hellip; candied apples &hellip; okay, wow, for some reason that&rsquo;s all I&rsquo;ve got.&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	But never fear! If this one doesn&rsquo;t ring in fall for you, I have an unquestionably &ldquo;Autumn&rdquo; dessert for next weekend.</p>
<p>
	I wanted some brownies, but I couldn&rsquo;t decide between my top three recipe finds, so, as usual when my decision-making skills fail me, I made Adam pick. Ha!</p>
<p>
	I won&rsquo;t go on and on about these because I trust in your ability to make brownies.</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;ll just give you the review &hellip; starting with: they&rsquo;re fudgy. Very fudgy. Yummily moist and rich.</p>
<p>
	The caramel layer maybe isn&rsquo;t the most caramelly thing I&rsquo;ve ever made, but it is deliciously sugary nonetheless. And the sea salt on top sets everything off perfectly. In what might be an otherwise too-sweet dessert, the salt creates a wonderful balance.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/caramel brownies 2.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I only made (and would recommend a few additional) changes to the recipe, but I&rsquo;ve already updated it with my changes in the sidebar. <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_salted_caramel_brownies">Click for recipe</a>&nbsp;or scroll to the bottom of post.</p>
<p>
	Also, since I got this from a site that I&rsquo;m pretty sure is run by Cooking Light, it offers the calorie totals. The good news is that each brownie is only 180 calories! To offset that, you should consider that they&rsquo;re made in an 8-inch square pan and cut into 20 pieces. So they&rsquo;re not huge brownies by any means. About 4-6 good bites.</p>
<p>
	However, I think you should weigh in my opinion as well &hellip; they&rsquo;re the perfect size.</p>
<p>
	While we all probably enjoy stuffing our faces with foods that are particularly delicious, the size of these brownies is perfect to get a nice sugar rush without feeling guilty that you overdid it.</p>
<p>
	So get baking, people! Fall is here!</p>

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<title>Telescam</title>
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<p>
	Sitting at the front desk of my company on occasion, I get all sorts of calls. Not as bizarre as when I worked at the Sentinel maybe, but there&#39;s still a good variety. I get everything from employment verification services to visitors wanting directions from the airport to vendors asking for people who haven&#39;t worked here in at least three years.</p>
<p>
	But there&#39;s one kind of call that&#39;s become my favorite in a sick way: The scammer.</p>

<p>
	I can&#39;t remember if I&#39;ve talked about this on the blog before, so pardon me if I&#39;m repeating myself.</p>
<p>
	There are variations on this phone call, but it always follows the same basic pattern. I just had one this week, so here&#39;s how it went:</p>
<p>
	Me: [standard company phone greeting]</p>
<p>
	Caller: &quot;Hi, I&#39;m calling from the customer service department for your copier. We just need to verify your serial number.&quot;</p>
<p>
	Me: [rolling eyes] &quot;I&#39;m sorry, but we&#39;re under contract with [redacted] and I can&#39;t give out that information.&quot;</p>
<p>
	[fumble, fumble ... click]</p>
<p>
	And that&#39;s pretty much how it goes every time. It&#39;s amazing how fast they get off the line once you say, &quot;No.&quot;</p>
<p>
	The first time it happened, I was just really confused. I hadn&#39;t had to deal with copier contracts in a job before, so I was off-guard when I got the first call. I think I just kept repeating, &quot;I&#39;m sorry, I don&#39;t understand. We deal with [redacted company]. I don&#39;t understand what you&#39;re asking me for. I don&#39;t remember ordering any toner.&quot;</p>
<p>
	One time, I think one guy actually told me he worked within a department of our contracted vendor (a lie). I can&#39;t remember if it was that same guy or someone else, but one of them was also really persistent. Maybe because, in my early exposure to scams, I was more unsure of what was happening. I don&#39;t understand how someone can be so brazen about stealing from you.</p>
<p>
	And when I think about it now, I feel like he must&#39;ve either been sensing my weakness or he was new at this and didn&#39;t know when to tuck tail and run.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, they don&#39;t get far enough in their spiel anymore with me to get to the scamming part (now that I&#39;m all slick and knowledgeable), but it goes like this: They start by getting you to give them the serial number for a copier in your office.</p>
<p>
	(One of the first clues that it&#39;s not real -- besides the fact that they are supposedly our customer service department and have to ask me for the serial number -- is that they can never tell me how many copiers we have. It&#39;s always &quot;a copier.&quot; I think what tipped me off early on was that all I didn&#39;t know how to respond. All I could say was, &quot;Which one? We have four.&quot;)</p>
<p>
	Anyway, once they have your information, they let you know that prices are about to go up on toner, but you are still under contract for one more (always just one!) at the current rate and if you can just give the thumbs up and provide the shipping information, they&#39;ll get it out to you right away. Score!</p>
<p>
	Then they send you a bill for your firstborn.</p>
<p>
	Apparently, there are legal loopholes because you agreed to the transaction even though they are sneaky about their identity and their intentions.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	At one point, someone in our office fell for the scam and when the toner arrived, the receptionist refused the delivery. Then our finance department battled it out when them for a while (after I received many harassing phone calls because somehow they found my name) and finally told them, okay, we&#39;ll get our corporate lawyers and see you in court. They dropped it after that.</p>
<p>
	Every time it happens, it always makes me angry and then I&#39;m forced to wonder how little Jenny grew up to be such a bitch (excuse my language). I mean, what kind of person scams people for a living?</p>
<p>
	It infuriates me every time.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Next time it happens (because it&#39;s basically every few months, it seems), I&#39;m going to wait for them to give their initial speech and then say, &quot;Are you proud of what you do for a living? How do you sleep at night?&quot; That&#39;ll be a lot more fun instead of being polite until they give up.&nbsp;</p>

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<p>
	If you&rsquo;re Sarah Beth in Tennessee or Adinah in Pennsylvania or any other friends of mine who lives in states with seasons, I imagine your reaction is like, &ldquo;Yay, sweet! I feel it in the air!&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	But if you&rsquo;re a fellow Floridian, I picture your thoughts read more like this: &ldquo;Wait &hellip; what? Where did that come from? Are you punking me?&rdquo;</p>

<p>
	Because it&rsquo;s still hitting the upper 80s to low 90s here, with humidity near 90% in the mornings. It&rsquo;s this time of year in particular that I despise living in Florida. Well, really, all of summer is pretty oppressive, but it&rsquo;s around September/October that I start to feel especially cheated.</p>
<p>
	Just hearing the names of the fall months spins pictures of colorful leaves, pumpkins, cool breezes, cozy coats and apple cider in my hopeful little head. And then I step outside and humidity reality smacks me in the face.</p>
<p>
	In Florida, it&rsquo;s barely fall by Halloween.</p>
<p>
	But this year, I have a plan.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Step 1:</strong> I will bake lots of fall treats. I will sit down and pick out recipes to make before December. (If you find anything online that looks good and you want to know if it actually is before you waste your time, I will try to make it for you!)</p>
<p>
	<strong>Step 2:</strong> I will buy a cute coat and possibly some killer boots so that when it does finally cool off, I can rock out seasonal cuteness. (Actually, I did buy an adorable military-inspired coat online, but when it arrived, I had chosen the wrong size &hellip; and it&rsquo;s now out of stock, so I&rsquo;m back to square one, darn it all!)</p>
<p>
	<strong>Step 3:</strong> I will do my best to strong arm the weather from Pennsylvania to return with me when I fly home.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Step 4:</strong> I will decorate the house with fall colors and flowers.<br />
	Cool weather or not, it&rsquo;s going to be fall up in this hizzouse! (That was for Adam.)<br />
	<br />
	Anyway, happy fall, everyone!<br />
	&nbsp;</p>

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<p>
	Adam and I spent most of the day at SeaWorld recently (with our free passes from Discovery Cove) and we learned something new about him. You know how you can develop a taste for a food you didn&#39;t like when you were a kid or you can become allergic to something that never affected you before? Well, something changed about him and it&#39;s unfortunate.</p>

<p>
	Adam can&#39;t ride roller coasters anymore.</p>
<p>
	I guess it actually started a few years ago, but it wasn&#39;t this bad until now. We went on Kraken in the morning and he left the ride feeling a bit off and looking pale. So we took it easy for a bit and got some lunch.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Unfortunately, we made the bad decision to go on Manta last thing before we left.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I think he nearly passed out.</p>
<p>
	I don&#39;t know if you know about Manta, but it&#39;s a different sort of roller coaster. Neither of us had been on it or one like it before. After you sit down and get harnessed in, the seats rotate until you&#39;re facing the ground instead of forward. It&#39;s actually a pretty neat experience, but even I&#39;ll admit it&#39;s more disorienting than usual.</p>
<p>
	He forced himself to go on the ride with me because he didn&#39;t want me to have to go alone or skip it altogether, but in hindsight, we should&#39;ve just gone to see the penguins.</p>
<p>
	He got off the ride completely white and drenched in sweat, the way I get when I pass out. He didn&#39;t faint, but ended up needing to sit for a while and was nauseated for the rest of the day and a little the next day too. There really wasn&#39;t much to do for him. His inner ear turned against him. A sad day for both of us.</p>
<p>
	Guess we&#39;ll have to stick to options like Discovery Cove next time we go to a theme park, so ... I guess it&#39;s not so horrible after all.</p>

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	<em>From myrecipes.com.</em></p>
<p>
	<em><strong>Difficulty Rating:</strong> 5 out of 10.</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 1/4 C, boiling water</li>
	<li>
		1 3/4 C. steel-cut oats</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		3 Tbsp. butter</li>
	<li>
		3 Tbsp. light brown sugar</li>
	<li>
		Dash of granulated sugar</li>
	<li>
		2 packages dry yeast (about 2 1/4 tsp. each)</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. warm water (100&deg; to 110&deg;)</li>
	<li>
		3 1/4 C. all-purpose flour, divided</li>
	<li>
		3 C. whole wheat flour</li>
	<li>
		Cooking spray</li>
	<li>
		1 large egg, lightly beaten</li>
</ul>
<p>
	Combine the first 5 ingredients in the bowl of a stand-up mixer, and let stand 25 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Stir yeast and granulated sugar into warm water; let stand 5 minutes or until foamy. Add to oat mixture.</p>
<p>
	Lightly spoon flours into dry measuring cups; level with a knife. Gradually add 2 3/4 cups all-purpose flour and 3 cups whole wheat flour to oat mixture. Beat at medium speed until well blended.</p>
<p>
	Turn dough out onto a floured surface. Knead until smooth and elastic (about 8 minutes); add enough of the remaining all-purpose flour, 1 tablespoon at a time, to prevent dough from sticking to hands (dough will feel sticky).</p>
<p>
	Place dough in a large bowl coated with cooking spray, turning to coat top. Cover and let rise in a warm place (85&deg;), free from drafts, 1 hour or until doubled in size. (Gently press two fingers into dough. If indentation remains, dough has risen enough.)</p>
<p>
	Punch dough down; cover and let rest 5 minutes.</p>
<p>
	Divide in half. Working with one portion at a time (cover remaining dough to prevent drying), roll each portion into a 14 x 8-inch rectangle on a floured surface. Roll up each rectangle tightly, starting with a short edge, pressing firmly to eliminate air pockets; pinch seam and ends to seal. Place each loaf, seam sides down, in a 9-inch loaf pan coated with cooking spray.</p>
<p>
	Cover and let rise 30 minutes or until doubled in size.</p>
<p>
	Preheat oven to 350&ordm;.</p>
<p>
	Uncover dough, and brush egg evenly over loaves. Bake at 350&ordm; for 45 minutes or until loaves are browned on bottom and sound hollow when tapped. Remove from pan, and cool on wire racks.</p>


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	<em>From smittenkitchen.com.</em></p>
<p>
	<em><strong>Difficulty Rating:</strong> 2 out of 10.</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		4 pounds (1.8 kilograms) peaches</li>
	<li>
		1 cup (237 ml) water</li>
	<li>
		2 cups (400 grams) granulated sugar</li>
	<li>
		Juice of one lemon</li>
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<p>
	<strong>Note:</strong> This recipe can be done with or without a food mill. If you don&#39;t have one, start at the beginning with the peach peeling method. If you do, you can skip it.</p>
<p>
	Without a food mill: Cut a small &ldquo;x&rdquo; in the bottom of each peach. Dip each into a pot of boiling water for 30 seconds, and then into a bowl of cold water for a minute. The peels should slide right off.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Halve your peaches and remove the pits, then cut each half into quarters (8 chunks from each peach). Place peach chunks and 1 Cup water in a large pot and bring to a boil. Simmer until peaches are tender, about 15 to 20 minutes, stirring occasionally to ensure they cook evenly.</p>
<p>
	If you have a food mill, run them through it to puree them and remove the skins. If you don&rsquo;t have a food mill &mdash; you already peeled your peaches &mdash; you can puree in a food processor, blender or with an immersion blender. Puree to your desired consistency. (Include any remaining water from the pot when you puree, which will now be like peach syrup.)</p>
<p>
	Return the peach puree to the large pot, add the sugar and lemon juice and bring the mixture to a good strong simmer/gentle boil, cooking them at this level for 30 to 40 minutes, stirring occasionally in the beginning and more often near the end, as it thickens.</p>
<p>
	There are several methods to test for doneness: You can drizzle a ribbon of sauce across the surface; when that ribbon holds its shape before dissolve into the pot, it is done. You could also use cold or frozen plates; dollop a spoonful in the middle of one and if no water forms a ring around it in a couple minutes, it is done. Or you can use a spoon; if the butter remains rounded on a spoon for two minutes, it is done. You can also check the pot itself; the butter is usually done when a wooden spoon leaves a clear train when scraped across the bottom.</p>
<p>
	Let peach butter cool. Keep in an airtight container in the fridge. It should be good for at least two weeks.</p>


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<p>
	Yesterday, I bought a ticket to Pennsylvania. That&rsquo;s right, I&rsquo;ve finally found a good long weekend to go visit Adinah! I&#39;ll be going at the perfect time for some pretty leaves and fall temperatures ... and her birthday!</p>
<p>
	Still, even with fall beginning soon, my thoughts get stuck on the ending of summer.</p>

<p>
	I crave the cool weather that we get so little of in Florida, which means we&rsquo;re quickly approaching my favorite time of the year, hands down. But I also start to regret all of that yummy summer produce becoming unavailable (or at least out-of-season enough to be a lot less tasty).</p>
<p>
	So I recently decided to capture a bit of summer in a jar before it disappears. I made <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_peach_butter">peach butter</a>!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/peach butter(1).jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	That may sound weird at first, but it&rsquo;s in the same family as apple butter, except &hellip; peach.</p>
<p>
	It won&rsquo;t last as long as I want it to (and probably not long enough for me to be able to finish this jar), but it is so delicious!</p>
<p>
	And then this past weekend, I made my very first bread: <a href="http://thedarlingstarling.com/index.php/view/blog_irish_oatmeal_bread">Irish Oatmeal Bread</a>.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/irish oatmeal.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I wanted to have a salad and sandwich for my lunches this week, so I thought it would be a good opportunity to challenge myself. It wasn&rsquo;t too hard! The fact that I went from start to finish with no problems encourages me to try other kinds of bread.</p>
<p>
	(Sorry we didn&#39;t take fancier pictures. I&#39;d been meaning to photograph the peach butter for over a week and never got to it, so Adam was nice enough to snap some shots so I could finally post it. I always mean to take foodie-like pictures with a pretty cloth underneath the slice of bread, with the butter and fruit spread smeared in a perfectly rustic fashion on top and the sunlight hitting just so to make your mouths water. Maybe next time.)</p>
<p>
	The recipe made two loaves, so I froze a good portion of it to make sure it too doesn&rsquo;t go to waste.</p>
<p>
	I picked oatmeal because I&#39;ve been on a fiber kick lately, but fibrous or not, this is tasty bread!&nbsp;No preservatives and very little salt, unlike most store-bought. I am slightly concerned that the first few slices dried out a little quickly, but I&#39;m hoping that since I froze the bulk of it, those will stay fresher than the ones that sat around for a few days. Guess I&#39;ll find out. That&#39;s why you try new things, right?</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/sliced bread.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	The oatmeal bread tastes pretty awesome warmed and with a little peach butter on it.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	But mostly I&rsquo;m using the bread for a sandwich consisting of pear slices, almond butter, fig preserves and goat cheese. My salad is spring mix with apple and pear slices, golden raisins, pumpkin seeds and a light curry dressing.</p>
<p>
	So yeah, I guess in the big picture, I&rsquo;m ready for fall. However, until the weather starts to turn here and I get completely into autumn foods, I&rsquo;m going to continue my mishmash of late summer and early fall. It&rsquo;s pretty tasty!</p>
<p>
	Oh, and back to my PA trip. Guess I&rsquo;ll just have to make myself buy a cute, warm coat now. Darn.</p>
<p>
	Side note: I&rsquo;ve updated my reading and music lists to current. This weekend, I&rsquo;ll try to find time to fill out the photos page, too (since I&#39;ve been terrible about that!). If you share any interests or have questions, I&rsquo;m happy to discuss!</p>

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<p>
	Our stripey kitty has a date with the doctor tomorrow and it means getting up early!&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	We scheduled a dental cleaning for her, which means she gets put under so they can polish up her teeth real nice. She and Chloe apparently have horrible teeth (is this normal or did I get genetically inferior cats?).&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	We clean their teeth and gums once a week, but I guess it&#39;s not enough. Maybe we&#39;ll have to kick it up a notch and do it twice a week.</p>
<p>
	Anyway, while they&#39;re cleaning her teeth, they will check on one tooth in particular that the doctor was concerned about the last time he saw her, and they&#39;ll have to decide if it needs to be extracted. I&#39;m really hoping not, but since Molly and Chloe have both lost a couple teeth already, I won&#39;t be surprised if it does need to go. Better than causing her discomfort, I guess.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/mollypants goes to the vet.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I am really hoping Jasper decides to maintain perfect dental health as she grows up!</p>
<p>
	It stinks having this procedure done because I hate when the cats have to wake up from anesthesia, plus she doesn&#39;t get to eat breakfast. Oh, and we have to be across town by 7:30. Driving straight east at sunrise is my enemy.</p>
<p>
	The silver lining for me is that my boss agreed to let me work from home so that I could drop off and pick up Molly. Of course, Adam could do this without me, but my cats are my kids and I prefer being there when I can.</p>
<p>
	Working in pajamas, here I come!</p>

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<p>
	Vacation days make me lazy computer-wise, but let me backtrack and tell you about <a href="http://www.discoverycove.com/">Discovery Cove</a>!</p>
<p>
	Adam and I went this past Friday for my 30th birthday and, I have to tell you, it was the most fun I&rsquo;ve had in a while.</p>

<p>
	First, let me give you the logistics. You can show up as early as 8 to start checking in even though the park doesn&rsquo;t technically open for another hour. Throughout the day, covered in the cost of admission, they provide you with an ID badge, a map, a mask &amp; snorkel, sunscreen, towels, vests &amp; wetsuits, breakfast, lunch, and all the drinks and snacks you might want. Oh, and of course, bathrooms, changing rooms and showers, with shampoo, hair dryers and anything else you might want to clean up.</p>
<p>
	Fantastic, right?</p>
<p>
	I mean sure, admission is expensive, but with all of that included, it&rsquo;s really not any worse than the other Orlando theme parks.</p>
<p>
	The whole park isn&rsquo;t too large, has gorgeous foliage, is immaculately clean and did I mention they restrict the number of visitors per day so it can&rsquo;t be overcrowded?</p>
<p>
	Heaven.</p>
<p>
	Not that I&rsquo;ve been on a cruise, but it kind of felt like we left Orlando and spent a day in the Caribbean. Everything was perfect.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/adam by beach.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	Somehow it was the only day in recent memory that never got overcast or rainy. The sand was soft, thick and spotless. The water was gorgeous.</p>
<p>
	As early birds, we got the first time slot for the featured dolphin interaction. After some preparation, our group of 8 headed down to the dolphin area. We first got to meet Luna, a young female dolphin. Her trainer showed us how to make hand signals to get her to do her tricks. We got to pet her and feed her. We learned about her anatomy. She made lots of cute noises. It was awesome!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/adam kissing dolphin.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 332px; " /></p>
<p>
	Then, because she&rsquo;s still pretty young (and small), our group actually got to meet a second dolphin for the dorsal fin pull. His name was Diego and he was so much bigger! We got to pet him and he did some tricks and sounds too.</p>
<p>
	Then, one by one, we got to swim out into the pool, put one hand on Diego&rsquo;s dorsal fin and one on his flipper, and get towed back to shore. So cool!<br />
	It wasn&rsquo;t really how I expected. It was slow and so smooth. I almost felt like I had grabbed a rope that was pulling me in, despite the movement of the dolphin as he swam.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/liz swimming with dolphin.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 332px; " /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Together with dolphin.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 332px; " /></p>
<p>
	Of course it was over too soon, but then we had the whole day to wander around at our leisure. No crowds, no lines.</p>
<p>
	We made a beeline for the cafeteria since breakfast was almost over, but we made it and it felt so good to finally eat!</p>
<p>
	Next, we took a trip to the aviary, which brought back memories for me of the one at Miami&rsquo;s MetroZoo before Hurricane Andrew ripped it to shreds.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/fisher birds.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 375px; " /></p>
<p>
	I couldn&rsquo;t possibly tell you the names of most of the birds. I am not good with bird species. The obvious ones were the macaws, peacocks and cockatiels. Then there were birds that were obviously related to more domesticated ones (turkeys, ducks and pigeons) and birds that I had never seen anything like before.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/macaws.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	It was so much fun getting to feed them because birds are always so scared of you, but these were used to people.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/eating from hand.jpg" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	After wandering around for a bit (and once our food settled), we made our way to their version of a lazy river. It&rsquo;s neat because it has varied depths and passes through the aviary.</p>
<p>
	The last thing we did actually ended up being one of my favorites. I mean, I guess you can&rsquo;t really beat interacting with dolphins, but this was a close second. Snorkeling!</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;m so sorry that we didn&rsquo;t buy an underwater camera because it was amazing to see, but we wanted to just enjoy the experience and not worry about taking pictures. I&rsquo;ve never been snorkeling before and it was so relaxing!&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	There were dozens of colorful fish species. There were whole schools too, which was incredible to swim through. The water was extremely salty, but that just made it easier to float across the top. There was a glassed off area with sharks in it, which was pretty amazing. True, we weren&rsquo;t exactly in the water with them, but it looked like it!</p>
<p>
	Though I have to say, my favorites were the stingrays. Not only did I manage to touch a few as they glided by (underwater flying!), but some of them were 3 times as big as me! Scary and awesome. At first we thought some of the bigger ones on the bottom were fake because they weren&rsquo;t moving and were half-covered in sand, but they weren&rsquo;t! They definitely moved later on, especially when they were fed. (Here&#39;s a photo from their site.)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/stingray.jpg" style="width: 399px; height: 326px; " /></p>
<p>
	We spent the last hour just relaxing on some beach chairs under an umbrella with our pi&ntilde;a coladas. I could have fallen asleep. Best day I&rsquo;ve had in a long time, I can&rsquo;t even tell you.</p>
<p>
	I am not a beach person (vampire skin as evidence), but that experience made me want to change.</p>
<p>
	Maybe sometime in the future we&rsquo;ll be able to go back, and even do one of the special features, like trainer for a day or the diving experience.</p>
<p>
	Not every single thing was perfect, but I chalk that up in part to me not being a morning person. Once the day got rolling and we started our first activity, I didn&rsquo;t have a single complaint.</p>
<p>
	I told Adam that if I could wish for anything else from the experience, it would be for Discovery Cove to offer some sort of annual or extended pass for Florida residents. Though one thing I didn&rsquo;t know and was pleasantly surprised about was that the ID badges we got allow us to go to either SeaWorld or Busch Gardens free for 14 days after. Pretty cool, right? So I think we&rsquo;re going to hit up some orcas this weekend!</p>
<p>
	Last thing &hellip; we did splurge on buying photos and the video of our dolphin interaction! Totally worth it. Though most of the other pictures are from Adam&#39;s phone. I can&rsquo;t wait to go back!</p>
<p>
	See the rest of our photos <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/elixirgraphics/sets/72157627477189083/">here</a>.<br />
	&nbsp;</p>

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	I&rsquo;m in a good mood today because I&rsquo;m off work tomorrow for my birthday. We did decide to reschedule Discovery Cove since, even though the hurricane has turned away, there&rsquo;s a good chance of rain and wind all day (but I&rsquo;m still taking the day off). I&rsquo;m trying to work out with my employer whether we&rsquo;ll be going next Friday or the one after, but whenever we do, I&rsquo;ll post photos!</p>

<p>
	In the meantime, I will be getting an Adam-baked dessert tomorrow and then a special dinner out at Melting Pot on Saturday. He already baked me <a href="http://www.marthastewart.com/332247/individual-strawberry-jam-cakes">these</a> on Monday!</p>
<p>
	I feel like I should be more reflective and think about how great my 20s were and mull over where I&rsquo;m headed in the future, but I haven&rsquo;t done that yet. Well, let&rsquo;s see&hellip;</p>
<p>
	I went through college. I got my first internship, my first full-time job, my first car (and my second after the first was totaled). I had stories published in the newspaper. I played the violin at my church. I was laid off. I got my first boyfriend. I was there for him when his father passed away. I got my first cats (and ferret). I got married. I taught myself a whole lot about baking. I traveled to Mexico, Canada, Brazil and more (did Lindsay &amp; I do London before or after I turned 20?). I lived in 6 (count them, 6!) different apartments. I rode in a hot air balloon, went zip lining and climbed a lighthouse. And that&rsquo;s just a snippet of the high and low points.</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;d have to read back through my blog to remember everything.</p>
<p>
	To kick off my 30s, I&rsquo;ll be taking an awesome all-day trip to Discovery Cove with my favorite person on Earth. Who knows what else this new decade will bring? House? Kids? Jobs? Pets? Friends? Weddings? Funerals? Adventures? Discoveries? New shoes? Just kidding &hellip; but I really like shoes.</p>
<p>
	I&rsquo;m just happy knowing that whatever happens, God is in control and I have a wonderful husband, a loving family and great friends I can rely on. Somehow, even though birthdays aren&rsquo;t as exciting as when I was a kid, my family and friends manage to make them special every year. I love you all!&nbsp;</p>

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	1. Liz&#39;s 30th birthday: Friday, August 26</p>
<p>
	2. Big birthday plans: <a href="http://www.discoverycove.com/">Discovery Cove</a> all day - swim with dolphins, snorkel, feed tropical birds, etc.</p>

<p>
	3...</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/irene.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 280px; " /></p>
<p>
	Does anyone else notice how Irene (the first hurricane of the season, I might add) is forecasted to pass directly through Central Florida exactly all day on Friday? Sigh...</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s like Andrew all over again. I know my reaction should be to laugh, but come on!</p>

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	So much for flowers.</p>
<p>
	It all started with a small trip to the grocery store this past weekend. One of the items on my list was flowers because I hadn&rsquo;t had any in a while and I wanted the house to look nice.</p>

<p>
	I picked up a bunch of pale baby roses and, as an afterthought, I also grabbed a bunch of fern-like yellow flowers, thinking maybe I&rsquo;d take them to work and enjoy them on my desk.</p>
<p>
	Well, then I played hooky on Monday and forgot them on Tuesday, so slowly, it was beginning to seem less worthwhile to cart them to work. But I put them in the laundry room overnight on Sunday and Monday because I know Chloe eats plants (sorry, my poor little dead bamboo) and it&rsquo;s not safe to leave them out when we&rsquo;re not around.</p>
<p>
	On Tuesday night, I forgot to hide them.</p>
<p>
	So I went to work yesterday morning. Shortly after I settled in, Adam called to tell me that while cleaning up a pooey cat mess near one of the litter boxes, he noticed something was wrong with Chloe&rsquo;s eyes. (It&rsquo;s okay to laugh; I sure did, after we knew she was okay. Or maybe it&#39;s just me. She looks like a cartoon!)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/chloe bug eyes.jpg" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Apparently they were way worse than this at one point, too. Adam said one eye was all pupil and the other was barely a slit, even for a cat.</p>
<p>
	He drove her to the vet and they took blood, trying to figure out what was wrong. Adam, being the smartie he is, brought one of the flowers with him, thinking it was probably the cause. They shined lights in her eyes, but the pupils didn&rsquo;t respond.</p>
<p>
	Finally, one of the vet techs called her mom, who knows plants, and they found out it was Goldenrod.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/canadian-goldenrod.jpg" style="width: 300px; height: 300px; " /></p>
<p>
	Which is apparently toxic to cats. Yay!</p>
<p>
	There wasn&rsquo;t really much to do for her besides keep an eye on her, so Adam shut her in his office all day and she&rsquo;s completely back to normal.</p>
<p>
	Guess I&rsquo;ll have to do a pet toxin check next time I look for something pretty! (You&#39;d think mishaps like this would teach her to leave my plants alone, but it doesn&#39;t work that way.)</p>

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	This week feels like a blur with everything that&#39;s going on. In a way, I&#39;m grateful because busy minds don&#39;t dwell on sad things. And it&#39;s good blog fodder, so there&#39;s that too.</p>
<p>
	Today, it&#39;s all about the teeth!</p>

<p>
	Last week, I made a dentist appointment for this morning because I&#39;ve been having TMJ-related pain in my jaw again. I mean, to the point that, until I warm it up a bit, it&#39;s sometimes hard for me to open wide enough to eat normally. (Ironically, it&#39;s feeling better today, but I went anyway.)</p>
<p>
	After taking an X-ray and having the assistant check my jaw and bite size, I asked if she could see when my 6-month cleaning appointment was because I knew it was coming up soon, but I apparently forgot to put it in iCal 6 months back.</p>
<p>
	She did a quick check and it turned out my cleaning was today also! Uh, whoops. So after my 8:15 ortho appointment, I walked down, bib on, to another exam room for my 8:45 cleaning.</p>
<p>
	I had my fingers crossed because with my 30th birthday just weeks away, I was really hoping to have stayed cavity-free until that landmark.</p>
<p>
	Sigh.</p>
<p>
	Nope!</p>
<p>
	Just shy of 30, I got my first cavity.</p>
<p>
	Which I know isn&#39;t a bad record anyway, but I was so close! They told me I could put off the appointment for a bit, but I figured, hey, I was already there so it&#39;s better to save myself a second trip, right? I went ahead and told them to do the filling. I mean, I was getting the works today anyway.</p>
<p>
	I was really nervous because it was my first one, but honestly, it wasn&#39;t that bad. I just hate that the right side of my mouth is totally numb still. I&#39;m surprised I haven&#39;t drooled on myself yet. (Oh wait, I just leaked some water onto my shirt via my chin. Crap.)</p>
<p>
	Immediately after getting the filling, they took an impression for a lower mouth guard to help with me clenching and/or grinding in my sleep, too.<br />
	I won&#39;t get that until two weeks from now, but how about that? Ortho, cleaning, filling and fitted for a guard all in one morning (and under 2 hours!). Thank goodness for good dental insurance!</p>

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<p>
	Whenever something bad happens, there are always some good things to balance it out.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I had some good news I had to wait to announce in light of what happened this weekend. I wanted to dedicate an entire entry to Arthur, so I put my other news on hold, but now I can talk about it and also some Arthur-related good news. Are you ready to be cheered up? (I sure am!)</p>

<p>
	First, I&#39;ll tell you my belated good news and then I&#39;ll update the Arthur post from yesterday.</p>
<p>
	I got a promotion!</p>
<p>
	That&#39;s right, I am now (as of yesterday) officially a Marketing Coordinator and no longer an Administrative Assistant!</p>
<p>
	Of course, working for the company I do, that means little in terms of actually getting to drop some of my office responsibilities, but I will never ever look down my nose at a raise. Woohoo!!!</p>
<p>
	On Saturday, we went out to celebrate at The Ravenous Pig (man, I love that place!). It was a really fun night with Katie &amp; Patrick.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/RP - Patrick &amp; Katie.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/RP - Adam &amp; Liz.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	Okay, on to my Arthur-related good news.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Adam had taken a whole bunch of pictures just last week of Arthur running around and me playing with him. (I really need to get better about taking pictures myself so that Adam can actually be in some of them!)&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Anyway, the camera card got corrupted and we lost every. single. photo.</p>
<p>
	At the time, we figured we&#39;d just have another photo session again soon to make up for it ... and then we lost Arthur, which made it extra disappointing.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Well, Adam, being the determined and tech savvy guy that he is, found some software this morning that retrieved all of our lost pictures! Go to <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/elixirgraphics/sets/72157627325010700/">his Flickr page</a>&nbsp;to see the rest if you&#39;re interested. Here are just a few.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/onthefloor.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/lightitup.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/forme.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	When I&#39;m really missing him, I just have to smell Adam&#39;s laptop backpack because Arthur loooooved crawling in that thing. Something about the canvas-y material. Then I remember picking him up out of his cage and rolling him up like a croissant in my arms and watching his feet quiver with excitement. Those are nice memories.</p>

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<p>
	This is not an entry about the Harry Potter character, but about our litte fuzzhead ferret of the same name.</p>
<p>
	Yesterday was a very sad day for us and even though this is hard to write, I want to remember him here because then it&#39;ll always be here for me to look back and remember him.</p>

<p>
	The thing about ferrets is they often get very sick because of inbreeding. Most commonly in our experience, they end up with cancer, mainly in the form of abdominal tumors.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Just 4 or 5 days ago, Arthur was the most happy-go-lucky ferret you could imagine. Running around the room playing with us, bouncing and squeaking. On Saturday night, Adam fed him as usual before bed, but on Sunday, we saw he hadn&#39;t eaten much.</p>
<p>
	After we got home from church, we noticed it was really warm in the office where his cage is, so we rolled him into our bedroom because he seemed overheated and/or dehydrated. He was curious about what was happening and seemed otherwise all right.</p>
<p>
	But after I cleaned house a little while Adam was out grocery shopping, I slowly realized he was not all right. He seemed weak and lethargic. I took him out of the cage and set him on the floor, but he just hobbled forward a few steps and fell over, resting his head on the bottom of some furniture. If you know anything about ferrets, this is never a good sign. They pretty much want to be in everything all the time.</p>
<p>
	So I called Adam trying not to sound as panicked as I was because I knew he would stress out and he was just coming back from Publix. We agreed to drive Arthur to the emergency vet as soon as Adam got back.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I prepped his carrier and just sat with him. I put him up near his water, but he wasn&#39;t interested.</p>
<p>
	We rushed down to the emergency vet, hoping he could get some fluids and that maybe they&#39;d find out that he had a respiratory infection. But I think we both knew deep down it was going to be worse. Only, we really didn&#39;t guess how bad.</p>
<p>
	They took us right into an exam room and carted him off to get oxygen since he was breathing so raggedly. When the doctor came in, he grilled us on what Arthur&#39;s symptoms were and how long he&#39;d been having them. It almost seemed like he was trying to get at the point that we should&#39;ve noticed or done something sooner, but I don&#39;t think there was much to notice until that day.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Arthur in blanket.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	So then he said we should discuss options: either start diagnostics or consider easing his suffering.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I think, internally, we were both in total shock at this point. We brought Arthur in because we saw him not feeling well and suddenly they&#39;re telling us that one of our options is to consider putting him down.</p>
<p>
	It was too much to take in so fast.</p>
<p>
	Adam asked the doctor to give us a minute and we both instantly broke down when he left the room. I don&#39;t think either of us doubted for too long which way we were going to go, but it was so hard to say the words.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	In the past, Adam&#39;s ferret Ginger had gone through a similar experience. She had surgery and she did live several months longer. But it was mostly just buying time. It didn&#39;t really return her to her playful self; she rested a lot. We knew that we could maybe buy Arthur some time too, but that felt selfish. We wanted him for several more healthy years (he wasn&#39;t that old!), not just a few weeks or months of him being sick but alive.</p>
<p>
	After we signed all of the paperwork and decided to get his cremated remains to keep, they let us go back to say goodbye. (Can I just say that it was really difficult for me to talk about what to do with his remains while he was still alive? That sucked.)</p>
<p>
	It was so surreal.</p>
<p>
	Here was this little guy that we loved so much that we had played with just earlier in the week and we were suddenly saying goodbye. We had brought him to the doctor to get better and this felt all wrong, but my head knew it was the right choice.</p>
<p>
	We went over to the little oxygen box they had him in and while we were standing there, he was making some whining, whimpering noises and it sounded to pitiful. He had spiraled downhill so quickly.</p>
<p>
	I made sure to make eye contact with him and talk to him. Adam and I wanted his last moments to be of our touch, sounds and smells because I knew he loved us too. I knew he wouldn&#39;t be scared of where he was because he&#39;s fearless, but I thought maybe since he was in pain, it would be nice for him to have contact with something familiar, his parents.</p>
<p>
	After a minute (not long enough, but he was in such bad shape, we didn&#39;t want to drag it out! I mean, how long can be long enough?) Adam said, &quot;I love you, little guy&quot; and I said, &quot;Ni-night, Arthur.&quot; Things we said to him all the time.</p>
<p>
	I just wanted him to have something familiar.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Arthur with basketball.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Looking back, there were signs he was probably getting sick. Like some weight loss and thinning fur around his tail. But those symptoms can mean so many things and, in the end, even knowing he had a tumor early on probably wouldn&#39;t have made much difference.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m just glad we noticed he wasn&#39;t well when we did so that he wasn&#39;t lying around in pain any longer.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I just miss everything: his obsession with his peanut butter treats (and no other flavor!), how he loved pushing a full-sized basketball around the floor. How he squeaked and beeped so much when we were playing on the bed or I was chasing him around like a monster because he wasn&#39;t scared of anything and loved to play. I&#39;ll miss watching him crawl around on Adam&#39;s shoulders like a parrot and chasing the cats whenever he got the opportunity. Clipping his nails with all three of us in the bathtub together. How he always made a beeline for the cat&#39;s water bowl and flipped it over before we could catch him whenever he got the chance. Saying in a sing-song voice, &quot;Aaaaaarthuuuurrr&quot; whenever he hid under the dresser. Just his ferrety little smell.</p>
<p>
	You may find me/us strange or pathetic for loving a little ferret so much. But they&#39;re so smart and have such a great personality. Arthur in particular was really gentle and loved people. I will always have a soft place in my heart for animals, and above all, my own pets.</p>
<p>
	He may not have lived as long as he should have (and I can guilt myself over not spending more time with him, taking better care of him...), but as I told Adam ...</p>
<p>
	He would&#39;ve gotten sick no matter what. Whether we adopted him or someone else adopted him or whether he lived his whole life in the pet store. He still would&#39;ve gotten sick and gone too soon.</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m just glad it was us that got him.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Arthur in cage.jpg" style="width: 333px; height: 500px; " /></p>

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	Adam and I have come across a lot of new recipes in the last 6 months trying to build up a repertoire of healthy at-home meals. Some have been stinkers and some meh, but a good deal have been even better than we expected.</p>
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	I thought I&#39;d share one with you all that we have enjoyed more than half a dozen times already ... it&#39;s that good!</p>

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	What&#39;s great about this pizza is that it&#39;s low-calorie, it has a cornmeal crust that gives it some great flavor and crunch, and it&#39;s topped with delicious colorful veggies. You could easily switch out any you don&#39;t like for others that sound more appealing.</p>
<p>
	We make it during the week, but it&#39;s definitely a two-person job. Maybe more of a weekend lunch or dinner depending on your family and time constraints.</p>
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	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/mexican pizza 2(1).jpg" /></p>
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	I put the recipe in the sidebar (and it&#39;s also below), so there&#39;s not too much to discuss here. The recipe isn&#39;t tricky, it just has a lot of steps. Two notes though:</p>
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	<strong>Note 1:</strong></p>
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	In the original recipe, their flour quantity for the crust is impossible. I&#39;m always careful to measure exactly right, but it&#39;s always immensely sticky. And then they tell you to &quot;lightly flour&quot; a surface to knead the dough on.</p>
<p>
	Ha! Good luck with that. So I&#39;ve modified the recipe a bit.</p>
<p>
	The dough may still be sticky even if you use my measurements (depending on how &quot;packed&quot; your cups of flour are), so I&#39;ve also changed the directions from &quot;lightly flour&quot; to &quot;generously flour&quot; the counter. Dust your hands with flour, get a decent amount of flour on your kneading surface and replenish a few times as necessary.</p>
<p>
	Don&#39;t shy away from making your own crust! This one isn&#39;t daunting, I promise. Just mix the ingredients, keep everything well-floured as you knead, let the dough sit and then press into the proper size on the baking sheet. No rising or punching or anything tricky.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Note 2:</strong></p>
<p>
	We tend to cook and shred our own chicken, but this does take time and isn&#39;t the fun part. I choose to do it this way because first, I&#39;m sort of against pre-cooked, canned chicken because A) it seems weird and B) I imagine it&#39;s chock full of sodium.</p>
<p>
	The other option that sounds good to me would be to buy a fresh rotisserie chicken from the deli. The ONLY reason I don&#39;t do this is that I would totally end up wasting the rest of it and this recipe doesn&#39;t use all that much.</p>
<p>
	In fact, we don&#39;t even use the full amount that the recipe suggests. But if you&#39;re one of those clever people who could use the rest of the rotisserie to make sandwiches, soups or other meals during the week, I would highly recommend going this way and saving yourself some time and labor!</p>
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	And with that, I&#39;ll stop talking. Check out the recipe!&nbsp;</p>

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	<em>From Eat Better America (a General Mills project)</em></p>
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		1 3/4 C. all-purpose flour, divided</li>
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		1 Tbsp. sugar</li>
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		1 1/4 tsp. regular active dry yeast</li>
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		1/4 tsp. coarse salt</li>
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		3/4 C. warm water</li>
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		1 Tbsp. olive oil</li>
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		1/3 C. yellow cornmeal, plus additional for dusting</li>
	<li>
		6 oz shredded Mexican cheese blend</li>
	<li>
		1 1/2 C. shredded cooked chicken breast (less than 1 lb.)</li>
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		1 can (14.5 oz) fire roasted or plain diced tomatoes, drained</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. yellow bell pepper, chopped (1 medium)</li>
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		1/4 C. scallions, sliced</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. fresh cilantro, chopped</li>
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	&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Heat oven to 450&deg;F.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Prep the toppings:</strong></p>
<p>
	If using raw chicken, place chicken breast(s) in a pot and fill with water to about an inch over the chicken. Bring to a boil and let boil 8-10 minutes, or until chicken is white through the middle when cut open. Shred with two forks or cut into small pieces. (Note: You can also grill or prepare the chicken in any other way; this is just quick and easy. Buy rotisserie or canned chicken to save a step.)</p>
<p>
	While chicken is cooking, wash and prep your veggie toppings.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Make the crust:</strong></p>
<p>
	In medium bowl, mix 3/4 cup of the flour, the sugar, yeast and salt. Stir in warm water and olive oil. Beat with electric mixer on low speed 30 seconds. Beat on high speed 1 minute. Stir in 1/3 cup cornmeal and remaining 1 cup flour to make a soft dough.</p>
<p>
	On a generously floured surface, knead dough until smooth and elastic, about 5 minutes. Add additional flour as needed to keep from sticking. Wrap in plastic wrap; let rest 10 minutes.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Bake the crust:</strong></p>
<p>
	Spray a large baking sheet with cooking spray; sprinkle with additional cornmeal. On baking sheet, press dough into 14x10-inch rectangle. (Note: The crust likes to shrink back a bit as you work. Just keep at it until it&#39;s the right size.)</p>
<p>
	Prick the crust all over with a fork. Bake 8 to 10 minutes or until edges just begin to turn brown.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Finish the pizza:</strong></p>
<p>
	Sprinkle with 1 cup of the cheese blend. Top with chicken, tomatoes and bell pepper. Sprinkle with remaining 1 cup cheese. Bake 6 to 8 minutes or until cheese is melted and edges are golden brown.</p>
<p>
	Sprinkle with onions and cilantro.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<em>Makes 12 slices</em></p>
<p>
	<em>Calories: 170 per slice; Serving size: 2 slices.&nbsp;</em></p>


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<p>
	I really could&#39;ve used this about 5-10 years ago. It would&#39;ve been written on the inside of my hand for every time I was hanging out with ... just about everyone I know.</p>
<p>
	Thank you, Chris Grace, for providing this list of &quot;What to Say When Friends Are Discussing Video Games That You Have Not Played.&quot;&nbsp;It&#39;s not entirely too late to benefit me.</p>

<p>
	<u>From McSweeneys.net:</u></p>
<p>
	<strong>Mario (Kart variety):</strong> &ldquo;I love the turtles.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Mario (non-Kart variety):</strong> &ldquo;I hate the turtles.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Zelda (all):</strong> &ldquo;My favorite part is this [mime playing wind instrument].&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Halo:</strong> &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t you hate snipers?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Call of Duty:</strong> &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t you hate snipers?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Team Fortress 2:</strong> &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t you hate snipers?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Sniper:</strong> &ldquo;Don&rsquo;t you hate that game?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Portal:</strong> &ldquo;I love Jonathan Coulton.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Portal 2:</strong> &ldquo;I still love Jonathan Coulton.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Duke Nukem Forever:</strong> &ldquo;How ironically are you playing it?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Mass Effect:</strong> &ldquo;I love how long the game is.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Mass Effect 2:</strong> &ldquo;I love how much longer the game is.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Metal Gear Solid (all):</strong> &ldquo;I love how weird the game is.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Mortal Kombat:</strong> &ldquo;FINISH HIM, right?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Street Fighter:</strong> &ldquo;Hayuuuuken, right?&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Grand Theft Auto:</strong> &ldquo;I love the wide-open world.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Red Dead Redemption:</strong> &ldquo;I love the wide-open world, and the horses.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>LA Noire:</strong> &ldquo;I love the wide-open world, and the hats.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Bioshock:</strong> &ldquo;Big Daddy!&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Bioshock 2:</strong> &ldquo;Little Sister!&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Gears of War:</strong> &ldquo;I love fighting in urban environments.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Gears of War 2:</strong> &ldquo;I love fighting inside worms.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Pokemon:</strong> &ldquo;Pikachu uses Thunderbolt!&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>All sports games:</strong> &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t understand why they took out that feature I liked from last year&rsquo;s version.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>All other games:</strong> &ldquo;It looks pretty, but I wish they&rsquo;d put more work into improving the gameplay.&rdquo;</p>
<p>
	<strong>Pac-Man:</strong> &ldquo;Did your daughter decide to go to Emerson or UConn?&rdquo;</p>

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<title>Photo LOL for Monday afternoon</title>
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	Because don&#39;t we all need a reason to smile on Mondays?</p>
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	Click!</p>
<p>
	You know you want to.</p>

<p>
	<strong>I hear you have butter.</strong></p>
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	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/i_hear_you_have_butter.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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<p>
	We are now in the throes of what I like to refer to as the countdown until the Earth implodes and we all become one with its internal lava because that&#39;s what it feels like, right?</p>
<p>
	Orlando has to be one of the worst places to spend a summer on the planet. (Why do I live here?)&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	July and August are the months that absolutely hate me. I want to like them, I really do, for many reasons. Not the least of which is that my birthday falls in their midst. (Obviously, my parents are to blame.)</p>
<p>
	Summer sounds great in theory, and maybe in other parts of the world, it actually is great. Pool parties, grilling, days in the park, whatever. But that&#39;s only fun if you aren&#39;t getting instantly scalded. The fun factor goes away when you discover that parts of your body are sweating that really didn&#39;t seem like they had that capability.</p>
<p>
	So what happens in reality is I end up not seeing the sun from late June until fall because I stay inside and close all the blinds and curtains to keep our utilities bill from moving past ridiculous into the realm of ludicrous.</p>
<p>
	(And you all wonder how I manage to stay so pale living in Florida!)</p>
<p>
	I drive past the huge tourist groups waiting at the trolley stops on International Drive and all I can think is, dear God, why did they think this was a good idea? They&#39;re all going to go back to their hotels with heat stroke and rashes, only to end up drinking our nasty sulfur-water to keep from passing out. I will never understand why anyone from up north or overseas would venture to Florida at this time of year, especially because non-natives are so much more likely to spontaneously asphyxiate in this humidity.</p>
<p>
	I see them waiting in lines over 100 people long on those huge water slides and try to calculate how red they&#39;ll be by the time they get go down.</p>
<p>
	I suppose different people have different ideas of what&#39;s fun and different levels of tolerance to skin cancer, but for myself, I&#39;m happy to spend my days sucking ice and lying under the fan in my living room in the dark at midday every weekend.</p>
<p>
	How do you spend your summers?</p>

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<p>
	As promised, here&#39;s some of the more interesting stuff I&#39;ve been up to over the last few weeks.&nbsp;Starting with a road trip to North Carolina.</p>
<p>
	It&#39;s a long one, so pull up a comfy chair! And maybe grab a cup of coffee. And a cookie. Just for good measure.</p>

<p>
	For some weird reason, my company gave us both Friday, July 1 and Monday, July 4 off as holidays this year and, as always, we get released early the day before a holiday, so I was done at work by 3 p.m. Thursday. So Adam, Thomas and I packed everything into my car and got on the road by 3:30. (I love tacking vacation time onto holiday weekends to stretch those suckers out as long as possible.)</p>
<p>
	We got to Adam&#39;s mom&#39;s house at 1:30 a.m. After sharing greetings, I went to the bathroom to wash up for bed and after bending down to throw something in the trash, I stood up and WHAM!</p>
<p>
	See, the cabinets hanging over the sink come out about a foot farther than the countertop, and the trash can is right next to the counter. So I smacked the top of my head into the underside of the cabinets. At 2:15 in the morning. At the end of a 10-hour road trip.</p>
<p>
	Awesome.</p>
<p>
	(Though I won&#39;t lie. I whacked my head in exactly the same spot, in exactly the same way the very next morning. See, this is what you love about me. I&#39;m clumsy &nbsp;and I don&#39;t mind sharing.)</p>
<p>
	Anyway, we went there to see this pretty lady:</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/edith.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Who was very happy to see us too and walked us around her 4.5-acre yard. The tour was more for Thomas since he hadn&#39;t been there before, but it was nice to stretch our legs and see all of the pretty growing things.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/backyard tour.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	Adam took lots of pretty pictures and we all marveled at how much easier it was to breathe without the Florida humidity.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	There were a ton of blackberry bushes on the fringes of the yard, so we went to town.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/blackberry bush.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	One of my favorite memories from going to North Carolina when I was a kid is of picking wild blackberries, popping them right in my mouth and liking them SO much better than store bought. Here they are, bugs and all. It was even fun getting my hands stained purple.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/picked blackberries.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	After washing these, we turned them into an absolutely delicious cobbler with a scoop of vanilla ice cream on top. Talk about fresh out of the earth and into mah belleh!</p>
<p>
	On a transitional note, Adam also took some ... less ... pretty pictures...</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Thomas gum.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	We all piled into the car to go zip lining! It was so much fun and I was surprisingly not scared, even though I have this thing with heights. Unfortunately, we don&#39;t have any pictures because we weren&#39;t sure about the logistics of the harnesses, etc. and didn&#39;t know, first of all, if we would be able to hold a camera while out there and secondly, we didn&#39;t know if there would be any opportunity to take pictures.</p>
<p>
	We could have and there was. Oh well.</p>
<p>
	(Here&#39;s the obligatory picture Adam has to take since he&#39;s always the one behind the camera.) Oh yeah, and if you look closely, you&#39;ll see that Edith (driving), Adam and Thomas (in the previous picture) all wore green shirts to zip line. I felt like I missed a memo.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/adam.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	So now this story takes a windy turn. No, I guess the best way is to finish up telling you about what we did in North Carolina and then backtrack a little and tell you about what North Carolina did to us.</p>
<p>
	On the fourth, we played games, grilled hot dogs, charred up some s&#39;mores and shot off lots of amazing fireworks. And let me tell you, sitting outside at night waiting for the next mortar to be sent up, it was so nice just to stare at all the trillions of stars that I haven&#39;t seen in a while.</p>
<p>
	Here&#39;s my best long exposure sparkler drawing:</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/cactus.jpg" /></p>
<p>
	Right?? Totally wicked cactus, baby! I&#39;m awesome.</p>
<p>
	Okay, so amid all of the fun things we got to do, there was something not so fun that kept us from doing other things we had planned. Here goes.</p>
<p>
	Pat, Edith&#39;s dog, stayed with friends of hers while she was out of town. She just got back to her house a couple days before the three of us arrived, so she had no time to realize that she had a problem. Pat had contracted fleas. Said fleas then infested the house. The yard. Her car. And us.</p>
<p>
	I want to say this plainly: It was in no way her fault. So any of the subsequent gripings or moanings that may squeak out of my keyboard are strictly complaints against the situation itself.</p>
<p>
	I have dealt with fleas twice previously. In college, Jessica&#39;s cats somehow picked up the pests and it took us a couple weeks to evict them from our carpet. That sucked.&nbsp;Then, at Katie &amp; Patrick&#39;s wedding, I was bitten all over my feet by what I can only deduce were sand fleas since I walked barefoot for some of their photos. That sucked as well.</p>
<p>
	And then this. Let me just say that you should be very glad that I didn&#39;t take any pictures of my bites even though more photos would help break up this text.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	I must have gotten 60-80 bites from about knee-height up to the one just under my bellybutton. I look homeless. And diseased. (Thankfully, I can hide it all with a little invention I like to call &quot;pants.&quot;)</p>
<p>
	The bite locations probably sound weird initially, but I think it&#39;s because I got most of my bites while I was riding in the backseat of her car, so I was sitting with fleas. And let me add this little nugget...</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m allergic to them.</p>
<p>
	On the same day I got my bites, I started to itch like fire. Now, from what we&#39;ve read on Dr. Internet, flea bites tend to hang around for about 2 weeks, but they don&#39;t itch for the first week. However, thanks to my allergic reaction, I couldn&#39;t sit, walk, stand or lie down without itching. And I couldn&#39;t scratch them because God only knows how much worse that would&#39;ve made it!</p>
<p>
	I became paranoid. I ran from one room to the next, immediately hopping onto a chair and checking my feet. I glanced down at my legs and feet every time my skin crawled just to make sure there was nothing there.</p>
<p>
	See this? This picture looks nice and peaceful until I tell you that this was me trying to find somewhere to hide from the fleas. (And geez, could I be any whiter? Seriously.)</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/liz hammock.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	We sealed up all our possessions in garbage bags and threw them in my trunk before leaving. I made everyone check their feet and legs before letting them into my car. I could NOT get bitten anymore and I could NOT bring any fleas back to Orlando with me!</p>
<p>
	Thankfully, we did not. I haven&#39;t seen a single flea since. The only bad news is that a week after initially getting bitten, right about the time my allergic reaction started to subside, the bites started to itch again like crazy. (Adam&#39;s started itching then too, but his hadn&#39;t bothered him until then.) I almost cried.</p>
<p>
	So I didn&#39;t get as much done on my vacation as I had wanted to since I mostly sat around in my underwear for 3 days after getting back. (Clothes rub.)</p>
<p>
	Of course, all of this doesn&#39;t mean that I didn&#39;t have a great time because I did. It actually makes me want to go back again next year so we can do some of the hiking and other things that got crossed off of our itinerary after this unfortunate incident.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	But I will say this: If I ever see another flea again, I may go comatose.</p>
<p>
	To see all of the pictures from our trip, <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/elixirgraphics/sets/72157627038524037/">click here</a>.</p>

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	Sorry it&#39;s been so long since my last entry. I&#39;ve been a little distracted, but I&#39;ve also been out of town on vacation and am now trying to get back into a flow at work. I&#39;m hoping to post something maybe today or at least by the end of the week about my trip to NC and related topics.&nbsp;</p>

<p>
	It&#39;s hard to always keep up with both living my life and then writing about it! But I will try to get back on track. Please check back. I have not abandoned you!</p>
<p>
	Though Thomas may have. I don&#39;t know. Doesn&#39;t look good.</p>
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	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/thomas zonked out.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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	Just for Sarah Beth, I&#39;ve posted the Roasted Tomato Feta Scones recipe in the sidebar. The recipe can also be found inside this entry at the bottom. Click &quot;Read More&quot; for a few tips on making them.</p>

<p>
	<strong>1.</strong> The roasted&nbsp;tomatoes were the one ingredient I had a little issue with. For one thing, I was shopping in Whole Foods and I still have trouble finding certain things in that store. So I didn&#39;t find the deli section roasted tomatoes that are indicated in the recipe. I ended up using a can of Muir Glen organic roasted tomatoes, drained.&nbsp;They were delicious, so consider that option if you run into a similar problem.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	My one piece of advice, no matter which tomatoes you use, is to increase the amount slightly. I measured out 1/4 C. of tomatoes, but I really felt they were too sparse! In fact, I wonder if the recipe is a little shy with its quantity because the original pictures make the scones look a lot more tomato-filled than mine actually were.</p>
<p>
	In the recipe, I&#39;ve increased it to a max of 1/3 C. But honestly, use as many as you want. I&#39;d recommend at least a rounded 1/4 C. so you can enjoy that wonderful flavor. Considering that scones are biscuity (i.e., dry and crumbly) the filling is what really makes them. Don&#39;t skimp!</p>
<p>
	<strong>2.</strong>&nbsp;Since this was a surprise dinner, I couldn&#39;t allow my cameraman to take any pictures of the construction of the scones. Reference&nbsp;<a href="http://savorysweetlife.com/2011/05/roasted-tomato-feta-scones/">the site I got the recipe from</a>&nbsp;for some images that might help you visualize the steps.</p>
<p>
	<strong>3.</strong>&nbsp;Obviously the easiest way to make the dough is to use a food processor. But fear not, if you don&#39;t have one, you can cut in the butter the old-fashioned way, as the recipe instructs.</p>

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	<em>From SavorySweetLife.com</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 C. all-purpose flour</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. baking powder</li>
	<li>
		1/2 tsp. garlic salt</li>
	<li>
		4 Tbsp. cold unsalted butter, cut into cubes</li>
	<li>
		3/4 C. heavy cream</li>
	<li>
		1 egg slightly beaten</li>
	<li>
		1 &ndash; 4 oz package feta cheese</li>
	<li>
		1/4-1/3 C. roasted red tomatoes, chopped (can be found in bulk in the olive bar at your grocery store)</li>
	<li>
		2 scallions, finely sliced</li>
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<p>
	<strong>Making the dough:</strong></p>
<p>
	Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Prep all ingredients. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.</p>
<p>
	Place the flour, baking powder, garlic salt and butter in a food processor. Pulsate everything in 3-second intervals until the mixture resembles coarse meal. If doing this by hand, use 2 knives, a pastry blender or your fingers.</p>
<p>
	Transfer everything to a large bowl. Stir in heavy cream and egg, mixing the dough by hand until it comes together.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Mixing it all together:</strong></p>
<p>
	Add feta cheese, roasted tomatoes, and green onions. Gently mix the ingredients by hand until the savory ingredients are evenly distributed.</p>
<p>
	On a floured surface, form a big dough ball. Flatten the dough into a 1 inch disk and cut it in 8 equal pieces.</p>
<p>
	Place on baking sheet and bake for 15 minutes. Remove scones from baking sheet and cool on a wire rack.</p>


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	I&#39;ve been remiss keeping up with everything the last week or two, so I&#39;m going to combine Katie &amp; Patrick&#39;s wedding with a celebration of it being 6 years since Adam and I first started holding hands. I really should have done these separately, but I am tired! So don&#39;t judge.</p>

<p>
	First, the big event! Who knows when Katie &amp; Patrick will get their official photos back, but I&#39;m lucky enough to have a husband who remembers to take pictures of his own, so here&#39;s a snapshot of each half of the lovely couple just before they walked down the aisle.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Katie.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 250px; height: 334px; " />&nbsp;<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Patrick.jpg" style="cursor: default; " /></p>
<p>
	And secondly, a shot of both my bridesmaid dress and my updo, mainly for Adinah who asked to see them ;). Please keep in mind that the hair photo was taken at around midnight, about 10 hours after it was first styled. So it&#39;s slightly disheveled in one or two places.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Liz bridesmaid.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 250px; height: 333px; " />&nbsp;<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/Liz updo.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 250px; height: 334px; " /></p>
<p>
	The wedding was gorgeous and fun, and the newlyweds are freshly back from their honeymoon cruise! Congratulations!!</p>
<p>
	Next up, Adam and I have officially been a couple for 6 years, so we made our annual photo booth trip and I cooked a fancy dinner so we could celebrate at home. First, the film strip:</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/6-year photo strip.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 124px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Yeah ... so, that last one there didn&#39;t really pan out. We have this way of holding hands that&#39;s special to us, but it didn&#39;t really translate in the picture (mainly because our heads were hitting the ceiling and it was a really awkward way to stand). At any rate, I did manage to look like I have 3 arms, so ... bonus!</p>
<p>
	And now, some phone pictures that Adam took for me of my fancy dinner. First up, we have a roasted tomato &amp; feta scone. Delicious!!! And much easier than you might think. (If anyone&#39;s interested in the recipe for these or any of the other items below, let me know and I&#39;ll post them.) &nbsp;</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/scone.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	After the appetizer, I served the main dish: a spring mix salad with red grapes &amp; pistachio-crusted goat cheese with prosciutto-wrapped scallops.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/prosciutto scallops.jpg" style="cursor: default; width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	Complemented by some dark chocolate-covered strawberries. Yum!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/choc strawberries.jpg" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	I also got a bottle of &quot;champagne&quot; which we ended up liking a lot. It&#39;s usually a crapshoot for me when I&#39;m trying to find bubbly. I didn&#39;t want to spend the $45+ on a true bottle of champagne, but the bottle of sparkling wine I ended up picking turned out to be perfect. Not too dry, not too expensive! Oh, and some sunflowers because it&#39;s Adam&#39;s favorite and therefore the flower I gave him when we started dating. Cheers!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/cheers.jpg" style="width: 375px; height: 500px; " /></p>
<p>
	All righty, hope you enjoyed the photos. This past week has involved a lot of celebration and I could really use a nap!</p>
<p>
	(I shouldn&#39;t let this post end without mentioning the recent mom birthdays as well. We celebrated Edith&#39;s birthday last weekend since she was in town and had some lovely tiramisu cupcakes! And yesterday was my mom&#39;s birthday. I don&#39;t have a photo for either of those, but Happy Birthday, Moms! Hope neither of you is weirded out by these shout outs appearing in a post called &quot;Romance Roundup.&quot; Lol.)</p>

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	Whoo, I ate a lot of food last night!</p>

<p>
	The bachelorette party was last night and we went to one of Katie&#39;s favorite places: Kobe.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	It had been so long since the last time I was there that I forgot how good the food is, but I also forgot how <em>much</em> food there is!</p>
<p>
	I didn&#39;t finish anything that was put in front of me, but still, when you consider that includes soup, salad, veggies, lo mein, fried rice and a meat or meats of your choice ... even if you only eat half of everything, it&#39;s still a bellyful!</p>
<p>
	It didn&#39;t stop me from trying Katie&#39;s green tea <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mochi_ice_cream">mochi ice cream</a> though. I&#39;m always up for new foods!&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Apparently we decided to make fitting into our recently altered dresses a challenge because tomorrow night&#39;s rehearsal dinner will find us at Macaroni Grill. Mmmm ... carbs.</p>
<p>
	In a way, this week is really great because I&#39;m not going to be home a single night. Of course, that&#39;s also tiring. But what I mean is that Adam and I have our regular routines and it&#39;s nice to break out of the norm once in a while to liven things up. It was fun chatting it up with the girls last night and being out late on a weeknight (woohoo!).</p>
<p>
	I&#39;m also excited to finally see the wedding venue because I haven&#39;t been there yet. It&#39;s so nice to have fun things happening this week to make work fly by! In case I haven&#39;t linked to it yet, here&#39;s their <a href="http://katielovespatrick.com/">wedding site</a>. (It can be found at either katielovespatrick.com or patrickloveskatie.com. Because both things are true!)</p>
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	I hope everybody had a nice Memorial Day weekend!</p>
<p>
	I found some more beautiful rhubarb at Whole Foods (and some frozen at Publix for off-season!), so I made dessert #2 and the iced tea I mentioned. I don&#39;t know how it is where you are, but here in Orlando, the heat is already giving our A/C the fight of its life, so what could be better than a cold, refreshing fruit tea?</p>

<p>
	The tea was definitely up my alley, but I&#39;ll admit it&#39;s probably not for everyone. It strongly reminded me of pomegranate juice, though not as tart. It just had a very similar flavor. So if that type of thing is for you, then you&#39;d probably like this.&nbsp;</p>
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	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/rhubarb iced tea 2.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I guess it&#39;s called an iced tea because of the way you brew the rhubarb in water, strain and then chill, but there&#39;s absolutely no tea in it. Very refreshing on a hot day!</p>
<p>
	Turning to the tartlets (which, by the way, all I can think of when I use that word anymore is <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WjzyAHKYJ8M">this clip</a>), surprisingly or not, both Adam and I liked these even better than the Strawberry-rhubarb pie!</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/3 rhubarb-raspberry tartlets.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>
<p>
	I don&#39;t think it was because we like raspberries better than strawberries (although the pairing of two tart flavors was incredible) so much as it was a more enjoyable delivery system. By which I mean, there is a lot higher crust to fruit ratio here. Plus, I think because you add flour to the fruit mix and also a little bit under the fruit before you bake it, you don&#39;t end up with any juice pooling in the bottom. Therefore, the tartlet crusts stay drier than the bottom pie crust.</p>
<p>
	Also, these weren&#39;t nearly as hard as I thought they might be. The crust recipe appears to be the same (if memory serves) as the pie crust I normally use, but I did go with the food processor method, which is always easier on my arms.</p>
<p>
	I would definitely make these again and I&#39;m already thinking of all the variations. Other fruits or fruit combinations as well as savory tarts with onions or mushrooms. Oooh, I better stop. I&#39;m getting hungry.</p>
<p>
	<img alt="" src="http://thedarlingstarling.com/bloguploads/close-up rhubarb tartlet.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 333px; " /></p>

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	<em>From marthastewart.com.</em></p>
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	<em><strong>Difficulty Rating:</strong> 2 out of 10.</em></p>
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	<u>For Crust:</u></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 1/2 C. all-purpose flour</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. coarse salt</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. sugar</li>
	<li>
		1 C. (2 sticks) chilled unsalted butter, cut into pieces</li>
	<li>
		1/4 to 1/2 C. ice water</li>
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<p>
	<u>For Filling:</u></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		1 1/2 lbs. (about 5 1/2 C.) trimmed rhubarb, cut into 1/4-inch pieces</li>
	<li>
		1/2 lb. (8 oz. or just over 1 pint) raspberries</li>
	<li>
		1 C. all-purpose flour, plus more for work surface</li>
	<li>
		2 C. sugar, plus more for sprinkling</li>
</ul>
<p>
	<strong>Prepping the Ingredients:</strong></p>
<p>
	Cut butter into cubes and set back in fridge or freezer to stay cold. Fill 1/2 C. measuring cup with cold water and set in fridge or freezer to stay cold.</p>
<p>
	Wash and chop all produce.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the filling:</strong></p>
<p>
	Combine rhubarb, berries, 1/2 C. flour, and 2 C. sugar in a medium bowl; set aside.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the Crust:</strong></p>
<p>
	Place the 2 1/2 C. flour, 1 tsp. salt, and 1 tsp. sugar in the bowl of a food processor, and process for a few seconds to combine. Add the butter pieces to the flour mixture, and process until the mixture resembles coarse meal, about 10 seconds. Add the ice water in a slow, steady stream, pouring it through the feed tube with the machine running, just until the dough holds together. Do not process for more than 30 seconds.</p>
<p>
	Divide dough evenly into 8 pieces. On a lightly floured surface, roll out each piece of dough into a rough circle about 7 inches in diameter and 1/8 inch thick. Chill dough until just cold and easy to work with, about 30 minutes. <em>Liz Tip: I piled the dough disks on one plate with a layer of plastic wrap between each to prevent sticking.</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>Building the Tartlets:</strong></p>
<p>
	Line two baking sheets with parchment paper. <em>Liz Tip: Build the tartlets directly on the baking sheets if you don&#39;t want to have to move them.</em></p>
<p>
	Spoon 1 tablespoon flour in the center of each unbaked shell. Cover with about 1/2 cup rhubarb mixture, spreading the mixture out to about 1 inch from edge of shell. Fold edges of the shells over the rhubarb filling, leaving the tarts open in the center; gently brush between the folds with water, and press gently on folds so that the dough adheres together.</p>
<p>
	Return to the refrigerator to chill at least 30 minutes.&nbsp;Preheat oven to 400 degrees.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Baking:</strong></p>
<p>
	Remove the tartlets from the refrigerator, brush them with water, and sprinkle with sugar. Place in oven to bake until the crust is golden brown, about 30 minutes, rotating pans halfway through. Reduce heat to 350 degrees, and continue to bake until the juices are bubbly and just starting to run out from center of each tartlet, 10 to 12 minutes more, rotating pans as needed. Transfer immediately to a wire rack, and let cool before serving.</p>


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	<em>From marthastewart.com.</em></p>
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	<em><strong>Difficulty Rating:</strong> 1 out of 10.</em></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		8 stalks rhubarb, cut into 3-inch lengths</li>
	<li>
		8 C. water</li>
	<li>
		1/3 C. sugar, or to taste</li>
	<li>
		Fresh mint sprigs, for garnish (optional)</li>
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	In a large saucepan, combine rhubarb and 8 cups water; bring to a boil.</p>
<p>
	Reduce heat and simmer for 1 hour.</p>
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	Strain the liquid, add sugar to taste, stirring to dissolve, and allow to cool.</p>
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	Serve over ice with a sprig of mint (optional).</p>


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	<em>From smittenkitchen.com.</em></p>
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	<em><strong>Difficulty Rating:</strong> 2 out of 10.</em></p>
<p>
	<strong>For crust:</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		2 1/2 C. flour</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. sugar</li>
	<li>
		1 tsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		2 sticks (16 Tbsp.) unsalted butter, very cold</li>
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<p>
	<strong>For pie:</strong></p>
<ul>
	<li>
		3 1/2 C. (about 1 1/2 - 2 lbs., untrimmed) rhubarb, in 1/2-inch thick slices</li>
	<li>
		3 1/2 C. (about 1 lb.) strawberries, hulled and sliced if big, halved if tiny</li>
	<li>
		1/2 C. granulated sugar</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. light brown sugar</li>
	<li>
		1 Tbsp. lemon juice</li>
	<li>
		1/4 tsp. salt</li>
	<li>
		1/4 C. quick-cooking tapioca</li>
	<li>
		2 Tbsp. unsalted butter, cut into small pieces</li>
	<li>
		1 large egg yolk beaten to blend with 1 tsp. water (for glaze)</li>
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<p>
	<strong>Making the crust:</strong></p>
<p>
	Fill a one cup liquid measuring cup with water, and drop in a few ice cubes; set it aside. Cut butter into 1/2 pieces and set in fridge or freezer.</p>
<p>
	In a large bowl, whisk together dry ingredients for crust (flour, sugar, salt).</p>
<p>
	Sprinkle the butter cubes over the flour and begin working them in with a pastry blender. When all of the butter pieces are the size of tiny peas stop.</p>
<p>
	Start by drizzling 1/2 cup of the ice-cold water (but not the cubes, if there are any left!) over the butter and flour mixture. Using a rubber or silicon spatula, gather the dough together. You&rsquo;ll probably need an additional 1/4 cup of cold water to bring it together, but add it a tablespoon as a time. Once you&rsquo;re pulling large clumps with the spatula, take it out and get your hands in there. Gather the disparate damp clumps together into one mound, kneading them gently together.</p>
<p>
	Divide the dough in half, and place each half on a large piece of plastic wrap. Let the dough chill in the fridge for one to two hours before rolling it out.</p>
<p>
	<strong>Making the filling and building the pie:</strong></p>
<p>
	Preheat oven to 400 degrees. On a well-floured counter, roll half of pie dough into a 12-inch circle and carefully transfer to a 9-inch pie plate.&nbsp;</p>
<p>
	Stir together rhubarb, strawberries, sugars, lemon, salt and tapioca in a large bowl. Mound filling inside bottom pie crust and dot with bits of unsalted butter.</p>
<p>
	Roll second half of pie dough into an 11-inch circle and cut decorative slits in it. Transfer it to center over the pie filling. Trim top and bottom pie dough so that their overhang beyond the pie plate lip is only 1/2-inch. Tuck rim of dough underneath itself and crimp it decoratively.</p>
<p>
	Transfer pie to a baking sheet and brush egg yolk mixture over dough.</p>
<p>
	Bake for 20 minutes then reduce temperature to 350 degrees and bake for an additional 25 to 30 minutes, until the pie is golden and the juices bubble visibly.</p>
<p>
	Transfer pie to wire rack to cool. When fully cool (several hours later) the juices gel. &nbsp;</p>


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	Okay, so maybe it&#39;s not technically summer, but as soon as the temperatures hit the mid-90s and the humidity climbs above 60%, it might as well be. And summer temperatures call for summer produce and ... baking! Which of course I can&#39;t resist.</p>

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	It all started innocently, with Adam and me running by Whole Foods to look for a beverage they sell there that I can&#39;t find anywhere else. Ironically, they were totally out of stock of my drink but I wound up going home with a couple pounds of rhubarb, two bags of key limes and a fistful of tulips.&nbsp;</p>
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	You may call me crazy when it comes to baked sweets, but I really think it&#39;s just a matter of impatience. Things finally came back in season that I have been waiting so long for!</p>
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	So I made two pies this weekend. Two! (See recipes in sidebar.)</p>
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	I began by making my first ever <a href="http://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/Key-Lime-Pie-108125">key lime pie</a>. Did you know how easy these are? If I had, I wouldn&#39;t have waited so many years to make my own. I almost never find a really great one in restaurants. Personally, I love a pucker-worthy tart pie with a sweet whipped cream to offset it. I&#39;m a huge fan of flavor contrasts. Too often, both the pie and the cream are sweet and I get overwhelmed by the sugar. This one was perfect!</p>
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	Oh, and did you know there are only 6 ingredients not counting the whipped cream? I cheated on that anyway and bought the bottled stuff since we were eating it out by the pool. Also, I made the wonderful discovery that you can buy graham crackers already in crumb form! Am I the last person to find that out?</p>
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	Admittedly, though, I&#39;m kind of a stickler for using fresh ingredients, so I did juice my own key limes, but if you were to buy bottled juice, you could turn out this sucker in like 30 minutes. Impressive!</p>
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	The same night I made the key lime pie (Friday), Adam was juicing limes (and lemons) of his own. We had a pool day on Saturday with a friend of mine from work and her family, so Adam decided to try his hand at some homemade sour mix. Oh man, those were some thirst-quenching margaritas!</p>
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	Now to the thing I have been most impatient about - rhubarb! After slicing into my first rhubarb for my project, I&#39;ve had to wait a year for a second round of rhubarb treats. So I picked out a classic for my first shot at this season&#39;s crop (which seems unfairly short, at least here in Florida): Strawberry-rhubarb pie.</p>
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	I&#39;d recently seen Smitten Kitchen&#39;s Deb post an i<a href="http://smittenkitchen.com/2010/06/strawberry-rhubarb-pie-improved/">mproved recipe</a> on her site and figured that was the way to go. And I swear that, for a change, my pie looks exactly like hers! It turned out perfectly.</p>
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	For whatever reason, I managed to produce the best pie crust I have made to date. I think it had to do with not adding too much water to the dough, which I am apt to do. I stopped when I was supposed to stop (okay, maybe I went a half-tablespoon over the recommendation) and it was so much better than the overly-sticky versions I usually end up with.</p>
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	The only mistake I made was in forgetting to put the pieces of butter on top of the fruit mixture before covering the pie, but you know, it still turned out wonderful (and with fewer calories!). The juices just didn&#39;t bubble over the top like in her last photo.</p>
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	Mmmm, strawberry sweetness! Mmmm, rhubarb tartness! Mmmm, buttery crust-ness! Total winner. I can&#39;t wait for my second slice tonight.</p>
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	Of course this means I have to run out in the next few days for my another batch of rhubarb. It&#39;s not going to be available for long, people! I have to try to crank out at least one more rhubarb dessert before the supply runs out for another year. Speaking of which, would you like to have a say in what I make? I&#39;m having trouble choosing one. Adam told me his favorite, so I&#39;ll probably make that one. But if the rhubarb supply lasts long enough for me to&nbsp;make one other, which would you like to see?</p>
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	He chose <a href="http://www.marthastewart.com/282309/individual-rhubarb-and-raspberry-tartlet?backto=true&amp;backtourl=/photogallery/rhubarb-recipes">this one</a>.</p>
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	<a href="http://www.marthastewart.com/256461/rhubarb-tart-with-lemon-yogurt-mousse?backto=true&amp;backtourl=/photogallery/rhubarb-recipes">These</a> are <a href="http://www.marthastewart.com/257026/rhubarb-crumb-bars?backto=true&amp;backtourl=/photogallery/rhubarb-recipes">some </a>of the <a href="http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/alton-brown/rhubarb-peach-cobbler-recipe/index.html">others</a> that I&#39;m deciding <a href="http://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/Rhubarb-Tart-with-Orange-Glaze-352290">between</a>. Help! (And no, I don&#39;t normally look at mostly Martha Stewart recipes. They just happened to have a slideshow of rhubarb treats up! How could I resist?)</p>
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	Also, I intend to make rhubarb iced tea, so I&#39;ll let you know how that is too. And I promise to take some pictures. I just got lazy this past weekend! Well, lazy about pictures anyway. I worked my tail off in the kitchen!</p>
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	Update: Adam took a quick iPhone shot for me. See? It really did turn out great!</p>
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